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Anorgasmia is delayed, infrequent or absent orgasms — or significantly less-intense orgasms — after sexual arousal and adequate sexual stimulation. Women who have problems with orgasms and who feel significant distress about those problems may be diagnosed with anorgasmia.Apr 30, 2022
Source: Anorgasmia in women - Symptoms and causes - Mayo Clinic
References
https://kuscholarworks.ku.edu/bitstream/handle/1808/4517/Stroupe_ku_0099M_10161_DATA_1.pdf?isAllowed=y&sequence=1
5-10% of women have never orgasmed [though many of these women may later in life.] [5]
Elisabeth A. Lloyd
The Case of the Female Orgasm: Bias in the Science of Evolution
According to one study, 12% of women aged 17-28 have never had an orgasm.
Who’s Pretending – Fake Orgasm Statistics
59% of women have faked an orgasm. [12]
25% of men have faked an orgasm. [13]
67% of women who had ever faked an orgasm no longer fake them. [12]
Study of over 1000 English-speaking women 18-94 published 2019
Women who continued to fake orgasms were more likely to indicate embarrassment talking about sex with their partner in explicit ways and were less likely to agree that they and their partner are able to talk specifically about what makes sex more pleasurable for them. More than half (55.4%) of women reported they had wanted to communicate with a partner regarding sex but decided not to; the most common reasons were not wanting to hurt a partner’s feelings (42.4%), not feeling comfortable going into detail (40.2%), and embarrassment (37.7%).
Greater self-reported sexual satisfaction was associated with more comfortable sexual communication. Study findings and implications for professionals are discussed in the context of adult sexual development and learning. This includes growing more comfortable talking with a partner about sexual preferences and sexual pleasure.
https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-019-01493-0
Journal of SEX research
Men's and Women's Reports of Pretending Orgasm
Charlene L. Muehlenhard & Sheena K. Shippee
Pages 552-567 | Published online: 25 Aug 2009
Frequently reported reasons were that orgasm was unlikely, they wanted sex to end, and they wanted to avoid negative consequences (e.g., hurting their partner's feelings) and to obtain positive consequences (e.g., pleasing their partner). Results suggest a sexual script in which women should orgasm before men, and men are responsible for women's orgasms. Charlene L. Muehlenhard & Sheena K. Shippee (2010) Men's and Women's Reports of Pretending Orgasm, The Journal of Sex Research, 47:6, 552-567, DOI: 10.1080/00224490903171794
https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/00224490903171794
Sexual Fantasies and Orgasm
20% of women have orgasmed just thinking about their favorite fantasy.
The same is true for 10% of men.
Source Justin J. Lehmiller
Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life
Dr. Justin J. Lehmiller (Ph.D., Purdue University) is a Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and author of the book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. He is an award-winning educator, having been honored three times with the Certificate of Teaching Excellence from Harvard University, where he taught for several years. Dr. Lehmiller is also a prolific researcher and scholar, having published more than 40 pieces of academic writing to date, including articles in some of the leading journals on sex and relationships, as well as two textbooks.
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🌱 Believe. Empower. Transform.
Because when you bet on yourself, you invest in your peace, your power, and your purpose.
Opening Theme song created by Daniel Laurent www.daniellaurent.com
Closing Theme Song created by Nancia produced by Jay Hunt -SmokeHouse Media
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By Lakisha R. Austin LICSW MBA MSWAnorgasmia is delayed, infrequent or absent orgasms — or significantly less-intense orgasms — after sexual arousal and adequate sexual stimulation. Women who have problems with orgasms and who feel significant distress about those problems may be diagnosed with anorgasmia.Apr 30, 2022
Source: Anorgasmia in women - Symptoms and causes - Mayo Clinic
References
https://kuscholarworks.ku.edu/bitstream/handle/1808/4517/Stroupe_ku_0099M_10161_DATA_1.pdf?isAllowed=y&sequence=1
5-10% of women have never orgasmed [though many of these women may later in life.] [5]
Elisabeth A. Lloyd
The Case of the Female Orgasm: Bias in the Science of Evolution
According to one study, 12% of women aged 17-28 have never had an orgasm.
Who’s Pretending – Fake Orgasm Statistics
59% of women have faked an orgasm. [12]
25% of men have faked an orgasm. [13]
67% of women who had ever faked an orgasm no longer fake them. [12]
Study of over 1000 English-speaking women 18-94 published 2019
Women who continued to fake orgasms were more likely to indicate embarrassment talking about sex with their partner in explicit ways and were less likely to agree that they and their partner are able to talk specifically about what makes sex more pleasurable for them. More than half (55.4%) of women reported they had wanted to communicate with a partner regarding sex but decided not to; the most common reasons were not wanting to hurt a partner’s feelings (42.4%), not feeling comfortable going into detail (40.2%), and embarrassment (37.7%).
Greater self-reported sexual satisfaction was associated with more comfortable sexual communication. Study findings and implications for professionals are discussed in the context of adult sexual development and learning. This includes growing more comfortable talking with a partner about sexual preferences and sexual pleasure.
https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-019-01493-0
Journal of SEX research
Men's and Women's Reports of Pretending Orgasm
Charlene L. Muehlenhard & Sheena K. Shippee
Pages 552-567 | Published online: 25 Aug 2009
Frequently reported reasons were that orgasm was unlikely, they wanted sex to end, and they wanted to avoid negative consequences (e.g., hurting their partner's feelings) and to obtain positive consequences (e.g., pleasing their partner). Results suggest a sexual script in which women should orgasm before men, and men are responsible for women's orgasms. Charlene L. Muehlenhard & Sheena K. Shippee (2010) Men's and Women's Reports of Pretending Orgasm, The Journal of Sex Research, 47:6, 552-567, DOI: 10.1080/00224490903171794
https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/00224490903171794
Sexual Fantasies and Orgasm
20% of women have orgasmed just thinking about their favorite fantasy.
The same is true for 10% of men.
Source Justin J. Lehmiller
Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life
Dr. Justin J. Lehmiller (Ph.D., Purdue University) is a Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and author of the book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. He is an award-winning educator, having been honored three times with the Certificate of Teaching Excellence from Harvard University, where he taught for several years. Dr. Lehmiller is also a prolific researcher and scholar, having published more than 40 pieces of academic writing to date, including articles in some of the leading journals on sex and relationships, as well as two textbooks.
🎙️ Thanks for tuning in to Conversations with Coach LA!
Don’t forget to subscribe and turn on your notifications so you never miss a new episode—dropping every Thursday wherever you get your podcasts. You can also listen live every Sunday at 10PM on Urban Heat 98.1FM or via iHeartRadio.
Want to join the conversation or share your story? We’re always looking for inspiring voices! Email us at [email protected] to be considered as a future guest.
This show is brought to you by Resiliency and Optimism Changes Lives, LLC, where we champion self-awareness, mental wellness, and transformational growth through therapeutic coaching and community empowerment. If you're looking for a therapist or support on your healing journey, visit our website or reach out—we're here to help you BET on SELF:
🌱 Believe. Empower. Transform.
Because when you bet on yourself, you invest in your peace, your power, and your purpose.
Opening Theme song created by Daniel Laurent www.daniellaurent.com
Closing Theme Song created by Nancia produced by Jay Hunt -SmokeHouse Media