How does your husband fight against the thoughts of failing?  How do WE define "failure"?  How does GOD define "failure"??

Is your husband a work horse?  Do you know WHY or what's triggering him to constantly OVERWORK??  Are you praying for your husband to have peace in this area of his life???

Selfishness can be the most dangerous threat to oneness in a marriage.  Is surrendering THAT hard for some? Are YOU really the selfish one in the relationship?

'NO ONE is trustworthy!!"  Is that GOD'S truth??  Can a couple EVER get over the TRUST hurdle??

How does YOUR husband express his feelings??

"DON'T feel! DON'T cry! DON'T express!"  Has the enemy told him this?  Is YOUR husband a part of the "Feelingless Gender"??  How does YOUR husband express/handle his feelings??

The lack of communication between you and your spouse can lead to arguments, misunderstandings, disrespect and ultimately, separation.  How do YOU communicate with your husband?  How does HE communicae with YOU?

Do you find that your husband feels powerless, worthless or carries other negative characteristics?  More than likely, these issues existed well before you married and/or met him.  Are you in prayer for your husband's heart??

Does your husband consistently take routes to bow out of conflict?  What about his participation in making day to day decisions?  WHO'S conversing with his family whn HE'S NOT??  Hmmmmm......

Prayer is the key if a husband and wife is to be and STAY connected!!