A Pair of Dads

A Pair of Dads

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A Pair of Dads episodes

  • From Outfield to Forest School: A Father's Leap of Faith

    From a happy-go-lucky outfield warrior in the army to a founder of a forest school, Jenson shares his personal journey and the leap of faith he took to start his business.

    He reveals how his love for the outdoors, which he initially saw only from a physical perspective , evolved into a deeper, more meaningful philosophy about child development.

    This episode is a conversation about following your passion, finding purpose, and creating a life that is truly aligned with your values

    1 hr 20 min
  • Confessions of a Former Bully

    In a segment that will have you on the edge of your seat, one of the podcast hosts makes a stunning confession: he was a bully in primary school.

    He shares a story of how he abused his position as a class monitor, extorted money from a female classmate, and had a friend take up martial arts to defend himself.

    This personal and vulnerable admission anchors a broader discussion on the long-lasting impact of bullying and the complex motivations behind it

    1 hr
  • Maslow's Modern Crisis: Is the Pursuit of Self-Achievement Making Us Unhappy?
    In a world of constant connection, why do we feel more isolated than ever?
    Join Benny and father-of-two, Roel, on a powerful episode of "A Pair of Dads" as they tackle a modern paradox: are we so focused on climbing the ladder of self-achievement that we're sacrificing the very things that make us happy?
    Inspired by acts of graciousness displayed crowded trains, they dive into Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs and question if our pursuit of personal success is coming at the cost of love and belonging.
    This episode is a wake-up call to re-prioritize empathy and connection, challenging listeners to reconsider what truly matters in a hyper-individualistic world.
    Tune in to find out if small acts of kindness can be the key to rediscovering our humanity.
    1 hr 22 min
  • From Self-Harm to Self-Love: A Journey Through Youth Mental Health

    In a powerful "A Pair of Dads" session, Benny, explored the profound challenges facing youth mental health with his guests.

    Featuring a poignant personal story of a friend's battle with self-harm and recovery through faith and support, this episode shines a light on the critical role of understanding, empathy, and professional help.

    They discuss the surprising awareness of mental health issues even in young children , the journey of cultivating self-confidence, and practical ways to navigate the pressures of modern life.

    1 hr 21 min
  • Beyond the Screen: Navigating Intelligence, Dependency, and the Human Edge in a Digital Age
    What defines 'smart' in a world where technology does so much for us? Benny, CK, and Jermyn of "A Pair of Dads" engage in a lively debate about the true meaning of intelligence and the growing dependency on digital tools.
    From contrasting old-school taxi drivers with modern Grab drivers to questioning if we still need to memorize phone numbers, this episode challenges listeners to consider what core skills remain essential when technology offers boundless convenience
    47 min
  • From Catwalk to Critical Thinking: A Gen Z Model's Take on Career & Society

    How does a young model's journey in Singapore’s dynamic industry offer a unique lens on broader societal shifts? "A Pair of Dads" welcomes Ian to explore not just the ins and outs of his modeling career—from casting calls to career progression—but also his insightful Gen Z perspective on critical issues like income expectations, the job market, and the impact of digital media on public discourse. Get ready for a conversation that blends glamour with deep societal reflection.

    1 hr 35 min
  • The Crossroads of Legacy: Career Choices, Cost of Living, and Cultivating Resilience in the Next Gen
    How do modern career paths intertwine with the surging cost of living, and what does this mean for raising resilient, independent children? In this episode, "A Pair of Dads" openly explores the surprising reasons behind contemporary career decisions, grapples with the practicalities of managing household finances (including cross-border opportunities!), and shares their own journeys in fostering independence and grit in their children.
    Tune in as these two fathers candidly unpack these critical connections and uncover insights that link today's choices to tomorrow's lasting legacies.
    1 hr 40 min
  • Talent, Tests & Tech: Raising Kids in a Confusing World
    Can doing three things make you talented? Should PSLE still decide a child’s fate? And is critical thinking just code for questioning everything? Benny, CK, and Jermyn take on the complex task of parenting in a world full of contradictions, cultures, and crazy gadgets.
    1 hr 3 min

About A Pair of Dads

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Raising kids, strengthening relationships, and finding joy in the everyday—A Pair of Dads is where fathers come together to talk about it all. Hosted by Benny Lai, this podcast invites fellow dads…