Have you ever found it hard to maintain a healthy balance between your passion (blogging, photography, knitting, etc.) and the rest of your life?
When I first started blogging it was an all or nothing area of life for me. I was either ALL about my blog… it seemed my mind was on it night and day while I fell a little bit behind in other areas or NOTHING... finding myself staying caught up on the “other” things in my life... completely letting my blogging fall to the wayside.
Many driven people have an all or nothing personality, seeing things as either black or white. This is not usually a healthy state of mind. Research shows that all or nothing personality types suffer from depression more often than those with a more balanced frame of mind.
I happen to be one of those people with a perfectionist all or nothing mentality. However, I am learning day by day to know when something is “Good Enough” and you can too! If you find that you are living in a constant frantic state, trying to accomplish everything all at once, burning the candle at both ends, you need to get in the green zone by learning to align your passion with God's purpose!
Not sure you’ve been in the green zone for a while? My greenest green zone is the beach, that's when I stand in awe of His creation. I don’t live near the beach, so I have to find the green zones in my everyday life.
Let me start by explaining the zones
First, imagine you are a dog. You are just happily lazing in the shade, not sleeping although your eyes are closed, muscles relaxed but still aware of your surroundings...think of this as the GREEN ZONE.
Suddenly, you hear footsteps in the distance...your ears perk up to pick up the sounds and you open your eyes but you don’t raise your head...you have now moved into the YELLOW ZONE… you are “on alert” that there could be something to be on guard about but you aren’t in fight or flight mode...yet…
As you tune your ears on the sound in the distance your eyes suddenly focus in on a figure moving towards you. You see this figure has a big stick in one hand and a large net in the other hand… as the figure moves closer you can see it’s a man. He has an angry expression on his face. You feel the intense energy as he moves into your yard. Suddenly you are on your feet, teeth bared, ready to defend
Your adrenaline begins pumping and you have a heightened awareness that allows you to note any danger... You have just entered the RED ZONE. Fight or Flight.
Many times, the danger will pass by and after we calm down we can return to the Green Zone fairly quickly. However, often due to an over loaded schedule (whether perceived or in reality) or sometimes due to health problems, stress creates excess cortisol which is running through our body, keeping us in the RED ZONE too long.
This cortisol can cause problems, including the accumulation of fat around our middle. When we stay in the yellow or red zone without ever returning to that restful state of the green zone the tension begins to be destructive on our health.
In the past, I’ve had hesitation about becoming less all or nothing because I have been concerned that I would lose my edge. However, this thinking limits me. Not to mention the fact that it leads to burnout. Letting go of All-or-Nothing Thinking can be very beneficial to your productivity and can even lead to feelings of creativity and great joy.
It’s important to find balance and to take time to unwind. As a Christian, I should be too maxed out to spend time aligning my passion with God's p...