Dr. “Hud” McWilliams has been a practicing clinical psychologist for over forty years and has counseled thousands of people. He is also a practicing Christian, and he frequently speaks at churches and conferences around the world about how faith and psychology intersect. Since it was Father’s Day last week, I thought I’d talk to Hud about the changes he’s seen in the counseling room about fatherhood and what it means to be a father, and then, inevitably, what it means to be a man nowadays. I also ask him his opinion about why men are attending weekly church services less and less. At the end we talk about the book he published this past year called Discipline of Disturbance.

LINKS:
// MUSIC: Vibe Ace by Kevin MacLeod: http://freemusicarchive.org/music/Kevin_MacLeod/
// BOOK: Discipline of Disturbance: https://hudmcwilliams.com/shop/
// VIDEO: “Stuff Dads Never Say” by Motion Worship:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YmzXNf3emrQ
// ABOUT STEVE: https://www.asmallgoodthing.org/

Praying to Andre Dubus (who is dead but not dead)

Steve explains about praying to people who are dead but not dead, like Andes Dubus, and why they might help us. He examines Jesus’ conversation with Moses and Elijah, two other people who were dead but not dead, and what we might learn from that.

BOOKS: You can find "Andres Dubus: Selected Stories," "Meditations From a Movable Chair," and Dubus' other works on all the popular internet bookseller sites.

//MUSIC: http://freemusicarchive.org/music/Aaron_Ximm/Handpans_and_the_Hang/Aaron_Ximm_-_08_-_Angela_Climbs_a_Boulder_at_Horn_Creek__the_Sun_Sets__the_Bat_Flies_By

// Veni Sancti Spiritus by Mike Ginese: http://www.michaelginese.com/

// BIBLICAL REFERENCES: Exodus 3:6; Matthew 22: 23-33; James 1:17; Luke 11:9-13

// ABOUT ME: asmallgoodthing.org

In this episode I talk with Margaret “Margie” Whalen about Children’s Literature, focusing on the books by Robert McCloskey. The program incidentally also became an homage to Maine, the spiritual and physical home of both McCloskey and Ms. Whalen.

But my overarching goal was to appeal to those of you who are moms and dads, grandmas and grandpas. I want to say why reading to children and grandchildren is one of the single most important things you can do to not only position them for a better life, but one of the most important things you can to for the world. All the data show that there links between low literacy levels and virtually every social issue that plagues our culture. Consider:

75% of state prison inmates did not complete high school, or can be classified as low literate.

People at the lowest literacy levels have a higher rate of unemployment, and earn lower wages than the national average. It’s estimated that low literacy costs the U.S. at least $225 billion each year in non-productivity in the workforce, crime, and loss of tax revenue due to unemployment.

43% of adults with the lowest literacy rates live in poverty, and 70% of adult welfare recipients have low literacy levels.

According to the American Journal for Public Health in excess of $230 billion a year in health care costs is linked to low adult literacy.

Yes, you may say, but these facts have to do with adults. What do they have to do with children? Simple: children grow up into adults. Children whose parents have low literacy skills have a 72% chance of functioning at the lowest reading levels themselves.

So then, reading to children and then making sure they stay on track in learning to read has a positive influence on virtually every important social issue today – gender, race, crime, justice, drugs, suicide. “When people learn how to read, write, do basic math, . . . they have the power to lift themselves out of poverty, to lower health care costs, to find and keep sustainable employment, which promotes healthy families, and to ultimately change their lives for the better.” https://www.proliteracy.org/Adult-Literacy-Facts

LINKS: //

MUSIC: “Nautilis.” Chris Haugen. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yTqlpkJax_o&list=OLAK5uy_mkZiUSquaQujlL45dtvz1mjw13_GiFZTo

// Salts and Water, A Podcast Series. https://experiencemaritimemaine.org/salts-water-podcast-series/?fbclid=IwAR2agAxH3juvzHZL_a1NMYBFDIJRzVEfa78KHruBq4tNoo3UaQrrciDfmLM

// Scottish Grandma reads The Wonky Donkey to her baby grandchild. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yskf94MYM1I

Luke Schelhaas is the co-executive producer and a writer for the hit television series, Outlander.
We talked about how he got his start writing for television, and then about how he and the other writers he collaborates with work to find the best way to tell the story they have to tell, from concept to a finished script. If you’ve listened to this podcast for a while you’ll know that I’m interested in artists, especially writers, and the creative process. You will also know that I am interested in people of faith, particularly those who work in fields or places that might sometimes seem oppositional to faith and God, places like. . . well, Hollywood. Luke Schelhaas is such a person and so, naturally, I was curious to know what his experience has been as a believer writing on television series that sometimes include sex and violence.

