How does a smart, educated young woman fall for an alcoholic partner? Hindsight is 20/20. In this episode I look at how the process is gradual, how we don't go into a relationship wanting a miserable life, how in the beginning the good times far outweigh the bad so we dismiss the 'bad stuff' as not-that-big-of-a-deal and not see them for what they really are - red flags. We think we can save them from themselves and they make us think we can. We can't. The End.