In this episode of A Widow’s Life, Vicki and Cindy reflect on what it means for widows to “give thanks” in the middle of loss, especially around the Thanksgiving season. Drawing from pastor Bill Johnson’s story of losing his wife, they share his insight that the “gates of praise” are like pearls—formed through irritation and hardship. They talk about how choosing to praise God in the tension of grief, unanswered prayers, and practical struggles (like big financial decisions or home repairs) can open the heart to His presence, comfort, and provision.

They remind listeners that praise isn’t about thanking God for the hard things, but thanking Him for walking with them through those hard things. The hosts encourage widows to trust God with the “mystery” of unanswered questions, to mourn with hope, and to speak truth and trust out loud over their own lives. They offer gentle, practical ideas for facing Thanksgiving—whether spending the day with family, serving others, or creating something small but special at home—and caution against triggering media that may deepen fresh grief. The episode closes with a heartfelt prayer for listeners, asking God to heal wounded hearts, let His presence be felt, and reassure each widow that she is loved, seen, and not alone.

In this episode, we walk through the seasons of the year and how each one can feel different after the loss of a husband. From spring traditions to summer vacations, fall holidays, and winter celebrations, we talk about simple, intentional ways widows can create new memories—without erasing the old ones.

We share practical ideas for marking holidays in a way that feels safe and meaningful, how to give yourself permission to change traditions, and why it’s normal for your needs and preferences to shift from year to year. Some years you may want to be surrounded by people; other years you may crave quiet and space—and both are okay.

Through stories, gentle encouragement, and faith-filled perspective, this conversation invites widows to honor their grief while also allowing room for new experiences, new memories, and new expressions of hope in every season.

Overview

In this episode, we share the remarkable true story of Sarah Josepha Hale, a writer and editor who spent over 30 years advocating for a national day of thanksgiving. Through her persistence—and in the middle of the Civil War—President Abraham Lincoln issued the 1863 proclamation that shaped the holiday we cherish today. We reflect on how Hale’s vision of gratitude, unity, and hospitality still speaks to our homes and churches now.

Key Takeaways

• Gratitude is a spiritual discipline that reshapes communities, not just a seasonal feeling.
• One person’s steady, gracious advocacy can change culture.
• Thanksgiving invites us to remember God’s faithfulness and make space for others at the table.
• Traditions matter: they anchor families in hope during painful seasons.

Scripture to Meditate On

• Psalm 100:4 — “Enter his gates with thanksgiving…”
• 1 Thessalonians 5:16–18 — “Give thanks in all circumstances…”
• Philippians 4:6–7 — Gratitude, prayer, and God’s peace.

Story Highlights

• Who Sarah Josepha Hale was (author, editor, philanthropist).
• Her long campaign of letters to governors and presidents.
• President Lincoln’s 1863 Thanksgiving proclamation amid the Civil War.
• How a tradition meant to unite the nation can also soften and strengthen our homes today.

Reflection & Journal Prompts

1. Where have you seen God’s quiet faithfulness this year?
2. What tradition could you (re)start that helps your family practice gratitude?
3. Who might need a seat at your table this season?

Family & Community Ideas

• Share one “gratitude testimony” before dinner.
• Leave a place card for someone you’re praying for.
• Cook or deliver a simple side dish to a neighbor who’s alone.

Credits

• Story: “Thanksgiving Story — Sarah Josepha Hale”

In this debut episode, two friends share the tender beginnings of The Widow’s Life—how their own seasons of loss led to unexpected friendship, deeper faith, and a desire to serve other Christian widows. They describe the early days after their husbands passed, the practical hurdles and emotional fog that followed, and the small, faithful steps that helped them find steady ground. With warmth and gentle humor, they explain what listeners can expect from the podcast: real conversations, Scripture-centered encouragement, and simple, doable ideas for navigating daily life—finances, family, health, church, holidays, and the quiet evenings in between. This is an invitation to pull up a chair, exhale, and remember you’re not walking this road alone.