LINKS:
•// Official Outlander website: https://www.starz.com/series/outlander/episodes
•// “The Deep Heart’s Core,” script by Luke Schelhaas, Outlander Season 4, Episode 10: https://www.outlandercommunity.com/insideoutlander/410/

MUSIC:
•Skye Boat Song by Clan Stewart Pipe Band http://freemusicarchive.org/music/Clan_Stewart_Pipe_Band/Songs_For_The_Dawn_Of_Peace/02_-_Skye_Boat_Song_-and-_Scots_Wha_Hae_Wi_Wallace_Bled_Scotland
•Yonder Hill and Dale by Aaron Kenny https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVAggfwI4hnkA2WO6-xC06Q
•The Sky Boat Song featuring Kathryn Jones https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-zQoQ1ckFxI

CONTACT: asmallgoodthing.org

In this episode I talk about writing – NOT the kind of writing you were made to do in high school or college, or writing for business, or “creative” writing – but rather the kind of writing that you do just for yourself -- personal or private writing. Many studies show that this kind of writing might be particularly helpful if you’re in the middle of a life crisis. In order to draw you in a little bit, I begin by telling two true stories of people in stressful situations, and how writing entered into their picture. Then I talk to Dr. Hud McWilliams, a longtime psychologist and counselor, about why he will sometimes request that a client of his spend time writing a little everyday. Finally, I talk with Tom Allbaugh, who graciously shares how writing about his son’s suicide a year and a half ago helps him.

LINKS:
// Dr. Hud McWilliams: https://www.hudmcwilliams.com/what-we-do/
// Dr. Tom Allbaugh: https://thomasallbugh.blogspot.com/
//Research on writing: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1207/s15327582ijpr1501_2
//Also of interest re writing: https://player.fm/series/the-jordan-b-peterson-podcast/11-dr-james-w-pennebaker
//See Episodes #103 with Larry Enriquez on helping people through extreme grief, and Episode #107 with Greg Emilio
// The River Heron Review: www.riverheronreview.com

// MUSIC: “Porches and Universes” by Puddle of Infinity: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kgHjUIhb6D4

I ask all of my guests that I’ve had on the show since July what podcasts they listen to and would recommend to us. By the end of the show you almost certainly will have heard about a podcast you might try out in the coming new year. Featuring Dr. Liam Corley, Larry Enriquez, Dr. Alison Baker, Andrew Cochran, Greg Emilio and Donna Burns.

// MUSIC by E’s Jammy Jam: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLKCo4y0JbV2a7azDkmbIlyYtWzQdaDwiM

// Free Music Archives: http://freemusicarchive.org/

// PODCASTS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW
Combat & Classics and LibriVox (Liam Corley)
The Eric Metaxas Show (Larry Enriquez)
Reader, Come Home: The Reading Brain in a Digital World (Alison Baker)
Very Bad Wizards (Andrew Cochran)
The New Yorker Fiction Podcast (Greg Emilio)
Clear + Vivid with Alan Alda (Donna Burns)
The Great Books /National Review (Steve Zelt)

// CONTACT AND LEARN MORE ABOUT STEVE ZELT : asmallgoodthing.org

The Christian season of Advent has begun and it is fitting therefore to consider Mary. The image we have of her in our popular imagination, though, is often a sentimental characterization. In this episode my guest, Donna Burns, returns. I recommend you learn more about her in the episode previous to this.

In this program we talk about Mary as she appears in the biblical texts. Between the two of us we came up with nine observations that many people perhaps have not thought about. For example, the fact that Mary was a woman of color, ethnically and religiously marginalized, who became a refugee seeking asylum from violence in her country.

At one point Donna refers to the Magnificat. In case you’ve forgotten, the Magnificat is the song that Mary sings. Here it is:

My soul magnifies the Lord,
and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior,
for he has looked with favor on the lowliness of his servant.
Surely, from now on all generations will call me blessed;
for the Mighty One has done great things for me,
and holy is his name.
His mercy is for those who fear him
from generation to generation.
He has shown strength with his arm;
he has scattered the proud in the thoughts of their hearts.
He has brought down the powerful from their thrones,
and lifted up the lowly;
he has filled the hungry with good things,
and sent the rich away empty.
He has helped his servant Israel,
in remembrance of his mercy,
according to the promise he made to our ancestors,
to Abraham and to his descendants forever.

