It's a new year and the new year's resolutions abound. I love the idea of a new year because I like self-reflection and self-improvement. It keeps me from getting stuck in the status quo, which I refuse.

I take time to assess every area of my life that's worked well, what hasn't and what I can do differently for different results. I call this my pre-resolution exercise. 

You might have set your new year's resolutions, you might have gotten the new year's goals established for your job, but have you set any resolutions for your marriage? If you haven't, you should. I'll give you 11 questions to answer to prepare you for making your new year's marriage resolutions.