What would happen if we stopped seeing foster care as someone else’s problem?

Right now, there are nearly 400,000 children in the foster care system, and behind each number is a real child, a real family, a real story. In this episode, we’re sharing a bit about our own journey into foster care—what led us to say “yes” when so many step back, and why the fight for families is more urgent than ever.

We dig into the hard truths about why families are struggling, the ripple effects on communities, and what it really takes to step into the gap. But this isn’t just about fostering—it’s about how all of us can play a role in strengthening families, whether we open our homes or simply open our hearts.

So, what’s God calling you to do? Let’s talk about it.

Episode Highlights: 

• Why we stepped into foster care.
• Answering the call.
• Addressing spiritual warfare.
• Sharing statistics.
• Where we place our hope.
• Fighting for family.

Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:

• Jointheforce.us
• Follow Bethany on Instagram @bethanyadkins
• Follow Corey on Instagram @mrcoreyadkins
• Find us on Youtube!
• Email Bethany at [email protected] 
• Get involved at Hope Bridge.
• Listen Episode 160 & 161.

This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

How would you define your relationship with money in your marriage—a seamless partnership, a constant tug-of-war, or something you avoid talking about altogether?

In this episode, we’re getting real about marriage and money—because if there’s one thing that can test a relationship, it’s finances. We’re pulling back the curtain on our own experiences, sharing the lessons we’ve learned (sometimes the hard way) about handling bank accounts, tackling debt, and navigating different spending styles without losing our minds.

Talking about money in marriage doesn’t have to feel like a high-stakes negotiation—we’re here to prove it can be honest, productive, and even a little fun. From budgeting hacks that actually work to figuring out what’s truly worth your time and money, we’re diving into the practical and personal sides of financial teamwork.

So, if you and your partner have ever argued over a Target run or debated the merits of separate versus joint accounts, this one’s for you. Tune in, subscribe, and let us know—what’s been your biggest money win (or disaster) in marriage?

Episode Highlights: 

• Debt update.
• Getting finances in order.
• Methods that have worked for us.
• Marriage talk.

Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:

• Jointheforce.us
• Follow Bethany on Instagram @bethanyadkins
• Follow Corey on Instagram @mrcoreyadkins
• Find us on Youtube!
• Email Bethany at [email protected] 

This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Do you have a friend you can be completely real with, no masks, no pretending—just you?

This episode is all about the power of deep, intentional relationships—whether in marriage, friendship, or community. We talk about what it means to truly show up for one another, the messy beauty of loving people well, and how Christ-centered connections can change everything. Inspired by Bonhoeffer’s wisdom on agape love, we dig into why choosing love daily—especially when it’s hard—is what builds the kind of community we all long for.

So, if you're craving something deeper than surface-level interactions, this one’s for you. Let’s talk about real connection, real faith, and real love—the kind that shapes us in the best possible ways.

Episode Highlights: 

• Unplug and connect.
• The power of community.
• Embracing agape love.
• The benefits of friendship.

Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:

• Jointheforce.us
• Follow us on Instagram @bethanyadkins
• Find us on Youtube!
• 5 Reasons Why Community is Important: Article by Village Church
• Life Together by Deitrich Bonhoeffer

This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Anyone else wondering how we’re already in February?

Feels like we were just ringing in the new year, and now we’re knee-deep in real life. This episode, we’re hitting pause to reflect, laugh at the messiness, and talk about what’s actually helping us grow right now.

We’re also sharing what’s been shaping us lately—what we’re learning, reading, and listening to, plus our monthly Bible verse. And since iron sharpens iron (Proverbs 27:17), we’re talking about the power of community and how the right people push us to grow.

Life isn’t just about getting things done, though. We’re tackling the resistance that comes with stepping into something good—and how faith, perspective, and a solid support system help us push through. 

Come along with us for a mix of laughter, reflection, and a reminder that you’re never in this alone.

Episode Highlights: 

• Let’s catch up.
• What we’re reading, learning, & our favorite songs.
• Our Bible Verse for the month.
• Iron sharpens iron.

Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:

• Jointheforce.us
• Follow us on Instagram @bethanyadkins
• Find us on Youtube!
• Get your Bible verse printable here!

This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Have you ever thought about how the hardest moments in life can become the foundation for something beautiful?

In this episode, we chat with Vivian Brinkman, the force behind The Bohemian Mama, a natural skincare brand with a heart for community and authenticity. Vivian shares how growing up in a traditional Greek immigrant family shaped her values, how she and her husband turned challenges into creativity, and how parenting—especially raising a son with learning differences—taught her resilience, faith, and the true meaning of patience.

We’ll uncover the beauty of finding purpose in the mess, navigating life’s curveballs, and embracing healing in unexpected places. Plus, you’ll hear how Vivian’s mission goes beyond business, from wellness retreats to teaching kids the importance of conscious living. 

Be sure to follow Bethany and The Bohemian Mama on Instagram to stay in the loop for all the details on an upcoming giveaway—you won’t want to miss it!

Get ready for an inspiring conversation that will leave you encouraged, motivated, and ready to face your own challenges head-on.

Episode Highlights: 

• Meet Vivian.
• Vivian’s call to entrepreneurship.
• The value in investing in your family.
• We’re meant to be in community.
• Where do we even begin?

Find More on Vivian & The Bohemian Mama:

• Visit Vivian’s Website Here
• Follow The Bohemian Mama on Instagram

Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:

• Jointheforce.us
• Follow us on Instagram @bethanyadkins
• Find us on Youtube!

