What if the chaos in modern dating isn’t just bad behavior… but outdated genetic coding running the show?

In this episode of A Cunt’s Guide to Peace, I break down the wild Catfish documentary “Hey Beautiful” and use it as a case study for something I call outdated genetic coding — the old biological signals that once helped humans bond, choose partners, and survive… but are now colliding with the internet, dating apps, and digital identities.

Why do we fall for people we’ve never met?

Because our brains are still responding to ancient programming in a very modern world.

This episode is part documentary breakdown, part dating anthropology, and part existential laugh about the absolute circus that is online romance.

If you’ve ever wondered “how did someone fall for that?” — this conversation might answer more than you expect.

 New episode: Outdated Genetic Coding & the Catfish Effect

What if your DNA is running your love life… and it’s about 200,000 years out of date? this episode covers netflix's "Sweet Bobby" I unpack how outdated genetic coding may have helped enable one of the most astonishing nine-year catfishing stories - proving that even intelligent women can be outmatched by both evolution and Wi-Fi.

 Ever accidentally dated a “diamond mogul”… who turned out to be a financial black hole? 

Episode 2 of A C*nts Guide to Peace – Season 2 is OUT NOW and we’re diving headfirst into the wild world of Tinder Swindler Simon Leviev 

I’m unpacking the chaos, the manipulation, and my spicy little theory about how our outdated genetic coding might actually make us WAY more vulnerable to smooth-talking con artists than we’d like to admit.

It’s juicy, it’s fascinating, it’s slightly unhinged… and as always, we’re finding peace through the madness.

 Listen now

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Have you ever looked back at an old… let’s call them a chapter… and thought, with a full-body shudder, “why on earth did I ever find that smouldering skip-fire attractive?”

Have you ever looked back at an old… let’s call them a chapter… and thought, with a full-body shudder, “why on earth did I ever find that smouldering skip-fire attractive?”

🎙️ New Episode: “Sober vs. Cali Sober”

A C*nt's guide to peace ep18 Louis Zeskin returns

I could try to explain the absolute disaster that was this flight - BOTH ways - but where do I even begin? Let’s just say I’ve enjoyed years of smooth, carefree travel… so apparently the universe decided I was long overdue for a train wreck in the sky. And oh, did it deliver.

POV:You’re abandoned as a newborn in Thailand - and your rescuers discover you have no legs.

Fast forward 30+ years… you’re a recording holding professional skater?

Meet Kanya Sesser - one of the most inspiring, magnetic people I’ve ever met. She radiates positivity; when she walks (or rather, rolls) into a room, everyone’s energy rises to meet hers.

In this episode, we covered it all. Honestly, I barely had to ask questions - this two-time Guinness World Record–holding athlete is an open book.

We talked about:

It was real, raw, funny, and just a vibe.

Picture this: you’re in your first year of sobriety, and you find out your father-the pilot you grew up both fearing and loving-took his own life by crashing his plane. Now imagine a childhood where food was withheld because he thought you were overweight, where you learned to sneak and hide just to eat. Imagine being disowned when you developed the very same addictions and disorders he struggled with himself. Layer that with the chaos of puberty, sexual abuse, and the everyday storms of being a teenager-and you’re only beginning to understand Vicky’s story. And yet, here she is. Incredibly funny. Incredibly talented. Strong. Humorous. A young woman who carries both her pain and her light in the same breath. I admire her more than I can even put into words. This isn’t even half of it-we already know there has to be a part two. But for now, this is Vicky. Brave beyond measure, finding her feet again in a new reality where the person she feared most, and also loved most, is gone and learning what life is without him