I Said What I Said

I’m tired!!!! I’m ordering a public flogging of all the men in the town square.

Examining Love, Self-Reflection, and Attachment Styles in 'Love Is Blind' Season 9

• Alcohol dependence and sexual coercion 
• Intuition and Attachent styles
• Childhood trauma and breaking relational patterns
• Filling voids with everything but self love

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Louise Hay on affirmations: https://youtu.be/x0ZZ8xK6PE4?si=dT2Syn2xaARmf05B 

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This season has me HOWLING! My review covers Ep1-5 and 10mins of Ep6 - basically only the pods stuff, nothing beyond. I use the couples as a mirror to discuss larger societal themes around:

• internalized racism
• racial preferences
• shame and romantic desperation 
• trusting ones intuition
• Heteroflexibility and hiding behind faith
• Emotional repression

If you like hearing me discuss love check out my Love is Blind and Ultimatum episodes:

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 Love Is Blind content creators I love: Dr Cheri Types, Jessie Woo (both on YouTube)

Intuition episode:

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Self Esteem episodes:

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Watched it twice! LOVED all the themes, and I LOVE discussing love, so of course I had a blast recording this episode. I discussed:

• love as industry
• capitalism and love
• hypergamy and lover girls
• the utility of love
• manifestation, objectification and dating
• objectifying love via dating apps
• outsourcing community and connection

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REFERENCES

• Realization By Pea post: https://www.instagram.com/p/DPRU39fEXWi/?igsh=MTh1dGpjbThpcWhncw== 
• Celine Song interview clip: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DNJF54WMs3N/?igsh=MXdsc3J1anltOGQ4bQ== 
• The Slumflower on hypergamy: https://youtu.be/DesVgQwPD1s?si=6Bf2bvkjOFuZx6tH

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That’s a wrap! I loved this season. This is a review of Episodes 10 & 11 (reunion). Themes discussed

• Reality TV and mental health
• Sarova and Kal: dating down intellectually, ignoring signs, reading auras
• Bardha and Jed: shocked they aren’t together! owning your triggers and doing shadow work
• Meghan and Kieran: why lie about Javen and then double down? Suspicioussss otherwise, love these two for each other
• Javen and Katisha: gaslighting, nitpicking and low self worth
• Observations on how men and women’s communication styles differ

REFERENCES

• Dr Cherie Types, Jed + Bardha - https://youtu.be/IwxOPkuesGY?si=33IOzxSGZl-aEcKO 
• photo analysis woman -https://www.instagram.com/reel/DM_8O4aRcOw/?igsh=MmM5bmJyeWIzOGpm 
• “Love is Blind” Patreon Collection - https://www.patreon.com/collection/1687784 
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This is a review of Episodes 5-9 up until and not including the weddings. There are no spoilers about the weddings and beyond. Themes discussed

• the bro code and men’s allegiance to other men (Kieran and Javen)
• emotional availability (Javen)
• (not) being an intellectual match (Kal and Sarover)
• when your partner doesn’t have your back, being ‘alone’ together (Kieran)
• provider vs. non provider men (Jed vs. Billy)
• honesty without tact (Kal)
• self worth and the lack of it (Sarover and Katisha)
• gaslighting, semantics and the difference in how men and women communicate (Javen and photoboot-gate)

REFERENCES

• Manifesting dream partner (list exercise) - https://youtu.be/-arRiZGavR8?si=v8e5INsFQHk-kATX 

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Javen and Patrick, prepare for your SLAPS 👏🏾!!! This is a review of Episodes 1-4 covering the pod only, nothing beyond that. I unpack behaviours, discuss motivations and attachment styles, and consider gender roles and race:

• Couples analysis - who’s (not) a good fit and why
• Javen and gender roles
• Patrick and Spiritual bypassing 
• Katisha and low self esteem
• Sophie and attachment styles
• beauty, race and gender

REFERENCES

• Bashar on timeline jumping - https://youtu.be/S0ubD4QoUKw?si=J8LAOciA5lTTKHFL 
• attachment style - https://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl 

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I love the conversation Laverne’s admission has given rise too. A lot of it is shallow and obvious in its call to action (cancel Laverne) so I’d like to provide a deeper perspective rooted in compassion and consideration. I discuss: 

• Dating Across Political Lines
• The Intersection of Politics and Dating
• How people relate to their oppressors
• The Challenges Faced by Black Trans Women
• How black folks relate to white folks
• Dating preferences within a white supremacist world

REFERENCES

Laverne Cox videos

• https://www.instagram.com/p/DMUEEl4OgkB/ 
• https://www.instagram.com/p/DMYhkucysh0/ 
• https://www.instagram.com/p/DMZLJYguxOY/ 

Reaction videos

• https://youtu.be/CL7h50X0D1s?si=YDwWcuFHRB3rcc_F 

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The thoughts I unpack: 

• Race obsession is wasting my time
• White supremacy is a game you only win if you refuse to play
• the power of focus and attention in how my reality shapes itself around me

REFERENCES

• Black Skin, White Masks - by Frantz Fanon
• African Americans, Epigenetics - https://youtu.be/KKaukv_JLX0?si=dtsctkrtQlky8Xw1 
• Candice de Meza (real vs true quote) - https://www.instagram.com/candicedmeza/?hl=en
• Pendulum. Reality Transurfing by Vadim Zeland
• History of Patriarchy - https://youtu.be/LAqVPlS1Q-s?si=oOyHCyTm-aVQwxHJ 

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On this episode I answer a listener question on how to build intuition. I discuss:

• the connection between intuition, self-trust, and self-esteem. 
• building self-trust through small consistent actions, respecting one's bodily needs and signals. 
• logic and intuition collaborating
• embodiment’s role in intuition
• practical steps to strengthen Intuition

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Abraham Hicks’ Law of Attraction methodology is great. But what about its limitations? This episode explores this question through a Reddit post and listener feedback. I discuss: 

• the importance of cultural contexts in spiritual teachings
• race and visibility in the spiritual industry
• healing vs self blame
• fate vs free will
• energy exchanges
• reality transurfing and pendulums

REFERENCES

Friendship breakup with God episodes: https://www.patreon.com/posts/87-consequences-103583371?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link and https://www.patreon.com/posts/88-healing-from-103583773?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link 

Abraham Hicks and gay rights video : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a_c7NWWiUnk 

pendulums and reality transurfing: https://youtu.be/eRDUsUONNaM?si=3Ky37DkiLgBe3odD 

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