Episode #103 of "Some of This is Bad" with Colton Dowling and Dylan Carlino brings the amazing Matt Rogers to the mic! This LGBTQ podcast is full of laughs, gay culture humor, and wild stories—from Fire Island shenanigans to coach-player roleplay vibes. We’re diving into open relationships, queer identity, bottoming vs. topping, and all the fun (and awkward) bits of gay relationships. It’s packed with comedic banter, juicy insights, and a whole lot of queer storytelling. Don’t miss it!

0:00 - The Wild World of Gay Dating: Boys Will Be Boys

0:07 - When Roleplay Goes Wrong: The Coach and Player Fiasco

0:48 - Straight Humor Through a Queer Lens

1:28 - Obsessing Over Sydney Sweeney: Why It’s a Thing

2:11 - Risky Jokes and Podcasting Regrets

3:10 - Do Gay Men Try to Impress Straight Guys? (Spoiler: Yes)

5:10 - Grindr Secrets: What's Really on Our Profiles

6:42 - Open Relationships: Can They Actually Work?

8:03 - Emotional Sex: Why We Crave Vulnerability

10:10 - Vegas Nights: The Horny Truth About Casinos

12:05 - New York's Gay Neighborhoods: Stereotypes and Realities

15:12 - Comedy and Identity: Why Laughing at Ourselves Matters

18:33 - Coming Out in 2001: The Pain, the Struggle, the Triumph

22:05 - Kinks Unleashed: Exploring Feet, Roleplay, and Fantasies

25:48 - Loving Sex Positivity: Lessons We’ve Learned

28:40 - Christmas Traditions That Shaped Us

30:50 - Religion and Sexuality: Breaking Free from Shame

33:10 - Fighting Homophobia with Laughter

36:20 - Are Open Relationships All They're Cracked Up to Be?

38:45 - How Parents Change: My Dad’s Journey to Acceptance

42:10 - Gay Role Models: What We Get Wrong

45:15 - Turning Trauma Into Comedy Gold

48:30 - Exploring New Fantasies (Yes, Even Feet)

51:10 - Becoming a Proud Bottom in Your 30s

54:00 - Why We Break Taboos (and Laugh While Doing It)

56:50 - LGBTQ+ Acceptance: How Far Have We Come?

59:30 - Smashing Gay Stereotypes, One Joke at a Time

1:02:10 - The Fear and Freedom of Vulnerability

1:05:00 - How Humor Tells Our Stories

1:08:15 - Roleplay Rules: When Improv Takes Over

1:11:30 - Open Relationship Myths Debunked

1:14:10 - Then vs. Now: Gay Dating Through the Years

1:17:05 - Finding Joy in Being Our Authentic Selves

1:20:00 - Closing the Chapter with Gratitude and Love

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#ColtonDowling and #DylanCarlino and #SevrinGrahamRemmo00:00:00 on this episode

00:02:05 is navy or air force gayer?

00:11:29 straight men in gay situations

00:20:59 Dylan learns what the military does

00:25:27 Colton bullied gay men in high school

00:32:59 Dating women

00:44:36 Do you have any questions for us?

00:48:16 The Big Question

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#ColtonDowling and #DylanCarlino and #JakeCornell00:00:00 on this episode

00:02:05 the boys recap their drama

00:13:00 Grindr etiquette

00:25:23 gay teen years

00:34:52 dating as an adult

00:56:44 Do you have any questions for us?

00:59:25: The Big Question

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