I Said What I Said

By Mukundwa

I'm Mukundwa and if you've found "I Said What I Said" then you're a spiritual seeker who makes a hobby out of unpacking the human condition, querying why we're here, and decoding life's algorithm.

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November 09, 2025158. Love is Blind S9: Ep12+Reunion - wealth gaps, naivety and outsourcing our intuition
Loved this season! But I am always glad when it’s all over 😂 On this episode I discuss:

Jordan and Megan: is a wealth gap really that insurmountable?
Kalybriah and Edmond: infantilizing men and accountability
Madison and Joe: outsourcing intuition, attachment issues and attracting people at your resonance level
Patrick and Kacie: Naïveté, Boundaries & Self-Esteem
Ali and Anton: class and hypergamy
Nick, Kait and Annie: Personas and performativity

REFERENCES

If you like hearing me discuss love check out my Love is Blind and Ultimatum episodes:
“Love is Blind” Patreon Collection - https://www.patreon.com/collection/1687784
“The Ultimatum” Patreon Collection - https://www.patreon.com/collection/1273805

145. Autistics STAND TF UP!! We have incredible intuition and perceptual skills, it's time to act like it : https://www.patreon.com/posts/145-autistics-tf-135474733?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link

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October 31, 2025157. Should you take Responsibility for your own Suffering? Manifestation, Fate, Fortune and Suffering
So you want to take responsibility for your reality! Great. How do you do this with care, though? In a way that acknowledges your capacity, takes charge of what you can control while accepting what you cannot… Let’s discussssss:

Understanding Manifestation and Reality Creation
The Role of Belief Systems in Reality Creation
The Importance of Evidence and Critical Thinking
Response Over Reaction
Determining Your Belief System
The Benefits of Taking Responsibility
When to Be Responsible and When Not To
The Role of Astrology and Spiritual Philosophy
Taking Responsibility for Relational Dynamics
Creating distance to reduce self-criticism
Should you take responsibility for external acts of trauma and suffering?
My simple Formula
Unnecessary Suffering
Are you unlucky?

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October 23, 2025156. Love is Blind S9: Ep6-11: substance abuse, sexual coercion and breaking relational patterns (everyone’s getting slapped!!!)
I’m tired!!!! I’m ordering a public flogging of all the men in the town square.
Examining Love, Self-Reflection, and Attachment Styles in 'Love Is Blind' Season 9

Alcohol dependence and sexual coercion
Intuition and Attachent styles
Childhood trauma and breaking relational patterns
Filling voids with everything but self love

RESOURCES

Affirmations: https://www.patreon.com/posts/154-robotic-in-140900680?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link

Louise Hay on affirmations: https://youtu.be/x0ZZ8xK6PE4?si=dT2Syn2xaARmf05B

Check out my Love is Blind and Ultimatum episodes:
“Love is Blind” Patreon Collection - https://www.patreon.com/collection/1687784
“The Ultimatum” Patreon Collection - https://www.patreon.com/collection/1273805

Join Patreon starting at $1. Proceeds above a certain threshold from your new membership, upgraded membership and once off purchases will be donated to Gazans. Where I will be donating, and where you can donate directly:

https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1vtMLLOzuc6GpkFySyVtKQOY2j-Vvg0UsChMCFst_WLA/htmlview

https://docs.google.com/document/d/1S_EA9f7buyt680AWZIwP0-IFj1qbVFdzT0ZBtGeAVv4/edit?tab=t.0 : This link also has resources to support efforts in DRC, Sudan, Yemen, Haiti, Lebanon, Hawai'i

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October 17, 2025155. Love is Blind S9: Ep1-5: racism, biohacking and arrested development
This season has me HOWLING! My review covers Ep1-5 and 10mins of Ep6 - basically only the pods stuff, nothing beyond. I use the couples as a mirror to discuss larger societal themes around:

internalized racism
racial preferences
shame and romantic desperation
trusting ones intuition
Heteroflexibility and hiding behind faith
Emotional repression

If you like hearing me discuss love check out my Love is Blind and Ultimatum episodes:
“Love is Blind” Patreon Collection - https://www.patreon.com/collection/1687784
“The Ultimatum” Patreon Collection - https://www.patreon.com/collection/1273805

Love Is Blind content creators I love: Dr Cheri Types, Jessie Woo (both on YouTube)

Intuition episode:
https://www.patreon.com/posts/140-listener-how-132018209?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link

Self Esteem episodes:
https://www.patreon.com/posts/97-process-of-107234216?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link
https://www.patreon.com/posts/133-lying-is-of-127526214?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link

Join Patreon starting at $1. Proceeds above a certain threshold from your new membership, upgraded membership and once off purchases will be donated to Gazans. Where I will be donating, and where you can donate directly:

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https://docs.google.com/document/d/1S_EA9f7buyt680AWZIwP0-IFj1qbVFdzT0ZBtGeAVv4/edit?tab=t.0 : This link also has resources to support efforts in DRC, Sudan, Yemen, Haiti, Lebanon, Hawai'i

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October 02, 2025153. 'Materialists' movie review: love as the last uncolonized frontier
Watched it twice! LOVED all the themes, and I LOVE discussing love, so of course I had a blast recording this episode. I discussed:

love as industry
capitalism and love
hypergamy and lover girls
the utility of love
manifestation, objectification and dating
objectifying love via dating apps
outsourcing community and connection

