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People pleasers like to please other people. But did you know that they actually hurt them? The Online Samosa
People pleasers praise even if they do not like it. It is social grease for them at a lower level.
How do people pick up this skill of people pleasing?
1. It is a survival skill or a manipulation skill. Uncontained anger and mood is more important.
2. People lie to the other person to please them. This can break the trust. One cannot fool other people all the time.
3. Team energy is lost. One has the warped definition of fairness. There is no integrity.
4. As a people pleaser, one attracts people who are people pleaser too. This changes the definition of love for a people pleaser.
5. Once people pleaser becomes a habit, a person does not understand the meaning of love. The definition of love is wrong for a people pleaser.
09:30 C
For the sake of true love--
1. Don't compromise integrity,
2. Build trust
3. Build long term relationships
4. Be open to learning.
13:00 D Yamini's understanding and perspective.
By Sandeep Tiwari and Yamini MitterPeople pleasers like to please other people. But did you know that they actually hurt them? The Online Samosa
People pleasers praise even if they do not like it. It is social grease for them at a lower level.
How do people pick up this skill of people pleasing?
1. It is a survival skill or a manipulation skill. Uncontained anger and mood is more important.
2. People lie to the other person to please them. This can break the trust. One cannot fool other people all the time.
3. Team energy is lost. One has the warped definition of fairness. There is no integrity.
4. As a people pleaser, one attracts people who are people pleaser too. This changes the definition of love for a people pleaser.
5. Once people pleaser becomes a habit, a person does not understand the meaning of love. The definition of love is wrong for a people pleaser.
09:30 C
For the sake of true love--
1. Don't compromise integrity,
2. Build trust
3. Build long term relationships
4. Be open to learning.
13:00 D Yamini's understanding and perspective.