In this season I choose to be a villain.

We are no longer being sad girls or soft girls.

That shit does not look good on us.

This weekend I finally applied my life coaching skills. $125/hr well spent.

I went through many emotions but shout out to my life coach who taught me that you give yourself time to feel and process your emotions then move on.

In the past I would tell y’all to take as long as you need. Fuck that shit, In life coaching you set a timeline, take 30 minutes or a day but life goes on. We have no time to be down.

In this era I will prioritize myself by any means necessary, I’m not explaining myself anymore. I did what I did because it was best for me. The end. I’ll be the villain in your story for choosing myself.

This weekend I went through sadness, acceptance, regret, what did I learn, mourning and self reflection.

By all means I know I am not perfect, all I can do is take accountability for my actions, control my emotions and set healthy boundaries.

Currently reading the art of detachment.

The Villain Era is here to aide me through practicing non attachments & being whimsical.

More living, less feelings.