If you like hearing me discuss love check out my Love is Blind and Ultimatum episodes:
“Love is Blind” Patreon Collection - https://www.patreon.com/collection/1687784
“The Ultimatum” Patreon Collection - https://www.patreon.com/collection/1273805

REFERENCES
Realization By Pea post: https://www.instagram.com/p/DPRU39fEXWi/?igsh=MTh1dGpjbThpcWhncw==
Celine Song interview clip: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DNJF54WMs3N/?igsh=MXdsc3J1anltOGQ4bQ==
The Slumflower on hypergamy: https://youtu.be/DesVgQwPD1s?si=6Bf2bvkjOFuZx6tH

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September 12, 2025150. Love is Blind UK S2 - Ep10 & 11: self sabotage and the promise of happily ever after
That’s a wrap! I loved this season. This is a review of Episodes 10 & 11 (reunion). Themes discussed

Reality TV and mental health
Sarova and Kal: dating down intellectually, ignoring signs, reading auras
Bardha and Jed: shocked they aren’t together! owning your triggers and doing shadow work
Meghan and Kieran: why lie about Javen and then double down? Suspicioussss otherwise, love these two for each other
Javen and Katisha: gaslighting, nitpicking and low self worth
Observations on how men and women’s communication styles differ

REFERENCES

Dr Cherie Types, Jed + Bardha - https://youtu.be/IwxOPkuesGY?si=33IOzxSGZl-aEcKO
photo analysis woman -https://www.instagram.com/reel/DM_8O4aRcOw/?igsh=MmM5bmJyeWIzOGpm
“Love is Blind” Patreon Collection - https://www.patreon.com/collection/1687784
“The Ultimatum” Patreon Collection - https://www.patreon.com/collection/1273805

Join Patreon starting at $1. Proceeds above a certain threshold from your new membership, upgraded membership and once off purchases will be donated to Gazans. Where I will be donating, and where you can donate directly:

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https://docs.google.com/document/d/1S_EA9f7buyt680AWZIwP0-IFj1qbVFdzT0ZBtGeAVv4/edit?tab=t.0 : This link also has resources to support efforts in DRC, Sudan, Yemen, Haiti, Lebanon, Hawai'i

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September 04, 2025149. Love is Blind UK S2 - Ep5-9: bro code, provider men and low self-esteem women
This is a review of Episodes 5-9 up until and not including the weddings. There are no spoilers about the weddings and beyond. Themes discussed

the bro code and men’s allegiance to other men (Kieran and Javen)
emotional availability (Javen)
(not) being an intellectual match (Kal and Sarover)
when your partner doesn’t have your back, being ‘alone’ together (Kieran)
provider vs. non provider men (Jed vs. Billy)
honesty without tact (Kal)
self worth and the lack of it (Sarover and Katisha)
gaslighting, semantics and the difference in how men and women communicate (Javen and photoboot-gate)

REFERENCES

Manifesting dream partner (list exercise) - https://youtu.be/-arRiZGavR8?si=v8e5INsFQHk-kATX

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August 27, 2025148. Love is Blind UK S2 - Ep1-4: spiritual bypassing, gender roles, attachment styles.
Javen and Patrick, prepare for your SLAPS 👏🏾!!! This is a review of Episodes 1-4 covering the pod only, nothing beyond that. I unpack behaviours, discuss motivations and attachment styles, and consider gender roles and race:

Couples analysis - who’s (not) a good fit and why
Javen and gender roles
Patrick and Spiritual bypassing
Katisha and low self esteem
Sophie and attachment styles
beauty, race and gender

REFERENCES

Bashar on timeline jumping - https://youtu.be/S0ubD4QoUKw?si=J8LAOciA5lTTKHFL
attachment style - https://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

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July 24, 2025144. Laverne Cox: MAGA, intersectionality and living out our politics (including COMPASSION)
I love the conversation Laverne’s admission has given rise too. A lot of it is shallow and obvious in its call to action (cancel Laverne) so I’d like to provide a deeper perspective rooted in compassion and consideration. I discuss:

Dating Across Political Lines
The Intersection of Politics and Dating
How people relate to their oppressors
The Challenges Faced by Black Trans Women
How black folks relate to white folks
Dating preferences within a white supremacist world

REFERENCES

Laverne Cox videos

https://www.instagram.com/p/DMUEEl4OgkB/
https://www.instagram.com/p/DMYhkucysh0/
https://www.instagram.com/p/DMZLJYguxOY/

Reaction videos
https://youtu.be/CL7h50X0D1s?si=YDwWcuFHRB3rcc_F

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July 02, 2025141. Race and identity politics are a scam and I am DONE!!!
The thoughts I unpack:

Race obsession is wasting my time
White supremacy is a game you only win if you refuse to play
the power of focus and attention in how my reality shapes itself around me

REFERENCES

Black Skin, White Masks - by Frantz Fanon
African Americans, Epigenetics - https://youtu.be/KKaukv_JLX0?si=dtsctkrtQlky8Xw1
Candice de Meza (real vs true quote) - https://www.instagram.com/candicedmeza/?hl=en
Pendulum. Reality Transurfing by Vadim Zeland
History of Patriarchy - https://youtu.be/LAqVPlS1Q-s?si=oOyHCyTm-aVQwxHJ

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https://docs.google.com/document/d/1S_EA9f7buyt680AWZIwP0-IFj1qbVFdzT0ZBtGeAVv4/edit?tab=t.0 : This link also has resources to support efforts in DRC, Sudan, Yemen, Haiti, Lebanon, Hawai'i

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