A Lo Oscuro

By Jorge Ruiz

This podcast is hosted by Jorge Ruiz better known as Negrosparty. A Podcast to keep you updated on whats going on around the world. In addition, I would like to motivated you, educated and inspire you... more

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August 01, 2020 S2 E17. Ellen Degeneres - 5+ Mistakes Men Make - Dating after 40
Jorge Ruiz (Newark,NJ) - Today we spoke about the ‘Ellen DeGeneres Show’ Workplace to Be Reviewed by WarnerMedia. In addition, some of the allegations made from some previous and current employees. They declared they suffered discrimination and a very toxic environment to work in. On the other hand, I challenge some of the statements that were made.
In addition, I spoke about mistakes men make before getting to the bedroom. And how this change in mentality can improve your sex life and performance.
Last but certainly not least, one of our listeners reached out to ask about how someone that is 40+ should take dating after a long relationship. These are advice you can take at any point to improve your dating life and perspective on dating.
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43min
July 27, 2020 Bonus: 5+ Myths Of The Female Sexuality w/ Nina Cudney
Jorge Ruiz (Newark, NJ) - There is a large amount of myths about the female sexuality, most of which are old saying or just straight up stupid. On the other hand, there are some myths that we battle with because we hear different opinions from females themselves.
We decided to sit down with Nina Cudney a mental health and sexuality coach. We talked some of most common myths of female sexuality and some general clarifications people should know.
Check this video out for all the myths you need to clear up!
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55min
July 25, 2020 Bonus: Porn Addiction ( Trauma - Family - Help) w/ Joshua Shea - A Lo Oscuro with Negrosparty
What is it porn addiction?
Porn has been around for a very long time and its been controversial as well.
Some people are offended by it, some take part of it, others use it on a regular basis (myself) and some become "addicted" to it. It all comes down to personal preferences, choice, category or kink.
It’s important that you know that “porn addiction” isn’t an official diagnosis recognized by the American Psychiatric Association (APA). But not being able to control the impulse to see porn can be a problem.
The American Psychiatric Association states that "Addiction is a complex condition, a brain disease that is manifested by compulsive substance use despite harmful consequence. People with addiction (severe substance use disorder) have an intense focus on using a certain substance(s), such as alcohol or drugs, to the point that it takes over their life."
Is it really an addiction?
People may struggle to talk about this, its hard to know if people are enjoying porn on a regular basis, or cannot live their regular life without seeing it.
Heres Joshua Shea story and how it dealt with his porn addiction.
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1h 2min
July 21, 2020 S2 E16. Wayfair Conspiracy - Sex Appeal - The Entanglement
TRENDING TOPIC
WAYFAIR CONSPIRACY
SUCIERIA DE NEGRO
RULES OF SEX APPEAL
RANT OF THE DAY
Will Smith / Jada Smith (Entanglement)
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44min
July 17, 2020 Bonus: How to improve your Sex Timing w/ Jim Goetz
Jim Goetz is has passed both the chiropractic and physiotherapy National Board exams, and pursues a passion in the optimization of human performance. He is a certified strength and conditioning specialist through the NSCA and holds numerous other certifications in human performance fields. Jim Goetz's expertise is in the advancement of human performance.
Jim Goetz has an extensive background in the field of strength and conditioning. He has coached a variety of athletes in strength and conditioning, ranging from high school national wrestling champions, NCAA Division I football, NFL, MLB, MLS, USA Gymnastics, Olympic Athletes, NCAA Womens basketball, professional boxing and NPC womens figure and bikini divisions.
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33min
July 10, 2020 S2 E15. Vanessa Guillen - Period Sex - Caught Cheating
TRENDING TOPIC
