A Lo Oscuro

A Lo Oscuro

By Jorge RuizSociety & Culture
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  • S2 E17. Ellen Degeneres - 5+ Mistakes Men Make - Dating after 40

    Jorge Ruiz (Newark,NJ) - Today we spoke about the ‘Ellen DeGeneres Show’ Workplace to Be Reviewed by WarnerMedia. In addition, some of the allegations made from some previous and current employees.  They declared they suffered discrimination and a very toxic environment to work in.  On the other hand, I challenge some of the statements that were made.

    In addition, I spoke about mistakes men make before getting to the bedroom. And how this change in mentality can improve your sex life and performance.

    Last but certainly not least, one of our listeners reached out to ask about how someone that is 40+ should take dating  after a long relationship. These are advice you can take at any point to improve your dating life and perspective on dating.  

    43 min
  • Bonus: 5+ Myths Of The Female Sexuality w/ Nina Cudney

    Jorge Ruiz (Newark, NJ) - There is a large amount of myths about the female sexuality, most of which are old saying or just straight up stupid. On the other hand, there are some myths that we battle with because we hear different opinions from females themselves.

    We decided to sit down with Nina Cudney a mental health and sexuality coach. We talked some of most common myths of female sexuality and some general clarifications people should know.

    Check this video out for all the myths you need to clear up!

    55 min
  • Bonus: Porn Addiction ( Trauma - Family - Help) w/ Joshua Shea - A Lo Oscuro with Negrosparty
    What is it porn addiction?

    Porn has been around for a very long time and its been controversial as well.

    Some people are offended by it, some take part of it, others use it on a regular basis (myself) and some become "addicted" to it. It all comes down to personal preferences, choice, category or kink.

    It’s important that you know that  “porn addiction” isn’t an official diagnosis recognized by the American Psychiatric Association (APA). But not being able to control the impulse to see porn can be a problem.

    The American Psychiatric Association states that "Addiction is a complex condition, a brain disease that is manifested by compulsive substance use despite harmful consequence. People with addiction (severe substance use disorder) have an intense focus on using a certain substance(s), such as alcohol or drugs, to the point that it takes over their life."

    Is it really an addiction?

    People may struggle to talk about this, its hard to know if people are enjoying porn on a regular basis, or cannot live their regular life without seeing it.

    Heres Joshua Shea story and how it dealt with his porn addiction.

    1 hr 2 min
  • Bonus: How to improve your Sex Timing w/ Jim Goetz

    Jim Goetz is has passed both the chiropractic and physiotherapy National Board exams, and pursues a passion in the optimization of human performance. He is a certified strength and conditioning specialist through the NSCA and holds numerous other certifications in human performance fields. Jim Goetz's expertise is in the advancement of human performance.

    Jim Goetz has an extensive background in the field of strength and conditioning. He has coached a variety of athletes in strength and conditioning, ranging from high school national wrestling champions, NCAA Division I football, NFL, MLB, MLS, USA Gymnastics, Olympic Athletes, NCAA Womens basketball, professional boxing and NPC womens figure and bikini divisions.

    33 min
  • S2 E15. Vanessa Guillen - Period Sex - Caught Cheating

    TRENDING TOPIC

    Vanessa Guillen a soldier that made a commitment to serve this country we call the United States. More than 10 weeks after she mysteriously vanished from Fort Hood, human remains were found in a grave a couple miles away from the army base. Her supposed killer committed suicide when the police was going to arrest him for the murder of Vanessa Guillen. The same name that Vanessa said that was sexually harassing her, Aron Robinson. I believe the army was trying to cover up the misbehavior of this soldier along with the murder of Vanessa. Who was found in the same spot they search FIVE times, FIVE! Not once or twice but FIVE TIMES. Below you'll find a timeline of important incidents in this case.

    April 22 - Vanessa Guillen was last seen int he parking lot of a headquarters at  Ford Hood.

