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In this solo episode, I’m reflecting on identity, transformation, and the versions of ourselves we outgrow along the way.

I revisit last week’s conversation on family estrangement and expand it into a deeper look at who I’ve been, who I am now, and the space between “OG Allie” and “Allie 2.0.” From growing up in El Paso to nursing school, an MBA, and climbing the healthcare ladder to CEO and regional VP, I share how each chapter shaped me—and where I had to choose authenticity over approval.

This episode is also personal. I talk openly about single motherhood, marriage, divorce, and the hard-earned lessons around love versus being in love. We get into dating, alignment, and why choosing a partner—or people—who honor your values isn’t optional if you want a life that feels true.

I also speak candidly about my role as a healthcare disruptor and why I believe the system is broken. This is a conversation about leadership that centers people over profit, patient care over corporate comfort, and what it costs to push for change from the inside.

At its core, this episode is about surrounding yourself with real people, embracing honest feedback, and letting go of relationships that only exist for convenience or gain.

If you’re done performing and ready to live aligned, this one’s for you.

Let’s build a kick-ass 2026—on our terms.

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