Vanessa Guillen a soldier that made a commitment to serve this country we call the United States. More than 10 weeks after she mysteriously vanished from Fort Hood, human remains were found in a grave a couple miles away from the army base. Her supposed killer committed suicide when the police was going to arrest him for the murder of Vanessa Guillen. The same name that Vanessa said that was sexually harassing her, Aron Robinson. I believe the army was trying to cover up the misbehavior of this soldier along with the murder of Vanessa. Who was found in the same spot they search FIVE times, FIVE! Not once or twice but FIVE TIMES. Below you'll find a timeline of important incidents in this case.
April 22 - Vanessa Guillen was last seen int he parking lot of a headquarters at Ford Hood.
April 27 - The Army's Criminal Investigation Command offered a reward for information $15,000
May 1 - Family members held a rally demanding answers in her disappearance.
May 22 - Another peaceful protest outside of Fort Hood with Vanessa's Family
June 10 - The Guillen family hold a new conference in Houston asking for a federal investigation
June 11 - National attention after Selma Hayek posted a picture of Vanessa Guillen in which she said "Bring Us Back Vanessa"
June 22- K-9 and Dive Teams joined the army and Texas rangers in the search near the Leon River after a tip. THEY DIDNT FIND ANYTHING AFTER SEARCHING FOR THE FIFTH TIME. Its the same place where Vanessa's remains were found on June 30th
July 1 - Aaron Robinson kills himself before the police can come and arrest him
SUCIERIAS DE NEGRO
I had period sex! Something that might gross some people out and others will say " Me too". Another taboo subject that very few people will talk about or even admit that they would like to do it. But I lucky don't fall in that category. Here are six reason why I think you should do and and we should freak out about having some blood on a towel.
1. Take advantage of the HORNINESS
So Ive heard this from plenty of women that right before their period they become very horny. In addition, Ive had women agree that when they are on they period its the horniest they ever get. Fellas, I say we take advantage of this biological moment in life and have sex.
2. You may have a more Intense orgasm
Who doesn't like to orgasm? I sure do. While women are on they period their uterus swells and puts pressure on nerve ends in her vagina. As a result making her much more sensitive and for some women this equals a higher chance of reaching the climax of a lifetime.
3. You DONT need lube.
Listen this is pretty clear! You save a few buck and you get to have sex. The blood acts as a lubricant actually better than must lube brands used by a lot of people.
4. Helps her deal with the pain
During her period you have heard of the mood swings, the cramps, needy, ect. So how can having sex while on your period help this? Well according to the certified sex therapist Donna Oriowo "Orgasms can lead to the uterine contractions, which can help the process of shedding the uterine lining along". In other words, get laid with the intentions to have less cramps and hopefully an shorted period.
5. The GLOW UP
Aside from the fact that its taking away cramps, the body releases endorphins and oxytocin during sex that lead to lowering your stress level. Which comes in handy during your period
6. She deserves it! Shit WE Deserve it
A period only stops a sentence and Ive taken a few stop signs. No women should feel ashamed of any natural process of her body. During this time of the month you should not feel obligated to not partake in certain sexual activities. And If your man isnt down then put him on time out for another week and tell him you think hes on his period.
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47min
June 25, 2020S2 E14. TRUMP VS WAITRESS - EATING A RING - "LETS TRY SOMETHING NEW - FATHERHOOD
TRENDING TOPIC
Trump Wants You to Tip Restaurant Owners, Not Servers
Leaving the tip to the business instead
The wealthy getting richer
The public left in the dark
The median hourly wage for waiters and waitresses was less than $10 per hour in 2015
Before the next time you go out to dinner, please take a minute to tell Secretary Acosta, Administrator Rao and President Trump: I want my tips to go to the person who worked hard to serve me, not to the restaurant owner.
California ladies eats engagement ring while sleeping (Geo )
https://www.nbcnews.com/news/weird-news/california-woman-dreamed-about-eating-engagement-ring-woke-find-she-n1054626
Jenna Evans
Engagement
2.4 carat diamond engagement ring
bizarre dream
When to the doctor X-Ray / Tube with a camera and net
Sucieria De Negro
Exploring your sex life
Lets “try something new’

We all have kinks (group sex, BDSM, unique settings, or toys, exibition, partner sharing or non monogamy)