    April 27 - The Army's Criminal Investigation Command offered a reward for information $15,000
    May 1 - Family members held a rally demanding answers in her disappearance.
    May 22 - Another peaceful protest outside of  Fort Hood with Vanessa's Family
    June 10 - The Guillen family hold a new conference in Houston asking for a federal investigation
    June 11 - National attention after Selma Hayek posted a picture of Vanessa Guillen in which she said "Bring Us Back Vanessa"
    June 22-  K-9 and Dive Teams joined the army and Texas rangers in the search near the Leon River after a tip. THEY DIDNT FIND ANYTHING AFTER SEARCHING FOR THE FIFTH TIME. Its the same place where Vanessa's remains were found on June 30th
    July 1 -  Aaron Robinson kills himself before the police can come and arrest him

    SUCIERIAS DE NEGRO

    I had period sex! Something that might gross some people out and others will say " Me too". Another taboo subject that very few people will talk about or even admit that they would like to do it. But I lucky don't fall in that category. Here are six reason why I think you should do and and we should freak out about having some blood on a towel. 

    1. Take advantage of the HORNINESS

    So Ive heard this from plenty of women that right before their period they become very horny. In addition, Ive had women agree that when they are on they period its the horniest they ever get. Fellas, I say we take advantage of this biological moment in life and have sex.

    2. You may have a more Intense orgasm

    Who doesn't like to orgasm? I sure do. While women are on they period their uterus swells and puts pressure on nerve ends in her vagina. As a result making her much more sensitive and for some women this equals a higher chance of reaching the climax of a lifetime.

    3. You DONT need lube.

    Listen this is pretty clear! You save a few buck and you get to have sex. The blood acts as a lubricant actually better than must lube brands used by a lot of people.

    4. Helps her deal with the pain

    During her period you have heard of the mood swings, the cramps, needy, ect. So how can having sex while on your period help this? Well according to the certified sex therapist Donna Oriowo "Orgasms can lead to the uterine contractions, which can help the process of shedding the uterine lining along". In other words, get laid with the intentions to have less cramps and hopefully an shorted period.

    5. The GLOW UP

    Aside from the fact that its taking away cramps, the body releases endorphins and oxytocin during sex that lead to lowering your stress level. Which comes in handy during your period

    6. She deserves it! Shit WE Deserve it

    A period only stops a sentence and Ive taken a few stop signs. No women should feel ashamed of any natural process of her body. During this time of the month you should not feel obligated to not partake in certain sexual activities. And If your man isnt down then put him on time out for another week and tell him you think hes on his period.

    47 min
  • S2 E14. TRUMP VS WAITRESS - EATING A RING - "LETS TRY SOMETHING NEW - FATHERHOOD

    TRENDING TOPIC

    Trump Wants You to Tip Restaurant Owners, Not Servers

    Leaving the tip to the business instead

    The wealthy getting richer

    The public left in the dark

    The median hourly wage for waiters and waitresses was less than $10 per hour in 2015

    Before the next time you go out to dinner, please take a minute to tell Secretary Acosta, Administrator Rao and President Trump: I want my tips to go to the person who worked hard to serve me, not to the restaurant owner.

    California ladies eats engagement ring while sleeping (Geo )

    https://www.nbcnews.com/news/weird-news/california-woman-dreamed-about-eating-engagement-ring-woke-find-she-n1054626

    Jenna Evans

    Engagement

    2.4 carat diamond engagement ring

    bizarre dream 

    When to the doctor X-Ray / Tube with a camera and net

    Sucieria De Negro

    Exploring your sex life
    • Lets “try something new’
    • We all have kinks (group sex, BDSM, unique settings, or toys, exibition, partner sharing or non monogamy)
    • 50% of people have a kink that they would like to try but haven't
    • On average it take over 3 months in a relationship to bring up a kink

      • Wearing Lingerie 36%

      Sexting during the day 33%

      A new sexual act 25%

      Watching porn together 23%

      Seeing a sex therapist 10%

      • Get comfortable expressing your needs. This has lead to  better sex by a 90%

        • RANT OF THE DAY

        Fatherhood
        • Motherhood
        • Father vs Husband
        • Being there vs Being Present
        • StepDad Latino Men
          • Why Latino dads don’t say “I love you”
          • Not Affectionate
          • Never stay but they love you
          • Emotions = Weakness
            • 33 min
          • S2 E13. Trollz - Ryshard Brooks - Strong Penis - Struggles - Yo Tengo Un Amigo

            TRENDING TOPIC

            6ix9ine Ft Nicki Minaj - Trollz

            Dollar, dollar bill, come get her

            Even your man know Nickis do it better

            1. actress LisaRaye McCoy, when LisaRaye fired shots at Nicki on the famous podcast, Out Loud With Claudia Jordan:
              1. “TAKE A SEAT. You don’t have to sit down for long, but just take a bow

                2. Somebody usher this nigga into a clinic

                My flow's still sick, I ain't talkin' a pandemic

                1. disses the R&B singer Usher—stemming from when Usher states “Nicki is a product of Lil' Kim.”

