The Art of We

92. Same Argument Over & Over? Here’s What To Do


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Do you and your partner have the same frustrating argument over and over? Or you can’t figure out why the same darn issue keeps coming up and you can’t seem to resolve it? We know all about that! Today we share how we woke up to the root cause of the ongoing argument that helped us resolve the issue, instead of just putting bandaids on it. Listen in to hear key mindsets and actionable steps you can apply to help resolve those painful arguments. 

(00:00) - Discussing key elements to navigate repetitive arguments in relationships

(01:22) - A key mindset that will shift you from stress to opportunity

(04:05) - Our personal example of a recurring argument and pivotal moments leading to an emotional and honest discussion

(14:42) - Three approaches you can apply to address recurring arguments in a relationship

Feel free to reach out with your thoughts, experiences, and topics you want to hear about. We love hearing from our listeners!

Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, or on your favorite podcast platform. 

Resources Mentioned: 

  • Our Top 10 Relationship Agreements 
  • Episode 2: Our agreement about abundant repair
  • Dick Schwartz and IFS

Get in Touch: 

  • The Art Of We Website
  • The Art of We Instagram 
  • Integrative Psychiatry Institute: Psychedelic Therapy Training

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