Talk About Gay Sex TAGSPODCAST

By Steve V. Rodriguez

TAGSPODCAST aka Talk About Gay Sex is a Queer podcast offering advice on sex and relationships plus delivers the latest LGBTQ hot topics on health, politics and entertainment to keep you updated. Show... more

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September 03, 2026 Drawn to Desire: Inside the Erotic Art of Miguel Angel Reyes EP 790
In this episode:
• When Miguel first discovered his artistic voice
• Celebrating the sensuality and diversity of men’s bodies
• The line between erotic art, pornography, and fine art
• Creating intimacy and trust between an artist and his subject
• Body confidence, aging, vulnerability, and being truly seen
• The importance of preserving queer sexuality through art
• What Miguel saw—and captured—when he drew Steve
It’s a revealing conversation about art, desire, masculinity, body image, and the courage it takes to make yourself the subject.
Hot Topic: Dancing the Stars will now have two female contestants as a couple...is America ready for 2 Men?
Hot Topic: Sexual Health Awareness month - we're talking about why it's important
Hot Topic: Gunman kills two at Arizona gay bar....
Hot Topic: Two men are assaulted by 4 men still on the loose in Sacramento's Lavender Heights...
Advice: When a guy admits to his new boyfriend he's hired escorts in the past...
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September 01, 2026 Where Have All the Tops Gone? The Truth About Gay Sex’s Biggest “Shortage EP 789
In this episode:
• Is the “top shortage” supported by real data?
• Why are younger gay men more likely to identify as bottoms?
• Do some men grow into topping as they gain confidence and experience?
• Are there no tops—or simply no tops who meet every requirement?
• The erection and performance pressure placed on tops
• Why topping a partner can feel easier than topping a stranger
• Porn, hookup apps, masculinity, and unrealistic sexual expectations
• Can a soft top still deliver a great sexual experience?
• Are top, bottom, and vers preferences—or identities?
• Why expanding our definition of sex may benefit everyone
So, where have all the tops gone?
Maybe they haven’t gone anywhere. Maybe they’re nervous, overlooked, aging into the role—or waiting for gay men to stop treating every hookup like an audition.
Hot Topic: Grindr is getting more expensive but will it push the 'hot' guys out?
Hot Topic: MET cancels honoring John Galliano for May exhibition due to past antisemitic remarks...
Hot Topic: Marc Jacobs talks openly about past 10 man orgy where alleged 'drug' use occurred...
Hot Topic: Viral post on 'I came out 6 times this week'...Do gay men have to constantly come out?
Hot Topic: Of course there was one celebrity, Ricky Schroeder had something to say about Dolly about her support for the Trans community...
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August 27, 2026Sorry, Just Seeing This: Why Gay Men Ghost on Grindr EP 788
In this episode:
More hilariously vague Grindr phrases translated

Why “not on here much” rarely means what it says

The difference between losing interest and genuinely ghosting someone

Why men initiate conversations they have no intention of continuing

Whether apps provide validation even when no hookup happens

The endless cycle of taps, photos, attention and disappearing

Why possibility can feel more exciting than actually meeting

App fatigue and the exhaustion of repetitive conversations

When silence becomes disrespectful

Whether brutal honesty is really better than no response
Maybe sex isn’t what prevents gay men from forming meaningful connections.
Maybe the real obstacle is how easily we’ve learned to treat one another as temporary squares on a screen.
And remember: “Hey stranger” is not an apology.
Hot Topic: Remembering Dolly and a Texas Federal judge blocks anti-drag ban while citing Dolly...
Hot Topic: Tim Curry also dies the same day as Dolly who played the film version of Frank-N-Furter of 'Rocky Horror Picture Show".
Hot Topic: Gay Georgia elects first Black, Gay Congressman Everton Blair
Hot Topic: Good news for those living with HIV - a potential new weekly pill would replace daily pill...
Advice: Do you try to not get emotionally attached to people...
Thirst Trap: Which adult performer took the hottest shot of the week and why?
Follow Steve V's new Substack features weekly articles. 20% Off now through end of August! https://substack.com/@thenakedtruthsteve
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1h 1min
August 25, 2026What Grindr Bios Really Mean: Sex, Vibes and the Search for Connection EP 787
In this episode:
What common Grindr bios are really trying to say

“Just vibes” and the language of emotional ambiguity

Why sincerity on dating apps can feel suspicious

The appeal—and limitations—of a Gay No Sex Weekend - actual group in the UK....

Whether sex and emotional connection actually conflict

The difference between removing sex and removing pressure

How gay men have historically built community in sexual spaces

Why clearer communication may matter more than stricter rules
Maybe gay men don’t need fewer sexual spaces. Maybe we need sexual spaces where friendship, vulnerability, romance and connection are also allowed to exist.
Hot Topic: Adult Performer Christian Styles dies at 29...
Hot Topic: What is dopplebanger and is it toxic?
Advice: Hooked up with couple a few times but are they 'friend zoning' me now...?
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57min
August 20, 2026Why Are We Still So Horny for Heated Rivalry? EP 786
Why Heated Rivalry delivers more than just steamy sex

The irresistible fantasy of being sexually and emotionally obsessed with someone

Why yearning may be hotter than hooking up

Whether dating apps have made intense romance feel even more desirable

Women enjoying gay male romance versus men consuming lesbian fantasy

The difference between admiration, voyeurism and fetishization

Fan art, Patreon, musicals and the expanding Heated Rivalry universe

Whether pop culture has been suffering through an erotic drought

Why audiences are craving sex, romance and vulnerability at the same time
Maybe we aren’t merely horny for hockey players. Maybe we’re hungry for stories in which sex is fun, masculinity can be vulnerable, and the person you cannot stop wanting is also the person who cannot stop loving you.
Listen now and decide: Is the hottest part the bodies, the sex, the secrecy, the rivalry, the yearning—or the love?
Hot Topic: Heated Rivalry Box Set available for pre-order
Hot Topic: Derek Chadwick ducks out of Goose app...
Hot Topic: 21 most sexually liberal cities ranked! Plus Air France closes it's sauna due to activity...
Hot Topic: Madonna leads VMA nominations!
Thirst Trap: Who took the hottest shot of the week and why?
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1h 1min
August 18, 2026Have We All Benched Someone? Dating, Backup Boys and the Grass-Is-Greener Trap EP 785
When does being genuinely unsure about someone become stringing him along?

