How often do you reply to your husband without thinking, just reacting?

Impulsive words are one of the leading causes of needless tension in marriage. Take a breath. Consider his words. A thoughtful response prevents small frustrations from becoming big arguments.

When you pause before reacting, you often see things more clearly. His words may not be as harsh as they first sounded. He may even be right.

But when you fire back quickly, you build tension. Your husband may shut down, feel disrespected, or, if he’s firm in his leadership, address your tone more seriously.

A submissive wife doesn’t react; she responds. With grace. With wisdom. With thought.

Engage your brain before engaging your mouth.