Today's episode is a little chat about anxious attachment! It might be a little chaotic so here are timestamps for some main points + takeaways:
3:26 avoidant hiding the anxious
4:52 avoidance is praised in today's generation + dating apps
8:43 what part of you is being reflected in relationships?
12:12 attachment vs. truly liking someone
16:01 fantasies, potential, false realities, limerence
19:28 women can mold men into role of husband
24:48 build a HOME within yourself
28:23 your cover fee + keeping your ecosystem pristine
29:50 fear of abandoning/losing self
35:05 'cool girl syndrome'
37:04 'this or better' mindset
38:31 is this boy my husband?
40:00 give them a $$ value
42:32 move as your higher self
44:02 emotional reactions + addictions
48:35 filling a void + avoidance with self
50:28 the 'expectation effect'
52:43 take responsibility to move forward
54:20 reminders + detachment prayer
Thank you so much for listening💕
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