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Jeff Khadavi & Omid Pourmoradi are fathers, business owners, and athletes. How on earth do these guys get it done. Today, we talk all things "life hacks" to maximize the squeeze we get out of each day of life.

This is Jeff's 2nd appearance on 99pages, please consider listening to episode #20. The Boring Brilliance of Index Funds--one of our most popular episodes. Jeff is a successful Entreprenuer and investor with a passion for personal development.

Omid is the CEO of Faviana, a line of luxury gowns and dresses for women, he's the father of four and just became a grandfather...and he competes regularly in triathlons and other incredible endurance events.

Leadership is a passion for these gentlemen, and it's an honor to pick their brains on the books, influencers, and techniques that have gotten them as far as they've gone.

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Alec is the founder of PainFreeComeback.com, an expert in helping serious athletes overcome the chronic pain that keeps them from pursuing their passions. On 99pages, we talk a lot about health span and lifespan--it's imperative to lead an active life with exercise and sport. But part of that equation that we dont always address is pain. We'll all get injured and hurt. What do we do when that happens? How does it affect the brain? And how should think about pushing past the pain? Or throttling back.

My guest today has nuanced answers to many of these questions. Alec at one point was an elite cyclist himself who unfortunately had a career ending injury. His journey to overcome that pain was nothing short of heroic, and I'm so excited to bring him onto the show to talk about his path. If you enjoy today's episode, please consider rating us on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. Those help us out a ton. Thanks and enjoy the show.

Today we’re talking with a Former Diplomat and Professor and one of the most experienced foreign operators I know—Mr. Ned McMahon. Ned has had an illustrious career serving a Foreign Service Officer for the US Department of State specializing in  African Affairs, He spent another 10 years as the reigional director and senior program officer for East, Central & West Africa for the National Democratic Institute for International Affairs. He’s currently a professor at both the University of Vermont, and MIddleBury college…and he just happens to be my good friend. 

Ned decided to channel his experiences into a profound novel called “Wisdom and the Baobab Tree”-- if you care at all about American Foreign Policy or what’s happening in contemporary development, you gotta go to amazon now and pick this read up. Ned has incredibly developed characters that really make the reader feel like they’re experiencing the life of a foreign service officer. Amazon Link to Ned's Book

Further in this episode we talk very specifically about USAID—but not with all the bloviating of political pundits. We deliberately sought to have a conversation void of noise. We aren’t picking political sides, we’re just two guys trying to understand the pros and cons of US dollars spent abroad—from a security, a commerce, and even a moral perspective. It has been the most substantive conversation I”ve had on policy since the new administration began, and I’m honored to share it with you today. 

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The topic today is the book Die With Zero by Bill Perkins. I did an episode back in November, Episode #42 on Money. It was a precursor to this conversation, and either before or after you listen to this episode, I hope you’ll go back and take a listen. The topic of money, and how we think about money, how we relate to money, is such a vital part to finding peace and happiness in the world. We simultaneously need to know the value of a dollar, but also its limits. We must find balances between thrift, generosity, and transcendence…knowing that the presence of money doesn’t actually solve all problems. In fact, it can cause an abundance of them. This book—Die With Zero—has played such a vital role in helping me truly understand the role money plays in my life…It’s necessary not simply to spend intentionally, but to earn intentionally. In working professional America, there is a sense of “Grind Culture” where we sometimes think that earning and producing indefinitely is somehow virtuous. But when we think about the most finite resource in our life—it’s never money—it’s time. We have a finite period on this earth, and when we die. Thats it. So yes we need to spend some of that time on earth earning money, and not enjoying our lives. But that being said, every dollar left in our bank account when we die represents a fraction of time that we could have spent achieving our goals, or spending time with our loved ones. Dying With Zero is an ethos about living and spending intentionally, accepting our mortality, and thinking of money not as an ends, but as a means to a life well lived—however you define it. 

The second reason I’m excited is for today’s guest. Tal Moore is one of the most successful names in E-Commerce. He’s been the founder of multiple successful e-commerce exits including Franklin's Gourmet Popcorn, Gumballs.com, Wicker.com, and Chocolate.com. His specialty has been bringing popcorn to the e-commerce world. He’s has spent considerable Time and resources developing himself as a leader and mentor. Not only was he on the edge of the LA Fires when we recorded this conversation, but he’s back at the plate as the Founder & CEO of PopSmith, a wonderful product that allows families to easily make stovetop popcorn at home in healthy & delicious cookware. While he and I live different lives today—me a country bumpkin with a dad-bod…Tal with a fierce startup vigor in LA—we find so much common ground on how we both relate to money and I think it will be a productive listen for all our audience members. 

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It was a couple weeks ago when my text messages starting getting super intense about this conversation around the H1B visa program. I personally came to the United States as a result of the H1B visa, and have some conflicting emotions around it. Eager to share them with you!

Psychadelic journeys, when used in a spiritual or therapeutic context—not a recreational one when you take them before a concert or night out—but if they’re used with the correct set and setting—meaning mindset and physical surroundings—they can lead to tremendous mental health benefits. A feeling of belonging, a surge of connectivity to the world and the communities around us. A relief of depression, addiction, and PTSD suffering. 

That last category is particularly important to me…without depressing you too much, I want to tell you that my West Point class just passed a mindblowing benchmark. We now have lost twice as many classmates to suicide than we did in combat. I believe psychedelics can be part of the solution to this problem.

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Tom Spence is the Executive Editor of Basic Books, a newly formed conservative imprint from the Hachette Publishing Group. He's a Fellow at The Heritage Foundation and a former guest on the 99pages podcast back from our days as a YouTube stream. I brought him on so we can discuss the ways that we can think about the types of media we consume and the ways we can start bridging some of the divides in our country.

On the eve of Thanksgiving, I wanted to talk about the most taboo topic at the dinner table...money. I personally believe we don't have enough conversations about it, and I thought we could use it as a vehicle to discuss some of our more finite resources in life.

Yesterday was Election Day 2024. There's a lot of heavy hearts out there in the country right now. Regardless of where you are on the political spectrum, I wanted to share some points of hope & optimism that I think are worth noting...the best of our country is yet to come.

 I can say this with 100% certainty—nothing in my life would be nearly as good had I not crushed it in the most important facet in my life…choosing the person to marry. Chelsea and I are celebrating our 8 year wedding anniversary this month. And I couldn’t be happier. Sure we have ups and downs, but my life is categorically awesome in no small part because of the way she supports me. So today we’re going to dive into the topic of Marriage with two special guests. First—Dr. Howard Markman, a professor at the University of Denver and the co-author of “Fighting For Your Marriage”, one of my favorite reads on how modern couples can enhance their communication and stay happier together for longer. Secondly—and this is a big one—you’re going to hear from Chelsea Jacobs, my wife. If I’m going to talk about marriage, I felt it only fair for you to hear from the person who has to deal with me in that journey.