It's been said, "We all have an a***ole, and they all stink except for mine." Well, let's explore that idea!

Stop looking at the word failure as if it's something negative. Think of it more as a learning experience, or as I like to think of it, The Mother of all Success.

In the second part of our DeFreaking exercise we talk about what to put in place of the things that you've removed from your life.

DeFreaking. It's the art of getting rid of all of the negativity in your life. Let's talk about when to do it and how.

NOT making a decision is still making a decision. Just let that sink in while you listen to this episode.

Without the leaf and what you're doing you won't get very far. You need Belief, Focus, and Action. Thise three things together will take you a long way to achieving whatever goals you set for yourself.

New Year's resolutions are no more than goals in disguise. So, let's talk about some New Year's resolutions and talk about how to achieve them. Maybe that will give you some ideas about how to solve your own goals.

Today's challenge is to do something special and unexpected for somebody. Anything. Do it to make them AND You feel good.

There's no reason to be a mean spirited person. Honestly, what purpose does it serve anyone to be mean spirited? Is it just for the "fun" of it that some people like to be mean? I'll submit to you that life is much more purposeful and fulfilling when one leaves the mean spirit behind and embraces true acts of kindness. I'm especially down on mean teachers at school. Let's talk about it for a minute and see if there's something to learn here.

If people call your ideas weird, that means you've come up with something they haven't thought of and it's a badge of honor. Let's talk about it.