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Today we're discussing how loving men romantically is predicated on making GOOD BUSINESS DEALS

What's the ROI on this relationship? Are you getting more than you give? To me the dissatisfaction and "ruin" of women in relationships with men is less a man/woman problem and more a self-esteem issue. It's a lack of relational accounting skills. And the boyz have these, so we're studying them and learning from them.

This used to feel cynical to me because I love love. But having business sense doesn'rt negative love, it facilitates and protects it: boundaries, clarity, self-esteem, decisiveness and standards are the potting soil of love!

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I loved ‘The Invite’ and it had me thinking deeply about relationships, so let’s get into it. This is 20% movie review (spoilers included) and 80% musings on modern dating, relationships and gender psychology. I discuss:

• Dead bedrooms, desire and the suppression of sexual appetite
• Using romance to fulfil your unmet needs
• What happens when people look for a replacement parent in their partner (men looking for mothers and women looking for fathers)
• Why monogamous people are so pressed by polyamory

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Hi sweet treats! Here’s another recorded WayFinding session. Big big thank you to the lovely listener who let me share their session.

We discuss:

• What happens when your mind does not have a master 
• The importance of a Life Mission Statement
• When you have a solid identity, self-trust follows
• Prioritizing Identity work over Discipline selection is an inside job

A picture of my Truth Wall is in the Q+A section of my website, under the question ”what are your belies?”

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Firstly, if you’re actively suicidal please call your country’s suicide hotline, they’re angels <3 

The intention of this episode is to speak to folks who feel their life is not worth living anymore. I want to let you know that you aren’t alone and there is quite a bit to live for and these things have a low barrier to entry. I get into the literal specifics about 40min in. The first 40min are my thoughts on life and death, discussing why one might be suicidal, the different types of suicidality, and why I believe it is our moral imperative to live as colourful a life as possible. I have no moral position about whether suicide is “right”

 or “wrong”. I believe everyone has a right to choose to stay or go. I argue that it’s more rational to stay and explain why. If you’re struggling right now I am sending you the BIGGEST HUG. Life is tough, you are tougher

Things discussed:

• There is no shame in being depressed or suicidal
• How to find agency and purpose
• Self-esteem affects your will to live
• Boredom and ennui are deadly
• Self assertion and hobbies

Resources:

The episode that the lovely DM’er listened to: Ep157

the emotional scale

Merlin Zeitgeist - Best psychic ever!!! Tell him Mukundwa sent ya

self esteem book - I’ve not finished this book but I am enjoying it

An astrologer I have not booked with but am planning on: Theresa Touhey (Grand Trine Astrology)

General Links:

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Massive thank you to the lovely listener who let me share their session.

We discuss:

• Belonging and the myth of fitting in
• Reality selection is an inside job
• Identifying and shifting your inner critic

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The reality creation coach I reference: https://www.tiktok.com/@ellieinthe4d

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If you know what you need to do but cant bring yourself to do it, this isn’t “bad” sign. You’re just trying to leapfrog too many Identities at once. Let’s chat about it

• Coherence
• Energetic over-ambition leads to hectic rebounding
• You have to take your nervous system with you
• There is no rush, take your time with Identity Shifts - we are going nowhere slowly

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Happy Birthday to me and Hozier ❤️♓ I discuss 5 things I'm taking into my new year: the nature of you and god, video game theory, the importance of contrast, masculine and feminine energy, and loving men

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SEE YOU ON THE CALL ⭐

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Loved this season! But I am always glad when it’s all over 😂 On this episode I discuss:

• Jordan and Megan: is a wealth gap really that insurmountable?
• Kalybriah and Edmond: infantilizing men and accountability
• Madison and Joe: outsourcing intuition, attachment issues and attracting people at your resonance level
• Patrick and Kacie: Naïveté, Boundaries & Self-Esteem
• Ali and Anton: class and hypergamy
• Nick, Kait and Annie: Personas and performativity

REFERENCES

If you like hearing me discuss love check out my Love is Blind and Ultimatum episodes:

• “Love is Blind” Patreon Collection - https://www.patreon.com/collection/1687784 
• “The Ultimatum” Patreon Collection - https://www.patreon.com/collection/1273805 

145. Autistics STAND TF UP!! We have incredible intuition and perceptual skills, it's time to act like it : https://www.patreon.com/posts/145-autistics-tf-135474733?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link  

Join Patreon starting at $1. I’ve capped my earnings: everything above this threshold is donated to Gazans. Here’s where I will be donating, and where you can donate directly:

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So you want to take responsibility for your reality! Great. How do you do this with care, though? In a way that acknowledges your capacity, takes charge of what you can control while accepting what you cannot… Let’s discussssss:

• Understanding Manifestation and Reality Creation
• The Role of Belief Systems in Reality Creation
• The Importance of Evidence and Critical Thinking
• Response Over Reaction
• Determining Your Belief System
• The Benefits of Taking Responsibility
• When to Be Responsible and When Not To
• The Role of Astrology and Spiritual Philosophy
• Taking Responsibility for Relational Dynamics
• Creating distance to reduce self-criticism
• Should you take responsibility for external acts of trauma and suffering? 
• My simple Formula 
• Unnecessary Suffering
• Are you unlucky?

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