I Said What I Said

Episode is postponed! We'll discuss Ep12 + the reunion in one episode next week or the week after. In the meantime catch up with the Love Is Blind tea - specifically, TYLER and his 673 kids - via these links (available to all free+paid patreon members): https://www.patreon.com/posts/vol-6-114883413?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link

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Things have gone from bad to WORSE. We discuss Ep10 and 11, with no spoilers beyond Ep11 (but we do discuss a reddit theory about Tyler and his sperm donor situation). Trouble in paradise for Taylor and Garett, Tantrums and misunderstands between Tim and Alex, bullying in the air with Hannah and Nick D, and a lack of clarity between Tyler and Ashley - is the man a dad or not, come on nowwwww! The full 2hr episode is on Patreon which you can buy for a once-off fee, or become a monthly subscriber. Topics: 

• Marissa and Ramses: keeping up appearances, overemphasis on sex, do people understand marriage is a legal contract?
• Hannah and Nick D: bullying, gender norms, giving women the benefit of the doubt
• Gareth and Taylor: gaslighting, red flags and why lie by omission?!! 
• Tyler and Ashley: so was it sperm donation or a whole deadbeat dad?!!!!
• Tim and Alex: tantrums, depression, enmeshment and deadly power naps
• Feminism, gender dynamics, domestic responsibilities
• Are women easier to date than men

References:

Dating Detectives podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/5EFfjKxcZ7AskDVCUcrt7a?si=185658a465774055 

Doctor who helps incels: https://youtu.be/B_5N_aDu3u0?si=U-2PWLiFQQG0dIn8 

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Have these men lost their rabbit ass minds?!!! We discuss ep 5 from when they leave for vacation, all the way through to half way through Ep9, with no spoilers beyond Ep9. Raw sex, military drama, the ick, no retirement plans - we unpack this and more on this episode. The full 2hr episode on Patreon which you can buy for a once-off fee, or become a monthly subscriber. Topics: 

• Monica and Stephen: hypogamy, tense relationship Dynamics, cheating
• Hannah and Nick D: Compatibility Issues, childishness and failure to launch
• Alex and Tim: conflict styles, poor communication and unresolved trauma
• Garrett and Taylor: is he actually into her?
• Ashley and Tyler: verbal affirmation and lies
• Marissa and Ramses: reproductive health, patriotism and politics

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This season is COOKED! Hard to get through but fun to discuss. The full 2hr episode on Patreon which you can buy for a once-off fee, or become a monthly subscriber. We discuss Ep1 all the way through to half way through Ep5. We end after the couples meet and before they go on holiday. There are no spoilers beyond Ep5. We discuss: 

• First Impressions of the Show (we hate it but are committed lol)
• Leo and Brittany: manipulation, coercion, Jewish Guilt, epigenetics
• Hannah and Nick D: 
• White beauty standards, dating as a racial minority
• Taylor and Garrett's Relationship: “secrecy” and privilege 
• Monica and Stephen: America’s relationship with blackness and the one drop rule
• Marissa and Ramses: gender dynamics, masculinity, emotional availability, and dating Trump supporters
• Marissa and Bowden: Balkan rizz, green flag military service and emotional distance
• Tim and Tyler: Boundaries, Emotional Purging and using women as therapists
• Black Love vs. Struggle Love
• Tim's Red Flags and Boundaries
• Ashley and Alexandra: not them being accessories to their men! where’s their screen time?

References:

• Ep90 on People Pleasing ft. Nyak
• Video on epigenetics: https://www.patreon.com/posts/vol-3-113233084?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link 
• Relationship true crime: Dating Detectives Podcast
• Splice movie (2009)

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Hey girls n gays! We’re BACK for October 2024 to cover the new season of Love is Blind, airing October 2nd. Watch along with us and join the chitchat about it on patreon!

Tokyo Toni - https://www.tiktok.com/@femalerapquotes/video/7285839826983652641?lang=en

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I'm feeling called to be quiet for a bit. I'm in a massive growth stage where I'm studying and applying knowledge in traditional western astrology and human design. I will be sharing resources on IG (both mukundwa_ and iswis_podcast, mostly the latter. the former is mostly for ridiculous memes), and will make an astrology and human design highlight where you can find everything. I wouldn't have known that I need rest + to indulge myself in INTENSE study, research and investigation if not for human design + astrology indicating the same. Therefore I cannot overemphasise the importance of following your curiosity if you are feeling a bit rudderless and in need of direction! I've been pretty bored and aimless the past 2 years and all of this has given me a new lease of life 💫 hoping the same for you 🙏🏾 Please send me stuff that's interesting you, recommend dating shows (I'm going to watch MAFS South Africa, wish me good luck!) and say hi on IG DM or Patreon group chat.

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I discuss: 

• Catherine and white woman tears
• Sociocultural ignorance
• Tom and Maria: intellectualising vs. feeling your feelings
• Demi's Growth! She picked herself
• Steven and Sabrina’s 180: from smitten to cold and combative
• Bobby: my theory on secure attachment and a lack of financial ambition
• Madman Sam: seeking self esteem through black women

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Let’s get into it! Ep7-9 with no spoilers beyond 9. I discuss: 

• Madman Sam’s last ditch attempts to manipulate
• Nicole's Diplomatic Approach vs. Benaiah’s directness
• Ollie's ADHD as the missing context 
• How Tom and Maria could both compromise
• Catherine needs an astrologer NOW: Astrology vs. Psychology, when to use which
• Sabrina and Stephen: Irish notions
• Jasmine and Bobby: insecurities, boundaries
• Immigrant mums: enmeshment, emotional incest
• Final predictions

References:

Tik Tok on Blake Lively + White Women victimhood - https://www.tiktok.com/@the_yv_edit/video/7405648123256884526 

Zee Mills clip - https://www.instagram.com/p/C-npeiOI0_Y/ 

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In this episode I analyse Love is Blind UK Episodes 1-6 , with no spoilers past episode 6. I explore the key themes discussed include intuition, self-confidence, manipulation, and the impact of racial and class dynamics. Specifically I look at:

• First Impressions of the 6 couples
• Discussing compatibility and lack thereof
• Sam and Nicole: Intuition, Self-Confidence, and People-Pleasing
• Olly and Demi: avoidance and emotional unavailability
• Tom and Maria: lifestyle differences, traditional vs. Modern
• Catherine and Freddie: beauty standards and micro aggressions
• Sam's Manipulative Behavior, and contrasting Nicole and Jasmine’s responses
• Cultural Comfort and Dating Outside of Race
• Predictions and Reflections

References:

Boys and Sex - Peggy Orenstein

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Following from Part 1 and 2, today I feedback on what I’m learning from my experiments with manifestation and human design. I discuss:

• Reflections on my Manifestation experiments
• The possibilities of collective manifestations
• Human Design and its application
• Compassion and non duality
• The importance of building up a holistic toolkit 

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References:

Pea The Feary - https://www.instagram.com/peathefeary 

Ep 100 on Manifestation - https://open.spotify.com/episode/1WZuBhxTej1umyz9Zsc4zk?si=a6a6e12f23ef4884 

Ep 102 on Timeline Jumping - https://www.patreon.com/posts/101-becoming-2-109040102?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link 

Ep 99 on Recovering from Ennui - https://open.spotify.com/episode/4mFSoaiXxKkrwbU1W2YlEG?si=17c4bb1a5e724218 

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