Today's episode is a little chat about anxious attachment! It might be a little chaotic so here are timestamps for some main points + takeaways:

3:26 avoidant hiding the anxious

4:52 avoidance is praised in today's generation + dating apps

8:43 what part of you is being reflected in relationships?

12:12 attachment vs. truly liking someone

16:01 fantasies, potential, false realities, limerence

19:28 women can mold men into role of husband

24:48 build a HOME within yourself

26:45 detachment

28:23 your cover fee + keeping your ecosystem pristine

29:50 fear of abandoning/losing self

35:05 'cool girl syndrome'

37:04 'this or better' mindset

38:31 is this boy my husband?

40:00 give them a $$ value

42:32 move as your higher self

44:02 emotional reactions + addictions

48:35 filling a void + avoidance with self

50:28 the 'expectation effect'

52:43 take responsibility to move forward

54:20 reminders + detachment prayer

Thank you so much for listening💕

Vicktia Trivedi:

https://youtu.be/t8dTBVe2EZM?si=5VVqoOR9PSsWOsQu

https://youtu.be/A16pUGT62S8?si=TE8vfW8btGDtwP1U

Aaron Doughty:

https://youtu.be/EivmQgaoeeQ?si=6_wEUeY2ogH5uaYt

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