50% of people have a kink that they would like to try but haven't

On average it take over 3 months in a relationship to bring up a kink
Wearing Lingerie 36%
Sexting during the day 33%
A new sexual act 25%
Watching porn together 23%
Seeing a sex therapist 10%
Get comfortable expressing your needs. This has lead to better sex by a 90%
RANT OF THE DAY
Fatherhood
Motherhood

Father vs Husband

Being there vs Being Present

StepDad Latino Men
Why Latino dads don’t say “I love you”
Not Affectionate

Never stay but they love you

Emotions = Weakness
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33min
June 17, 2020S2 E13. Trollz - Ryshard Brooks - Strong Penis - Struggles - Yo Tengo Un Amigo
TRENDING TOPIC
6ix9ine Ft Nicki Minaj - Trollz
Dollar, dollar bill, come get her
Even your man know Nickis do it better
actress LisaRaye McCoy, when LisaRaye fired shots at Nicki on the famous podcast, Out Loud With Claudia Jordan:
“TAKE A SEAT. You don’t have to sit down for long, but just take a bow

Somebody usher this nigga into a clinic
My flow's still sick, I ain't talkin' a pandemic
disses the R&B singer Usher—stemming from when Usher states “Nicki is a product of Lil' Kim.”
I write my own lyrics, a lot of these bitches gimmicks
Over the years Cardi’s credibility as a lyricist
Talkin' 'bout snitches when it's snitches in your camp
Meek was seen publicly with Desiree Perez who was arrested in New York for possession with intent to distribute 35 kilograms of cocaine.
Never stand alone, you always itchin' for a stamp
Meek has aligned himself with some of the most successful artists in the game including JAY Z, Drake, Future, and Rick Ross amongst other

Rayshard Brooks
So What Happened?
10:33 Cops get a call of a sleeping driver

10:42 Cops arrive to wake him up

10:49 Request backup

11:03 Checks whether Brooks is armed

11:04 Mr Brooks goes through a sobriety test
Admits he has been drinking

Ask if he can lock up the car and walk to his sister

11:23 Mr Brook is told he’s had too much to drink to be driving and begins to handcuff him
Less than a minute later Mr Brook is shot

https://www.nytimes.com/2020/06/14/us/videos-rayshard-brooks-shooting-atlanta-police.html
SUCIERIA DE NEGRO
6 Things that give your penis life
Semen retention. The longer you go without ejaculating the stronger your stamina erection

Abstaining from animal meat because cholesterol blocks the passages to the blood vessels

Vitamin D because its a hormone you need and or sun exposure

Doing legs in the gym. Leg day boost testosterone

Get more sleep. Sleep is essential for testosterone production

Stop sugar and alcohol. Both lower testosterone production making it tougher to get it up
@HigherToHealth
Rant of the Day
The importance of Struggle
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30min
June 09, 2020S2 E12. Racism in DR? - 5 Ways To Know If Your Mom Was A T#0T - Reasons Millennial Dont Want To Have Kids - Yo Tengo Un Amigo
TRENDING TOPIC
Dominican racist?
Dominican Republic - multi racial society
( Taínos / españoles / Africanos )
Only difference from PR, DR, CUBA, Haiti and African American is a different boat stop
Enslaved by Spain for 300 years
Emancipated by Haiti in 1801 and 1822
free from legal, social, or political restrictions; liberated en el 1844
Padres de la Patria
Duarte poem
Era Duarte anti haitianista?!
( idiologia creada por Trujillo )
Anti - Haitianismo
Homocide of the Haitians
1937 / 10000+ Haitianos Muertos
Aspire to whiteness
Mejorar la raza
Mulato ( product of a white man with a slave )

(Batey) Lugar donde están las casas, oficinas y el comercio en un central azucarero.
Racial segregation is the systemic separation of people into racial or other ethnic groups in daily life. Segregation can involve the spatial separation of the races, and mandatory use of different institutions, such as schools and hospitals by people of different races.
Racist accepted comments in our culture
Moño malo ( greña )

Cocolos

No dañes la raza

Maldito Negro
Acts of Good between Haiti and DR
first to help after the earthquake (last to leave )

