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This episode begins where all true love begins—in the quiet. A few weeks ago, I looked over at my boyfriend, pacifier in his mouth, eyes on me, and I said, can you hear how peaceful I feel? I meant it literally. My voice had dropped. My breath was deep, full-bellied. And in that moment, I told him what I’ve never said to anyone else: I need you just as much as you need me. That night, we shared something rare—a circle, not a contract. Love that isn’t visible to the outside world, but lives in the touch of a clean diaper, the trust in a whispered “yes,” and the rhythm of breath shared between daddy and boy.

BetterDry and Crinklz are more than diapers for us—they’re the tools of intimacy, caretaking, safety, and pleasure. This episode is our love letter to those brands, and to the men who make moments like this possible.

We welcome JP Lauer—entrepreneur, engineer, and founder of Crinklz and BetterDry—for a moving, candid, and wildly smart conversation about what happens when erotic truth meets ethical care. From his start in aviation to launching one of the most respected diaper brands in the world, JP tells the story of how plain white diapers became a symbol of dignity, accessibility, and emotional healing for so many—ourselves included. Together, we ask: Why does plainness matter? What does it say about who we are, and how we love?

We also take a global tour through the economics of love. What are the real costs of caregiving? What happens when cultural norms, production logistics, and desire collide? JP and I compare international access points, pricing breakdowns, and the intimate decisions caregivers make daily—choosing between printed fantasy and reliable function. We share user stories, laugh about design challenges, and dive deep into what makes one diaper more than just a product.

In our most tender segment, I introduce a first-of-its-kind 300-person concept mapping study driven by ABDL community voices and academic rigor. We talk about what it means when a manufacturer chooses to fund ideas rather than just push products, and how Crinklz donation signals a new era of ethical collaboration with a charitable 501(c)3 organization from any ABDL company with the ABDL Research and Visibility Initiative. We’re not just talking about diaper brands—we’re talking about identity, embodiment, and the future of kink-informed public health research.

And finally, we hold space for erotic honesty. We tackle topics like spanking, discipline, dominance, and humiliation—with warmth, candor, and disagreement. JP and I don’t always see eye to eye, but we trust each other enough to go there. Because at the end of the day, we both believe in the same thing: love that is tender, brave, embodied, and real. This is the greatest love we’ve ever known. Diapers.

Be part of the smart, sexy, stylish set with Daddy Dialogues. Love is the only tide that lifts all boats. Let’s celebrate the purest form of love ever known. Diapers.

what happens when a cis gay guy and nonbinary female-presenting sexologist sit down to reimagine Freud through the lens of queer embodiment, kink, and radical art? gotta view the video on Spotify or you miss all the visual art and gorgeous faces and fashion...we talk a lot about bodies and own our own visual beauty so show up for that!

in this episode of Daddy Dialogues, i welcome Georgie Blewett—artist, researcher, and clinician—for a conversation that cuts through shame and theory to arrive at something wilder, warmer, and deeply alive. this episode opens with a live rendition of “Personal Jesus” and moves through art, trauma, and erotic intelligence with intimacy and audacity.

i talk about the evolution of my intimate relationship with my boyfriend and Georgie shares how her time in a 24/7 daddy/little dynamic offered not only pleasure but transformation. through scenes crafted around trust, co-regulation, and attunement, she was able to reclaim the narrative of earlier sexual trauma—giving her body a chance to complete its emotional arc and, in her words, “feel celebrated.” the conversation opens into a larger meditation on erotic caregiving, the power of ABDL dynamics, and why adult desire is often where our healing begins.

our dialogue doesn’t stop at personal healing—it zooms out to include cultural and artistic politics. Georgie describes painting her own nude body at life scale, reclaiming her gaze as an artist rather than a subject of voyeurism. i draw parallels between her work and historic paintings like Madame X and Dr. Pozzi at Home, noting how the erotic has always been censored, edited, and repackaged—especially when women or queer people dare to own it. together, we ask: why is the strap on Madame X’s shoulder still being painted back on?

from there, we push further—into religious symbolism, bodily shame, and what it means to truly be witnessed. we examine the eroticism of Jesus on the cross, the scandal of Mary giving birth, and how every institutional frame, from museums to therapy rooms, has struggles to contain the sacred mess of the human body. through it all, we have a ton of fun and call for full disinhibition: to feel deeply, shit freely, relax our assholes, and get honest about what our bodies are really saying.

whether you’ve ever been shamed for your body, your kink, or your joy, this episode is an invitation to show up fully and be seen. it’s a manifesto for radical visibility, erotic spirituality, and the healing potential of play. close your mouth, unclench, and tune in. “the only tide that lifts all boats is love.”