The quote from C. S. Lewis comes from his book, Christian Reflections, in the chapter on the Psalms.

Cover Art: African American artist, Henry Ossawa Tanner painted The Annunciation soon after returning to Paris from a trip to Egypt and Palestine in 1897. To my way of thinking, it is one of the most powerful images of a transcendent moment ever created, and though painted over a hundred years ago, strikingly modern.

The closing song is entitled Svatba by Le Mystère des Voix Bulgares.

You can learn more about me at asmallgoodthing.org

After she married at twenty, Donna worked for many years with several international Christian relief agencies. But when her daughter entered her teenage years, she retooled, went back to school, and began teaching ESL (English as a Second Language) as an adjunct professor at one of the largest community colleges in California. She became the Director of the ESL program at that college, and then eventually the Dean of Continuing Education, a department that served about 30,000 people a year, mostly immigrants. She's retired now and lives in Illinois to be close to her grandkids.

Along the way Donna has taken a deeper interest in women’s and justice issues. Though not as traumatic as some, she’s had her own MeToo moments. She switched from the Republican to the Independent to the Democratic party. And through it all, she has acted in the light of her Christian convictions.

SHOW NOTES:

/MUSIC:

* Lobo Loco: “Morning Train”
http://freemusicarchive.org/music/Lobo_Loco/

* Daniel Birch: “Brushed Bells Leaving Home”
http://freemusicarchive.org/music/Daniel_Birch/

* Blue Dot Sessions: “Cupcake Marshall”
http://freemusicarchive.org/music/Blue_Dot_Sessions/

/RESOURCES RECOMMENDED (Donna Burns):

* The Junia Project - https://juniaproject.com/

* Christians for Biblical Equality - https://www.cbeinternational.org/

* The Very Good Gospel by Lisa Sharon Harper

/CONTACT: [email protected]

/WEBSITE: asmallgoodthing.org

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In this episode I talk with Greg Emilio about the movie Paterson, starring Adam Driver and written and directed by Jim Jarmusch. Greg is a poet whose work has appeared in many publications. This conversation began as a movie review, but it slowly and wonderfully became an extended and inspirational meditation on the importance for all of us to be faithful to the vocation and place we feel we are called.

LINK TO: “Saying Grace in a Time of Drought” by Gregory Emilio: http://www.lettersjournal.com/gregory-emilio/

CONTACT: [email protected]

MUSIC: The Garden State by Audiobinger

This episode of A Small Good Thing is different in some ways. One way it’s different is because it’s longer and a little less structured. Another way it’s different is because my guests – Andrew Cochran and Ryan Sarehkhani, who have their own podcast called Seated in Action – are different – that is to say, they are different from me: For example, they’re more liberal (or libertarian in Andrew’s case) and I am more conservative. They’re secular and I’m a Christian. Their podcast is rated R, and mine is rated PG-13. And they’re different from me in one other significant way: they’re young men, and I’m, well. . . not young.

But while we’re different in many ways, we’re similar in many others. We all went to the same college together and had many of the same teachers and courses, so we have shared formative experiences. What’s more, all three of us are now teaching at various colleges as adjunct professors. Consequently, we all have an interest in what’s going on on college campus around America today, and that’s what we talked about a few weeks ago. Not surprisingly, we have both different and similar views on that.

CONTACT: [email protected] OR asmallgoodthing.org

ANDREW & RYAN’S CONTACT: [email protected] OR seatedinaction.com

MUSIC:

As Colorful as Ever and Note Drop by Broke for Free. http://freemusicarchive.org/music/Broke_For_Free/Layers/As_Colorful_As_Ever
http://freemusicarchive.org/music/Broke_For_Free/Layers/Note_Drop

Jump and Run by KieLoKaz. http://freemusicarchive.org/music/KieLoKaz/Jazzy_Lazy/Jump_and_Run_ID_117

OTHER LINKS:

Wall Street Journal article: https://www.wsj.com/articles/ten-things-they-didnt-tell-you-at-freshman-orientation-1536010557