Real talk: ABDL community premised upon discretion is both understandable and healthy, but anonymity is neither understandable nor healthy. In fact, identity concealment is deeply unhealthy, as we explore today with Ben Kudler, LCSW.

We agree that the time is now to celebrate - IRL - our shared experiences, meet other ABDLs, and have the time of our lives at events like *Diaperactive* and *NYC ABDL*, where community leaders don't paper over the windows to restrict the collective joy that is ABDL.