Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations. From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

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The holidays can be super stressful for queers, which is why Gabe and Chris are back for a special episode full of tips for how to stay safe, sane, and sexually active over the season with the help of Sniffies! First up, RuPaul’s Drag Race icon Kandy Muse spills some very hot tea about her most outrageous Sniffies experiences while touring the globe. Then, for anyone thinking of throwing their own holiday party, the co-founder of NYC’s beloved Papi Juice nightlife and art collective, Oscar Nñ, shares the lessons he’s learned creating positive, uplifting spaces for QTPOC to come together over the past 11 years. Finally, Gabe heads over to Animal in Brooklyn on the wildest gay night of the year - Thanksgiving Eve - to hear hot and heartwarming home-for-the-holidays hookup stories. 

 

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Kandy Muse

instagram.com/thekandymuse

https://thekandymuse.com/

 

Oscar Nn

instagram.com/oscarnn

instagram.com/papijuicebk

soundcloud.com/oscarnn

 

Animal

instagram.com/animal.nyc

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Queer people grow up experiencing bullying at a higher rate than that of our peers. Could that be why some of us find ourselves turned on by consensual domination, degradation and humiliation play in the bedroom? In our spicy final episode of this season, Gabe and Chris welcome two kinky pleasure educators - submissive Bobby Box and dominant Dominion Onyx -  to talk about dominance, submission, bullying, BDSM, and how and why people get into this fetish practice. Can playing this way help queer people turn past traumas into pure pleasure? 

 

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Bobby Box

linktr.ee/bybobbybox

 

Dominion Onyx

linktr.ee/domonyx

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It’s easy to talk about what we don’t want in the world—hate, discrimination, and violence against our community—but what kind of future DO we want to see?  In this episode Gabe and Chris ask past guests from this season what kind of queer utopia they’d like to see materialize by the year 2069, on the 100th anniversary of the Stonewall riots. You’ll hear from kinksters, artists, and sex workers about their hopes for the future, and the possible innovations, societal shifts, and sexual possibilities that await us later this century. 

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Guests featured in this episode:

 

Scott Carslake: x.com/muscledcumhole

Leo Herrera:  iftheylived.org

 

Brontez Purnell 

instagram.com/brontezpurnell

 

Xavier Blanco linktr.ee/nycdominicano

 

Tomik Dash

instagram.com/tomik2point0

linkin.bio/tomik2point0

 

Dale Corvino

instagram.com/dalecorvino

dalecorvino.com

 

Jules Rosskam

instagram.com/julesrosskamfilms

www.desirelinesfilm.com

 

Santos J. Arce

instagram.com/kinkpunx/

linktr.ee/santosjarce

 

Donald C. Shorter Jr

instagram.com/donxmen

 

Chipper

instagram.com/followchipper

instagram.com/unleashedbk

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Some couples practice “strict” monogamy, while other couples pick up tricks, attend sex parties, and visit cruising spots together. Ain’t love grand? In this episode, Gabe and Chris talk to a couple who cruise and throw sex parties together, about how they make it work, deal with jealousy, and the pros and cons of pursuing partners in pairs! Plus: we stop by Brooklyn’s hottest new queer nightspot Animal to hear stories both hot and horrific - about hooking up with couples. 

 

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Leo and Jordan / JXXL

instagram.com/jxxlcommunity/

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Sides define themselves as neither top nor bottom, preferring non-penetrative practices to buttstuff. In this episode, Gabe and Chris go deep with the “Messiah of Masturbation”, BATEBANDIT XL, about why he identifies as both a side and a bator, and why he created the BBXL Bate Bros, an international organization that holds online and in-person events for Black and Brown masturbation enthusiasts. Then our hosts learn all about what led BATEBANDIT XL to start making horny (and hot AF) hip-hop music chronicling his wild life as a bator. Plus, a special Side edition of “Pump or Dump?”

 

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BATEBANDIT XL

x.com/batebanditxl

 

BBXL BATE BROS

bbxlbatebros.com/

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This week Gabe and Chris explore different types of communication that can help us have hotter and more dynamic sexual experiences. First, our hosts dive into the growing phenomenon of content creators making “verbal” audio files to get listeners off. Then, sex work guru Tomik Dash pops by to offer tips to better communication in intimate scenes. Finally, author and deep-voiced daddy Dale Corvino explains how the sex journals he’s kept for decades help him better communicate with himself and inspired his hot new book, “Bonds and Boundaries”. 

 

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Guests featured in this episode:

Induced Priapism

x.com/inducedpriapism

patreon.com/inducedmasturbation

 

Tomik Dash

instagram.com/tomik2point0

linkin.bio/tomik2point0

 

Dale Corvino

instagram.com/dalecorvino

dalecorvino.com

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Cruising in person or on the apps is never easy, but trans masculine people often have a more difficult time in both spaces. In this probing episode, Gabe and Chris talk to filmmaker Jules Rosskam about his new documentary DESIRE LINES, which explores the sexual lives and histories of gay trans men. Then Transferno co-organizer Santos J. Arce stops by to talk about his cruising experiences and what every curious cis guy needs to know to before hitting up gay trans men for dates or hookups.

 

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Guests featured in this episode:

Jules Rosskam

instagram.com/julesrosskamfilms

www.desirelinesfilm.com

Donald C. Shorter Jr

instagram.com/donxmen

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In this episode Gabe and Chris talk to two radical kinksters - Puppy Trainer Chipper and Leather Boy Donald Shorter, Jr. - about the benefits and risks involved in living their kinkiest lives. In the process, we talk about the psychology that makes fetish such a potent piece of our sexualities. What’s your wildest kink? Or something you’ve always wanted to try? 

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Chris Patterson-Rosso: instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife

 

Guests featured in this episode:

Chipper

instagram.com/followchipper

instagram.com/unleashedbk

Donald C. Shorter Jr

instagram.com/donxmen

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We’ve all seen online advertisements for pills and procedures promising to enhance your erotic adventures: spunk supplements, bussy botox, recreational ED meds and, yes, penis fillers. But just how effective are these temping treatments? In this episode, Gabe and Chris explore the wild new world of bedroom biohacking with NYC’s famed butt doctor Evan Goldstein and LA’s acclaimed dick doctor Joshua Gonzalez. Are you ready to take your sex game to the next level?

 

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Guests featured in this episode: 

Joshua R Gonzalez, MD

instagram.com/joshuagonzalezmd/

joshuagonzalezmd.com/

 

Dr. Evan Goldstein

instagram.com/drevangoldstein

bespokesurgical.com

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