Gave residency when more powerful countries send them back
So are Dominicas Racista / / anti Haitianismo // classista?
SUCIERIA DE NEGRO
https://bigeye.ug/10-signs-you-are-dating-a-whore/
Catch your mom getting trained on
Knows all the club owner/security/host at all the locations you go to eat

If you lost count on how many boyfriends she had

Home remedy for all the sti/std

Walks around with her camel 🐫 toe like it’s a Louie belt

Fucked one of your boys

After how many abortions are you a thot ?!
RANT OF THE DAY
https://www.mic.com/p/11-brutally-honest-reasons-millenials-dont-want-kids-19629045 (next episode)
1. Kids aren't always financially feasible — especially if you have student loans.
2. There's a strong fear of passing down mental health issues.
3. The population is already out of control.
4. Fertility issues can give a different perspective on the necessity of having kids.
5. Pregnancy can take a serious physical toll.
6. With kids comes the pressure to make perfect choices.
7. Not all women are preprogrammed with maternal instincts.
8. The world isn't always a nice place.
9. Sometimes, career ambitions take priority
10. Children don't fit into every lifestyle.
11.Ultimately, a reason shouldn't even be necessary.
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37min
June 02, 2020S2 E11. Riot VS Protest - Pocket Pussy - Sex with Shoes - Dont/Cant Have kids - Yo Tengo Un Amigo
TRENDING TOPIC
Difference between riots and riots
Riot
A riot () is a form of civil disorder commonly characterized by a group lashing out in a violent public disturbance against authority, property or people. Riots typically involve theft, vandalism, and destruction of property, public or private. The property targeted varies depending on the riot and the inclinations of those involved. Targets can include shops, cars, restaurants, state-owned institutions, and religious buildings.
Protest
A protest (also called a remonstrance, remonstration or demonstration) is an expression of bearing witness on behalf of an express cause by words or actions with regard to particular events, policies or situations. Protests can take many different forms, from individual statements to mass demonstrations. Protesters may organize a protest as a way of publicly making their opinions heard in an attempt to influence public opinion or government policy, or they may undertake direct action in an attempt to directly enact desired changes themselves. Where protests are part of a systematic and peaceful campaign to achieve a particular objective, and involve the use of pressure as well as persuasion, they go beyond mere protest and may be better described as cases of civil resistance or nonviolent resistance.
SUCIERIA DE NEGRO
Pocket pussy experience / fifi (in jail ) / flesh light
Assumption: low self esteem / sex addict / lack of social skills
Try to use it without the case / fling lube n cum all over the place
Ridges in the inside
Lube / no lube
Condom / without
Foot fetish
https://nypost.com/2020/05/26/foot-fetishist-arrested-after-stealing-having-sex-with-100-pairs-of-flip-flops/
A Thai man with an unhealthy obsession with shoes has been arrested for stealing more than 100 pairs of flip-flops, which he admitted to having sex with.
local man Theerapat Klaiya, 24
The alleged footwear fetishist described how he would wear the sandals, which spanned every make and size, around the house to arouse himself (And that was just foreplay.)
Theerapat would reportedly then caress and kiss the well-worn flip-flops, strip down and rub them all over his naked body, and then, eventually, make love to them.
RANT OF THE DAY
If your girl can’t have kids will you have sex with another women’s or what are your options?!
Cheating
Most popular option
Harms relationship / possibly the child

Adoption
Provides a child with loving parents
Build a family

Seagate Mother
A woman who becomes pregnant usually by artificial insemination or surgical implantation of a fertilized egg for the purpose of carrying the fetus to term for another woman. Other Words from surrogate mother

Doesnt Want to have kids
Do you love them enough to give up not having kids?
Lifestyles sometimes doesnt allow it (fbi agents / drug lord / bad childhood (next episode ill go into more reasons why people dpnt want to have kids )
YO TENGO UN AMIGO
Yerba

Roba pante

Amigo y la botella

Llamas mas que tu mujer

Arracase con la tarjeta

Uber y yerba
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33min

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