A pair of dads

Buckle up for a mind-blowing chat as host Benny teams up with visionary Calvin Soh to crack open the future! Inspired by his book The Big Red Dot, Calvin dishes out electrifying insights on steering his family through an AI-charged world of limitless possibilities—and wild uncertainties. From ditching the corporate grind to rewriting the rules of education, this episode is your front-row ticket to mastering mindset shifts, unlocking purpose, and thriving in a tomorrow where yesterday’s playbook is obsolete. Don’t miss it!

I sat down with Jay, a passionate performing artist and father, to explore how he’s navigated the highs and lows of parenting through divorce. Jay shares his relentless fight for more time with his son, the emotional challenges of co-parenting, and how the stage has become a powerful outlet for both himself and his children. Set against the backdrop of Singapore’s competitive culture, this episode is a moving testament to the enduring bond between father and child, and the healing power of performance art in the face of adversity.

Can running a business and raising three boys be a joyful adventure instead of a constant struggle? Amanda, a thriving entrepreneur and dedicated mom, reveals how she balances both worlds with passion, purpose, and a touch of magic. From creating a business that aligns with family life to finding daily moments of joy, this episode is packed with inspiration for parents chasing their dreams—without losing themselves in the process.

Do we work for money, fulfillment, or something more? Roel and I break down the evolving relationship between work and identity, the challenge of finding meaning beyond a paycheck, and what happens when people lose their sense of purpose.

Are men still expected to be the providers and protectors, or is fatherhood evolving? In this episode, Eric and I unpack traditional vs. modern gender roles in marriage and parenting. We discuss whether leadership in the family should always rest with the father, how respect and love factor into relationships, and whether societal expectations of men are shifting too far—or not far enough.

We push our kids to excel—good grades, prestigious schools, high-paying jobs. But is that enough? In this episode, I sit down with Li Woon to discuss what truly defines a great child beyond academic and career success. Are we raising kids who are kind, resilient, and full of integrity? Or are we unknowingly setting them up for a life where achievements matter more than character? If you’ve ever wondered whether today’s parenting priorities are misplaced, this is the conversation you need to hear.

As children grow into teenagers, staying connected becomes more challenging than ever. In this episode, Marcus and I explore the delicate balance between giving kids independence and ensuring they still feel our presence. From handling late nights and peer influence to navigating the tension between discipline and trust, we share real struggles and insights on keeping the parent-child bond strong. If you’ve ever wondered how to stay relevant in your child’s life without pushing them away, this is a conversation you won’t want to miss.

In this episode of A Pair of Dads, I chat with my colleague Michael about the challenges of raising kids in a world dominated by screens. We discuss the balance between enforcing rules and allowing children to learn from their own mistakes, as well as how technology is reshaping parenting. Michael also shares his journey from a high-paced corporate career to a more nurturing role in education. Tune in for an insightful conversation on parenting, independence, and the impact of digital life on the next generation!

Join us for a heartfelt conversation about the ups and downs of parenting and personal growth. We dive into the challenges of raising children, navigating relationships, and finding meaning in a changing world. Tune in for valuable insights, relatable anecdotes, and a healthy dose of humor.

This episode features a heartfelt chat with Eric, my friend of nearly three decades. We dive into shared stories from our school, army, and early adulthood days, before exploring how fatherhood has shaped our values. Tune in for an honest conversation about growth, maturity, and what it means to balance responsibility with staying true to oneself.