Are we avoiding rejection—or simply avoiding an uncomfortable conversation?

Why do we sometimes want someone more the minute they start pulling away?

Can you have a roster of casual guys without actually benching anybody?

Have dating apps conditioned us to constantly look for the next best thing?

Is being slowly benched actually worse than being ghosted?

And when you finally know someone isn't right for you, do you owe him the truth?
It’s funny, revealing and occasionally uncomfortable as Steve, Jeremy and Kodi admit that when it comes to dating badly, most of us probably aren't completely innocent.
Because sometimes the problem isn't the guy who put us on the bench.
Sometimes we're the coach.
Hot Topic: New Bathhouse in Birmingham, YUMBO offers both bar for LGBTQ plus upstairs bathhouse...
Hot Topic: 'The 5-Minute Crush' - a online speed dating platform...
Hot Topic: Boy George and now Geno Segers Spark are the latest to be fired from upcoming theater due to their controversial statements....
Advice: Is it weird that I don't get hard at a naked pool party when the guests become handsy?
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57min
August 13, 2026Gay Trauma, Gay Healing: Dan Werner on Breaking the Patterns We Carry EP 784
In this episode:
What do we actually mean when we talk about gay trauma?

The lasting effects of growing up feeling different or unsafe

Shame, rejection, bullying, and the closet

How trauma can influence sex, dating, intimacy, and attachment

Seeking validation through sex, attention, and relationships

Recognizing survival behaviors we've carried into adulthood

Why healing doesn't mean becoming less sexual or less adventurous

Creating healthier connections without judging the choices that got us here

Dan Werner's work helping gay men understand and move through trauma
A thoughtful, revealing conversation about where our patterns come from—and what becomes possible when we finally understand them.
Hot Topics and Advice!
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1h 1min
August 11, 2026 The Last Days of Hot Gay Summer EP 783
In this episode:
• Leo energy, Lincoln and loving the spotlight
• Why summer feels so damn sexual
• Sex vs. validation: do we just want to be wanted?
• Thirst traps, flirting and the erotic power of attention
• Hot Gay Summer expectations—and sexual FOMO
• Feeling sexy as we get older
• Hookups, connection and end-of-summer reflection
• The ultimate question: when nobody is looking, do you still feel desirable?
Hot Topic: Bears in Ptown are on Ozempic and they don't know how they feel about it....
Advice: Approaching 40 and wondering if they will ever find a lasting longterm relationship...
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1h 10min
August 06, 2026 Native, Gay and Unfiltered: Jon Reclaims His Story EP 782
In this episode:
• Jon’s life since his first appearance on TAGS
• Why he created the new podcast Why Not?!
• His Native American background and family history
• The intersection of Native and gay identity
• Cultural community, chosen family and belonging
• Living openly as a gay man in Oklahoma
• Navigating HIV, misdiagnosis and healthcare
• Finding queer-affirming medical and emotional support
• Turning difficult experiences into purpose
• Reclaiming your story through podcasting
Hot Topic: Perez Hilton attempts suicide on TikTok and is rushed to the hospital...
Hot Topic: Walmart employee gets the support needed when a disgruntled customer takes a picture and posts it...
Hot Topic: Producers of Season 2 of "Heated Rivalry" ask nosy fans to keep distance if they see filming...
Hot Topic: 10,000 square foot gay bathhouse may be coming to New York ending age old HIV stigma..
Thirst Trap: which adult performer took the hottest shot of the week...
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Follow Jon's new podcast on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/033ZRuUustDuQFje9YrBgT?si=2740cc79bf2b4d9b
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August 04, 2026We Need Our Sexual Mistakes: Gregg Araki, Gen Z and; America’s Fear of Sex EP 781
Why bad sex and bad relationships can still teach us something

The difference between a regrettable experience and a harmful one

Whether Gen Z is sexually repressed or simply more cautious

How fear of judgment is changing flirting, dating and intimacy

The mistakes gay men commonly make during breakups

Why heartbreak can be valuable information

What today’s queer cinema may have lost

The freedom and danger of queer life in the 1990s

America’s ongoing fear of sexual pleasure

Why consent and sexual adventure are not opposites
The central question: Can we protect ourselves from genuine harm without becoming so afraid of discomfort, rejection and regret that we stop allowing ourselves to be transformed?
Hot Topic: Madonna and Kylie for Amsterdam World Pride!
Hot Topic: Ariana Grande taking a step back after tour due to online criticism of her weight
Hot Topic: Ptown or Palms Springs...an influencer gets into hot water choosing the latter...
Hot Topic: Gays reveal how much they share on social media....
Hot Topic: Boy George pulls our of Jesus Christ Superstar amid releasing controversial new single...
Advice: I hooked up with a guy at my Ex's funeral....
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