                  2. I write my own lyrics, a lot of these bitches gimmicks

                  1. Over the years Cardi’s credibility as a lyricist 

                    2. Talkin' 'bout snitches when it's snitches in your camp

                    1. Meek was seen publicly with Desiree Perez who was arrested in New York for possession with intent to distribute 35 kilograms of cocaine.

                      2. Never stand alone, you always itchin' for a stamp

                      1. Meek has aligned himself with some of the most successful artists in the game including JAY Z, Drake, Future, and Rick Ross amongst other


                        2. Rayshard Brooks

                        So What Happened?

                        • 10:33 Cops get a call of a sleeping driver
                        • 10:42 Cops arrive to wake him up
                        • 10:49 Request backup
                        • 11:03 Checks whether Brooks is armed
                        • 11:04 Mr Brooks goes through a sobriety test
                          • Admits he has been drinking
                          • Ask if he can lock up the car and walk to his sister
                          • 11:23 Mr Brook is told he’s had too much to drink to be driving and begins to handcuff him
                            • Less than a minute later Mr Brook is shot

                              • https://www.nytimes.com/2020/06/14/us/videos-rayshard-brooks-shooting-atlanta-police.html

                              SUCIERIA DE NEGRO

                              6 Things that give your penis life

                              1. Semen retention. The longer you go without ejaculating the stronger your stamina erection
                              2. Abstaining from animal meat because cholesterol blocks the passages to the blood vessels
                              3. Vitamin D because its a hormone you need and or sun exposure
                              4. Doing legs in the gym. Leg day boost testosterone
                              5. Get more sleep. Sleep is essential for  testosterone production
                              6. Stop sugar and alcohol. Both lower testosterone production making it tougher to get it up

                                7. @HigherToHealth

                                Rant of the Day

                                The importance of Struggle

                                30 min
                              7. S2 E12. Racism in DR? - 5 Ways To Know If Your Mom Was A T#0T - Reasons Millennial Dont Want To Have Kids - Yo Tengo Un Amigo

                                TRENDING TOPIC

                                Dominican racist?

                                Dominican Republic - multi racial society

                                ( Taínos / españoles / Africanos )

                                Only difference from PR, DR, CUBA, Haiti and African American is a different boat stop

                                Enslaved by Spain for 300 years 

                                Emancipated by Haiti in 1801 and 1822

                                free from legal, social, or political restrictions; liberated en el 1844

                                Padres de la Patria

                                Duarte poem

                                Era Duarte anti haitianista?!

                                ( idiologia creada por Trujillo )

                                Anti - Haitianismo

                                Homocide of the Haitians

                                1937 / 10000+ Haitianos Muertos

                                Aspire to whiteness

                                Mejorar la raza

                                Mulato ( product of a white man with a slave )


                                (Batey) Lugar donde están las casas, oficinas y el comercio en un central azucarero.

                                Racial segregation is the systemic separation of people into racial or other ethnic groups in daily life. Segregation can involve the spatial separation of the races, and mandatory use of different institutions, such as schools and hospitals by people of different races.

                                Racist accepted comments in our culture

                                • Moño malo ( greña )
                                • Cocolos
                                • No dañes la raza
                                • Maldito Negro

                                  • Acts of Good between Haiti and DR

                                  • first to help after the earthquake (last to leave )
                                  • Gave residency when more powerful countries send them back

                                    • So are Dominicas Racista / / anti Haitianismo // classista?

                                    SUCIERIA DE NEGRO

                                    https://bigeye.ug/10-signs-you-are-dating-a-whore/

                                    Catch your mom getting trained on

                                    1. Knows all the club owner/security/host at all the locations you go to eat
                                    2. If you lost count on how many boyfriends she had
                                    3. Home remedy for all the sti/std
                                    4. Walks around with her camel 🐫 toe like it’s a Louie belt
                                    5. Fucked one of your boys
                                    6. After how many abortions are you a thot ?!

