In this episode, I talk about a tragic story that has been sitting heavily on my mind, a secondary school student who reportedly lost his life after falling into a reservoir while trying to fetch water.

It made me reflect on the state of things around us, the realities many people are forced to live with, and how normalized suffering has become in this country. At some point, “May Nigeria not happen to me” stopped sounding like a joke and started sounding like a genuine prayer.

I also talk about exams, the stress that comes with lecturers saying one thing and setting another, and the mental exhaustion that follows trying to stay prepared for the unexpected.

And finally, I ask for your prayers for me, my friends, and my course mates as we continue writing our exams.

In this episode, I talk about a surprisingly soft and eventful week.

It started with a birthday celebration that honestly began with a very questionable cake… so bad I had to get another one, but somehow, we ended up with three cakes and a lot of enjoyment.

Then came Father’s Day, where we went home to surprise my dad, and let’s just say… it was a soft moment. He didn’t expect it at all, and it meant a lot more than I thought it would.

Somewhere in between all of that, I also talk about exams what I’ve written so far and what’s still ahead.

It’s a mix of small chaos, soft moments, and real life… as usual.

Before anything… this video wasn’t recorded when you’re watching it. I’m currently writing exams, so please say a word of prayer for me because I need it like mad.

In this episode, I dive into something I’ve talked about before, but this time… it’s personal.

I asked my roommates what I should talk about, and friendship came up and while I’ve shared my thoughts in Girl Friendships: A Whole Lot, this episode is different. This time, I’m talking about real experiences… the ones that actually hurt.

From moments where I felt dismissed, to situations where I had to question what friendship really means, to learning the hard way that you can’t expect people to be you, I unpack it all.

I talk about the difference between friends and acquaintances, the importance (and difficulty) of communication, reciprocity, and knowing when to let go especially when you’re holding on to who someone used to be. There’s also a bit of chaos, growth, self-reflection, and accountability, because I’m not perfect either.

At the end of it all, this episode is about what friendship should feel like peace, love, understanding, and honesty and the kind of friend we should all strive to be.

And again… please don’t forget to say a prayer for me.

In this episode, I talk about something really important, what you should look out for before working for a small business or organization. Using my roommate’s experience, I share how easy it is to fall into situations involving professional bullying, lack of payment, and being taken advantage of… especially when you don’t fully understand what you’re signing up for or when you sign cause of a personal relationship. This is your reminder to always read legal documents carefully and if you can, have a legal practitioner go through them. Your signature isn’t just a formality, it’s consent.

Somewhere in between all the seriousness, I also share a chaotic and funny moment from a trip to Onitsha for Mothering Sunday, including a second-daughter-and-father banter over my outfit. I also touch on the complexity of law questions (because why are they like that?) and relate it to a recent quiz I wrote.

It’s advice, it’s real-life experiences, it’s small chaos… basically, it’s a little bit of everything.

And yes, don’t forget to follow me on all platforms and look out for our visual episode for the month of April.

This episode is chaos., I won’t even lie.

From confidently spreading wrong information about becoming a SAN, to discovering people are eating beans and garri in ways I cannot defend, and don’t plan on defending, to hearing about a man who moved in “temporarily” with his babe and never left and still isn’t thinking of leaving.

Yeah, It’s that kind of episode and believe me, it’s fun.

In this episode, I talk about my week and honestly… it’s been a lot, when hasn’t it?

With exams around the corner, my mental health is already starting to feel the pressure and my nonchalance isn’t really helping. On top of that, the hostel situation in school just keeps getting worse, the cleaners still haven’t been paid for months and the state of the hostels are nothing to write home about, furthermore attempts where made by both the school officials and the student body government to silence students from protesting instead of actually fixing the problem(paying the cleaners).

I also went further to how I spent Easter break at home (and yes, I definitely did throw shades to those who spent theirs in school ).

Finally, I ended it with a personal tragedy my aesthetically pleasing cup is now incomplete because I broke the straw and it’s still annoying.

I guess it’s just a regular Wednesday here, so strap in.

This episode is all over the place… but so is life right now.

I talk about everything from small, random moments to heavy realities, students cleaning their own hostels, systems failing, and the weight of what’s happening around us.

At some point, it stops being just stories and becomes our reality … like we’re all trying to function in the middle of things falling apart and all we have to do is pray.

This is a chaotic episode, but also a call to our senses, how long will it go on?

In this episode, I sit down with myself and say the things I don’t always say out loud.

From relying too much on my emotions, to staying longer than I should, to letting people take up space in my head… this is me being honest about my patterns, my flaws, and the parts of me I know I need to work on.

But it’s not just about what I struggle with, it’s also about who I am outside of all that. The self-awareness, the depth, the emotions, the independence, and the parts of me I’m actually very proud of.

Because the truth is… I’m not perfect, but I’m aware, and that counts as something

In this episode, I take you through my week and honestly, it was a lot.

From hearing about a death at the hospital my roommate is posted to, to dealing with four days of no electricity in school, to finding out about the school cleaners haven’t been paid for five months now with nothing been done about it.

I also finally went for my eye check up after weeks of ignoring the pain signals or warning signs my eyes has been giving me, and of course, I chipped in the stress of an upcoming quiz I’m definitely not ready for but after the episode, I discovered it has been cancelled.

And to end on a very me note, I share with you all my latest buy…a girly glass cup that oozes of aesthetics and that fulfilling feeling.

It’s a typical Wednesday here, so get ready for that rant session.

In this episode, I sit down with author Danielle Frank, the mind behind A Wine Lover’s Guide to Parenting.

Together, we explore the unexpected connection between wine, children, and the lessons life teaches us along the way. Danielle shares how her love for wine inspired her writing, the stories behind her book, and how experiences with children shaped the way she sees growth, patience, and courage. From pairing parenting moments with different types of wine to reflecting on what adults can learn from children, this conversation is filled with humor, insight, and honest reflections about navigating life.

Whether you’re a parent, someone who loves kids, or simply trying to figure life out one day at a time, this episode reminds us that sometimes the best lessons come from the most unexpected places and unexpected sips.

So grab your favorite drink, sit back, and join us for a conversation about life, laughter, learning, and the courage to grow.