C/W Sex work and survivor/victim descriptionsMy first and most painful, private life binary: the victim binary. Am I a victim or am I not?Music: Tomorrow by Miner

C/W Sex work and survivor/victim descriptions

My first and most painful, private life binary: the victim binary. Am I a victim or am I not?

Music: Tomorrow by Miner

My first and most painful, private life binary: the victim binary. Am I a victim or am I not?

I talk about how my changing gender pronouns has impacted my cis-hetero-male partner, our relationship, the way we are exploring having children. How it has connected us, and separated us. How it's all beautiful and confusing.

Music by Sturgill Simpson, The Promise (cover of The Promise by When In Rome)

I talk about how my changing gender pronouns has impacted my cis-hetero-male partner, our relationship, the way we are exploring having children. How it has connected us, and separated us. How it's all beautiful and confusing.Music by Sturgill Simpson, The Promise (cover of The Promise by When In Rome)

How changing pronouns has connected and separated me and my cis-hetero-male partner

I realize I've never really answered the question "Why change your pronouns". I attempt to answer, or evade, the question.Music by The Dø, Bohemian Dances

I realize I've never really answered the question "Why change your pronouns". I attempt to answer, or evade, the question.

Music by The Dø, Bohemian Dances

Why did I change my pronouns anyway?

My most vulnerable poem - addressed to my moustache that I decided to leave in place before I even considered changing my pronouns.

Music: Dom La Nena's cover of the Nationals Start a War