                                      7. RANT OF THE DAY

                                      https://www.mic.com/p/11-brutally-honest-reasons-millenials-dont-want-kids-19629045 (next episode)

                                      1. Kids aren't always financially feasible — especially if you have student loans.
                                      2. There's a strong fear of passing down mental health issues.
                                      3. The population is already out of control.
                                      4. Fertility issues can give a different perspective on the necessity of having kids.
                                      5. Pregnancy can take a serious physical toll.
                                      6. With kids comes the pressure to make perfect choices.
                                      7. Not all women are preprogrammed with maternal instincts.
                                      8. The world isn't always a nice place.
                                      9. Sometimes, career ambitions take priority
                                      10. Children don't fit into every lifestyle.

                                      11.Ultimately, a reason shouldn't even be necessary.

                                      37 min
                                    7. S2 E11. Riot VS Protest - Pocket Pussy - Sex with Shoes - Dont/Cant Have kids - Yo Tengo Un Amigo

                                      TRENDING TOPIC

                                      Difference between riots and riots

                                      Riot

                                      A riot () is a form of civil disorder commonly characterized by a group lashing out in a violent public disturbance against authority, property or people. Riots typically involve theft, vandalism, and destruction of property, public or private. The property targeted varies depending on the riot and the inclinations of those involved. Targets can include shops, cars, restaurants, state-owned institutions, and religious buildings.

                                      Protest

                                      A protest (also called a remonstrance, remonstration or demonstration) is an expression of bearing witness on behalf of an express cause by words or actions with regard to particular events, policies or situations. Protests can take many different forms, from individual statements to mass demonstrations. Protesters may organize a protest as a way of publicly making their opinions heard in an attempt to influence public opinion or government policy, or they may undertake direct action in an attempt to directly enact desired changes themselves. Where protests are part of a systematic and peaceful campaign to achieve a particular objective, and involve the use of pressure as well as persuasion, they go beyond mere protest and may be better described as cases of civil resistance or nonviolent resistance.

                                      SUCIERIA DE NEGRO

                                      Pocket pussy experience / fifi (in jail ) / flesh light

                                      Assumption: low self esteem / sex addict / lack of social skills

                                      Try to use it without the case / fling lube n cum all over the place

                                      Ridges in the inside

                                      Lube / no lube

                                      Condom / without

                                      Foot fetish

                                      https://nypost.com/2020/05/26/foot-fetishist-arrested-after-stealing-having-sex-with-100-pairs-of-flip-flops/

                                      A Thai man with an unhealthy obsession with shoes has been arrested for stealing more than 100 pairs of flip-flops, which he admitted to having sex with.

                                      local man Theerapat Klaiya, 24

                                      The alleged footwear fetishist described how he would wear the sandals, which spanned every make and size, around the house to arouse himself (And that was just foreplay.)

                                      Theerapat would reportedly then caress and kiss the well-worn flip-flops, strip down and rub them all over his naked body, and then, eventually, make love to them.

                                      RANT OF THE DAY

                                      If your girl can’t have kids will you have sex with another women’s or what are your options?!

                                      • Cheating
                                        • Most popular option
                                        • Harms relationship / possibly the child
                                        • Adoption
                                          • Provides a child with loving parents
                                          Build a family
                                        • Seagate Mother
                                          • A woman who becomes pregnant usually by artificial insemination or surgical implantation of a fertilized egg for the purpose of carrying the fetus to term for another woman. Other Words from surrogate mother
                                        • Doesnt Want to have kids
                                          • Do you love them enough to give up not having kids?
                                          Lifestyles sometimes doesnt allow it (fbi agents / drug lord / bad childhood (next episode ill go into more reasons why people dpnt want to have kids )

                                          YO TENGO UN AMIGO

                                          • Yerba
                                          • Roba pante
                                          • Amigo y la botella
                                          • Llamas mas que tu mujer
                                          • Arracase con la tarjeta
                                          • Uber y yerba
                                            • 33 min

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                                          This podcast is hosted by Jorge Ruiz better known as Negrosparty. A Podcast to keep you updated on whats going on around the world. In addition, I would like to motivated you, educated and inspire you…