“A lot of times we get so caught up in victimizing ourselves and saying that something that is unfair is being done to us, but I found that the most powerful thing I could do in those situations is look inward, take inventory of my life, and see where it was that I was not upholding the standard that I was looking for from others, with myself. You see, it’s easy for us to look outward and say that someone else is not honoring their agreements or keeping their word with us, however where we really start to take control over our lives is when we become independent enough to see those things taking place in our world and instead of holding someone else accountable, have the emotional maturity to ask, “Where in my life am I not honoring agreements and keeping my word with myself?””-Hollywood