Men and women are more divided than ever and Black women are wholeheartedly contributing to this division.  Having traditional expectations of men while wanting to be non-traditional women is why men are opting out of marriage.....to black women at an alarming rate.  Black women are less likely to marry, and have higher rates of marital instability because of their attitudes, weight, checkered past, and stubborn nature.  Will we survive the "modern" woman?