Growing Through Grief

A Mom's Hug Can Change Your Life


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A natural movement for children to assimilate what is happening in their lives is to link events to their own actions. For instance, kids will believe that their parents divorced because they were naughty. Those thoughts, those emotions will lead to us not feeling good enough or undeserving of certain things. 


Emotions are our first communicators; that is why it is essential to understand that children grieve too. 


Today, in the second part of our two-part interview with Dr. Shawn, we had a wonderful conversation about the deep connections established in the parents' relationship with their kids and, more specifically, in the mother-daughter relationship. We delve into the power and influence of a mother's voice over her daughter, the meaning built around the hug and how it can be associated with hurting, and the critical relevance of taking a pause to let feelings go through us. We also talk about paying attention to the physical response to emotions, the concept of mental wealth, the role of guilt as an invitation for reflection, and trauma's capacity to modify DNA. 


In This Episode, You Will Learn:

  • Dr. Shawn shares her thoughts on the mother-daughter relationship (4:45)
  • About how children interiorize what is going on around them and why it is crucial to pay attention to how they express their emotions (8:04)
  • Mental health is mental wealth (13:08)
  • Guilt is an emotion designed for reflection (15:13)
  • How can realizing our mother is not perfect help us grow (18:16)
  • About the importance of recognizing that children also grieve (22:54)
  • Trauma has the power of modifying DNA and condition people's behavior (27:48)


Resources:

  • Dr. Shawn website
  • Growing Through Grief System - Book Now
  • Book: Besser van der Kolk - The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma


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Growing Through GriefBy diana curtis

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