In this episode with Sholeh Shahinfer, parents will learn the key aspects of early language development and the different ways children communicate. You'll understand the importance of repetition, making connections, and acknowledging feelings.
Discover why slowing down matters, how honoring a child’s voice builds confidence and trust, and gain a neurodiversity-affirming perspective that shifts the focus from "fixing" to truly understanding your child.
Timestamps
01:16 Easy ways to support your child’s language development?
01: 51 How to make daily routines into language development opportunities for your child?
02:41 Why is repetition the key for kids learning to communicate?
02:52 Common missed communication opportunities to support your child’s language development?
03:35 Why you shouldn't overcorrect your child?05: 29 Language development tips for new parents?06:30 Why trying to interpret what your child is communicating to you is important to their language development
08: 35 How can parents release the pressure to teach, instead focus on connecting?
10:25 Why is spending time with kids enough for parents to communicate ?
12:44 Why does narrating everything to your kids help their communication development?
15:19 Difference between analytical language processing and Gestalt language processing
19:18 Why predictability is good in kids, especially in neodivergent kids?
23:59 Why is it important for parents to know about their kids' attention spans?
28:11 How does a neurodiversity-affirming approach change how we think about communication development?
29:00 Why is it important to honor the way your child is communicating?
32:41 What is Echolalia?
35:06 Why is it important for your child to feel safe and have their feelings acknowledged to build a connection?
36:00 Why do some kids get afraid to participate in conversations because of the punishment?
42: 04 Why may applying rules to the neodivergent kids lead to masking and burnout for them?43: 03 What is masking?
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About Sholeh Shanifer
Sholeh Shahinfar is a speech-language pathologist, certified oral-motor therapist, and Founder and CEO of Valued Voices. Since 2009, she has supported children and families using a neurodiversity-affirming, family-centered, and strengths-based approach, helping children connect with their authentic voices.
About Annamarie von Firley:
After 20 years of owning and running her own fashion house, reVamp, Annamarie von Firley returned to her toy design roots. With a BA in Wooden Toy Design and Construction and a BFA in Furniture Design, she took her knowledge of child development and expertise in play to found Adventuretown Toy Emporium in 2016.
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