In this episode of Daddy Dialogues, style and visual art, kink, and eroticism, Dr. Ethan Haymovitz is joined by the stunning Tay Atkins, a Compton-based model who’s redefining eroticism through visual storytelling.

"Dr. Daddy" talks diapers and Tay shares his own undergarment fetish, where the visible penis line, or V-P-L, through men's briefs, becomes a form of mystery and mystique—something more alluring than just a naked body. It’s the anticipation, the question mark, and the tension that creates the magic.

We also dive into the iconic imagery of Tom of Finland and the racial dynamics that have shaped gay visual culture. Through analyzing these pieces, we explore the empowerment and complexity within erotic art, especially as it pertains to Black men.

Plus, Dr. Ethan Haymovitz in a case study about a gay man who refuses to wear a diaper at a leather bar, questioning how visual identity and kink intersect in public spaces.

In this episode of Daddy Dialogues, Dr. Ethan Haymovitz and Zack Easton explore Ahava Rabah—the great love—and how it shapes relationships of all kinds, from monogamous to poly, kinky to vanilla. They delve into what makes love last: play, care, and adaptability. Through candid reflections on their own dynamic, they reveal how love is an active process—something we do, not just feel.

The conversation heats up as Zack opens up about his kink of massaging straight men, turning childhood taunts into erotic power. They discuss how kink allows for reclaiming identity, turning past traumas into moments of empowerment and intimacy. Zack also shares his experience with straight men who, despite identifying as heterosexual, find themselves engaging in desires that defy labels—proving that sexuality is more fluid than we’re taught.

Ending on a more serious note, Ethan explores how great love involves deep emotional connection, vulnerability, and mutual support, especially in non-traditional dynamics. Through a case study of a trans couple in therapy, they demonstrate how love can heal, liberate, and facilitate self-discovery, showing that true love is not just a feeling, but a practice rooted in care and respect.

In Season 4 of Daddy Dialogues, join hosts and ageless dreamers, Dr. Ethan Haymovitz and little boy Garett Tyler, as they explore the meaning and value of Adult Baby Diaper Love, the purest form of love anyone has ever known.

Special Guests this season include sexy porn star AJ, whom you may know from Say Uncle and YoungPerps, and the ever-fabulous community organizer and ABDL and ageplay dungeon event planner, my good buddy with the cotton candy party on top hairdo, AP., who is an incredible dancer and knows how to have fun.

Dr. Ethan Haymovitz is a sexologist and psychotherapist. He is host and producer of Daddy Dialogues, a video podcast about ABDL. Diaper in left pocket is hanky code.

His partner and baby diaper boy Little Garett is a pornstar featured in Ageless Dreamers Productions on JustFor.Fans at https://justfor.fans/drethanhaymovitz.

The Pup Hades is Content Creator & Live Streamer. Leatherman. Kink Enthusiast. Sex Conversationalist. He can be traced on https://linktr.ee/thepuphades.

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Dr. Ethan Haymovitz talks with Manuel Betancourt, author of three books on gay erotic identity and cinema (and reviewer of all submissions to the Tribeca Film Festival), an intelligent and fun back-and-forth on cartoons and ABDL identity. What do Rugrats and Tom and Jerry tell us ABDLs about our own erotic identities and what we seek in others? How does bullying and fear play a role in informing our own psychological and sexual development? How do cartoons tell us the stories of our souls?

Announcing a new podcast series, artful and topical, on the subject of ABDL lived experience on a new Spotify channel to be disclosed in the coming weeks. Full, uncensored versions will be available on JustForFans.

Both Dr. Ethan Haymovitz and little boy Garett Tyler are excited to go on this new journey with all of you.

Sexologist Dr. Ethan Haymovitz and sex therapist Tamara Pincus discuss why young people need to understand what ABDL is just like any other human being, and help one another understand the best way to educate younger generations.

"Another Adult Male Wearing Diapers and Rubber Pants"?! Apparently, psychiatrists recognized in 1966 that ABDL is a widespread phenomenon, but believed it to be a pathological and clownish behavior. Little did they know, ABDL is a healthy expression for coping and eroticism. In this episode of Daddy Dialogues, Los Angeles-based sexologist and psychotherapist Dr. Ethan Haymovitz examines a 1966 psychiatric case study about a 20-year old college student who loved his diapers.