This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

What do car payments, surprise home repairs, and clashing love languages have in common? They’ve all put our marriage to the test—and taught us some unforgettable lessons.

In this episode, we’re spilling the tea (and maybe a few tears) about the current state of our consumer debt. From auto loans that have stretched our budget to gut-punch experiences like unexpected mold remediation, we’re diving into the realities of budgeting, debt, and finding financial harmony in marriage.

We’ll share what we’ve learned (shoutout to Dave Ramsey), why emergency funds are important, and how facing financial struggles together can actually bring you closer.

And because money isn’t the only thing that gets messy, we’re also talking about love languages—what happens when your “acts of service” don’t hit the same way for your spouse? We’ve been there.

Oh, and stick around for next week’s episode, where we’ll chat with a local small business owner about balancing relationships and running a biz. Let's figure this out together, one step (and laugh) at a time.

Episode Highlights: 

• Get back on the bike.
• Let’s talk about our consumer debt.
• How did we get here?
• How money impacts our marriages.
• Love Languages and Relationship Dynamics.

Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:

• Jointheforce.us
• Follow us on Instagram @bethanyadkins
• Find us on Youtube!

This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

How do you discern the voice of God when life feels overwhelming?

In today’s episode, we’re cutting through the noise to expose the lies of the enemy and uncover the truth about the spiritual battlefield we all face. From the very beginning—starting in the Garden of Eden—doubt and confusion have been tools of the enemy. But here’s the good news: God’s Word provides the clarity we need. We’ll dive into Proverbs 3:5-6 to explore how trusting Him can guide us through life’s toughest decisions and moments of uncertainty.

We’re unpacking the balance between faith and works and what it means to recognize and follow God’s voice in a world full of distractions. With personal stories, a little humor, and practical wisdom, we’ll dig into questions like: How do you know it’s God speaking? How can you trust His plan when it feels unclear? Whether it’s a relationship dilemma or a major career decision, this episode will encourage you to align your choices with biblical truth, find peace in the process, and stay strong in your faith when the enemy tries to shake it.

This one’s for anyone seeking clarity, confidence, and a deeper trust in God. Tune in—you don’t want to miss it!

Episode Highlights: 

• We live in confusing times.
• Lies from the enemy.
• Discerning the voice of God.
• Battling doubt and confusion.

Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:

• Jointheforce.us
• Follow us on Instagram @bethanyadkins
• Find us on Youtube!

This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

How can we turn the twists and turns of last year into opportunities for growth?

As we step into 2025, we’re taking a moment to reflect on the past year—the resolutions that got derailed, the unexpected messes, and the lessons learned.

This year, we’re focusing on what matters: setting boundaries, unplugging from distractions, and reconnecting with creativity and family. A holiday screen time detox reminded us of the power of being present, and our “State of the Union” talks inspired fresh ideas for personal growth and the podcast.

Consistency is the goal for 2025—whether it’s sticking to themes, growing spiritually, or navigating finances with purpose. Join us as we plan, pivot, and embrace whatever surprises the year has in store.

Episode Highlights: 

• Lessons from 2024
• Prioritizing family and screen-free time
• Monthly themed podcast structure
• Intentional family bonding
• Spiritual growth with shared Bible verses
• Focus on consistency, not resolutions
• Honest talks on financial health
• Building community with transparency and humor

Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:

• Jointheforce.us
• Follow us on Instagram @bethanyadkins
• Find us on Youtube!
• Get your Bible verse printable here!

This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Ever feel like you're just stuck in a funk?

In this episode, we dive into finding peace in the middle of life’s chaos. If you’ve ever felt lost or uncertain about your path, you’re not alone. We chat about how doubt can sneak into our minds and how taking a step back to connect with God can help bring peace.

With the holidays fast approaching, we know the stress is real, especially with tricky family dynamics. We talk about how leaning on God can help carry those heavy loads, especially for guys who tend to keep it all inside. Sometimes, it's in those quiet moments with God that we find the clarity and peace we need to face the chaos.

It's easy to get caught up in the rush, but let's not forget the real reason we celebrate Christmas. So, take a step back, focus on what truly matters, and let His love be your peace this season. Merry Christmas, everyone. Love you all!

Episode Highlights: 

• Ever feel like you’re lacking peace?
• Breaking the negativity loop.
• Fighting off distraction.
• God can turn anything for good.

Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:

• Jointheforce.us
• Follow us on Instagram @bethanyadkins
• Find us on Youtube!
• Good News: Peace - Pastor Alex North Canton Chapel

This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Do you have family meetings at your house?

It might seem like a small thing, but these casual hangouts can actually be a game-changer when it comes to staying organized and keeping everyone connected. We chat about how weekly family meetings help us stay on top of schedules, responsibilities, and avoid those little misunderstandings that pop up.

In this episode, we share how we keep things running smoothly at home, from organizing kids’ stuff to setting up clear expectations and consequences. Plus, we dive into the real challenges of parenting in the digital age—especially when it comes to managing screen time and guiding our kids through the online world.

Join us for some real talk, practical tips, and some good old-fashioned family wisdom to help bring more balance and connection into your home.

Episode Highlights: 

• Introducing Family Meetings.
• The flow of our family meetings.
• The importance of follow-through.
• Kids and devices.
• Bringing it all back to scripture.

Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:

• Jointheforce.us
• Follow us on Instagram @bethanyadkins
• Find us on Youtube!

This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.