“A” Perspective w/ Aaron & Ashley

“Dads are n***as too!” Can you guess what we’re talking about on this week’s Minisode?! INSECURE Season 4 episodes 2 & 3!

WE KNOW it’s over an hour! We were just talking and talking and talking and talking BUT if you’ve seen #Insecure you understand. So before you watch episode 4 get a rundown of what’s been going on and our take on all things Insecure season 4 episodes 2 & 3! “Pow Pow Pow!”

When was the last time you made a new friend? On this week’s episode Aaron discusses making friends as an “adult.” During #5Questions Aaron and Ashley answer this question: Is being right better than sex? During #UnderMySkin find out who’s been looking for chicken thighs only to be disappointed! There’s so much being watched these days, but during #WhatAreYouWatching CLASSIC movie Player’s Club and School Daze are highlighted. PLUS we’re digging into all things Insecure season 4 episode 1! Ashley talks about missing a relationship when you’re single and missing your single days when you’re in a relationship.

Yup! It’s a Quarantine Minisode! Aaron and Ashley are chatting about a few things: What shows are you binge watching? What have you learned about yourself so far while social distancing? Then we wrap with some “quarantine rambling” as Ashley called it.... Stay informed and safe everyone!

Name one of the things that drunk you helped sober you do? Is there such a thing as being too trusting of someone? Anal or Orgy? Aaron & Ashley are answering a variety of questions during #5Questions on this weeks episode. Where are these glasses at?! Get the details during #UnderMySkin and see how The Rona is the star of this segment. During #WhatAreYouWatching Sally Langston aka. Dr. Ellis Grey was a guest star on Charmed and there’s a “hard to watch scene” on Grey’s involving one of our beloved characters. Ashley explores the question “once you break up with someone is it really over or is there a ‘cooling off period’ where you should wait before getting with someone else?” Aaron wants to know how we’re using this moment in time to expand explore or grow personally.

In our Cardi B voice “Corona Virus! S*it is real, sh*t is getting real....” We’re kicking off Minisode 26 giving our initial perspectives on COVID-19 and it’s impact. Then, Aaron gets a word from Ashley as they explore what happens to the individual person when there’s a “shakeup” amongst a group of friends. Is it FOMO, is it jealousy, or is it just a lack of acceptance to a new way of being?

If you’re having a baby by a cheating man and you don’t want him in the delivery room but he does is it ok to tell him no? Aaron and Ashley answer this and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Someone had a case of mistaken identity during #UnderMySkin and someone is watching On My Block during #WhatAreYouWatching. Aaron wants to talk about “leveling up” while Ashley wants to discuss finances in relationships.

5 QUESTIONNNNNNS!!!!

1. Would you agree to be a side chick for $3k a month!

2. Is it easier to forgive your sexual relationships vs your platonic ones?

3. Talk about a perspective that you once had that is no longer true for you. What is it and what do you think has changed?

4. Where does sex/intimacy fall when you’re focused and on the grind/hustle?

5. What does it mean for you to listen to yourself; to trust your decisions?

#5Questions

IT’S OUR ANNIVERSARY SPECIAL!!!! One year and 50 episodes later and we’re still here. A BIG THANK YOU to our listeners! Now check out this special anniversary episode and be sure to listen to the end for a special gift from Aaron & Ashley.... ENJOY!

Ashley wants to know is there anything that your elder family members talk about that makes you uncomfortable? Listen to find out just how far family will take the conversation when you’re an adult. Aaron needs your thoughts on ANOTHER “people asking for money” situation. The internal struggle is real.

Friendships- How do you nurture them? Does the longevity of them mean anything you? Ashley asks these questions and more on this week’s episode. Fill in the blank: I cannot date somebody who ______. Find out how Aaron & Ashley answered that during #5Questions. Family, just because you love them does not mean they don’t get #UnderMySkin at times- find out who, what, when, where, and why. We’re talking Grey’s Anatomy (of course!) and Monk(?!) during #WhatAreYouWatching. Aaron explores the idea of love and hate being the same thing, an obsession.

Oh! Idk what happened to the sound. Enjoy!