03.27.2019 - By The Recovery Show
Do you QTIP? Have you practiced the 3 A's? Spencer and Eric, with support from many listeners, talk about some of the acronyms (such as HALT or FEAR) and alliterations (3 C's, 4 M's) that help us to remember the important principles of the program. As Eric says, “these are like pocket change — they're easy to pick up and use.”
Acronyms
* FEAR – Face everything and recover
* PAUSE – Please assist until serenity enters
* FEAR – False evidence appearing real
* LOVE – Let others voluntarily evolve
* Al-anon “gifts” in From Survival to Recovery
* Force vs Power, episode 249
* Eric: I can’t “love my alcoholic sober” or “hug my addict straight”
* “Let go and let God”
* JADE – (don’t) Justify, argue, defend, or explain
* Would you rather be right or happy? (episode 276)
* Courage to Change, June 6
* WAIT – Why am I talking (thinking)
* Neutral responses (scroll to the bottom of episode 249)
* HALT(S)
* NUTS – Not Using The Steps (Slogans)
* TRUST – try really using step three!
* THINK is it..?: Thoughtful. Honest. Intelligent. Necessary. Kind.
* One Day at a Time in Al-Anon pg. 20
* Slogans Part 1 (episode 131)
* The Step 10 discussion in Paths to Recovery
* HOPE: Happy. Our. Program. Exists.
* One Day At a Time in Al-Anon, pg.94
* Hope, episode 65
* Do you believe? (episode 270)
* DETACH: Don’t. Even. Think. About. Changing. Him/Her.
* One Day At a Time in Al-Anon, pg.29
* Consequences (episode 245)
* Enabling or empowering (episode 261)
* Detachment (episodes 12, 188)
* HOW: Honest. Open. Willing.
* Willingness – Episode 216
* STEPS: Solutions. To. Every. Problem.
* One Day At a Time in Al-Anon, pg.297
* In All Our Affairs (Episode 201)
* QTIP: Quit. Taking. It. Personally.
* One Day At a Time in Al-Anon, pg.55
* FINE
* PISO: Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional
* Eric would write this on his hand.
* GOD: Good Orderly Direction
* UTT: Use the tools
* ODAT: One Day at a time
* ANGER = A Negative Grudge Endangers Recovery
* ASK = Ask Seek Knock
* CHANGE = Choosing Honesty Allows New Growth Everyday
* COOL = Creative Opportunities Offer Love
* EGO = Easing God Out
* FAITH = Finding Answers In The Heart
* FEAR = Forgetting Everything Is Alright
* FEAR = Future Events Aren’t Real
* FROG = Fully Relying On God
* GIFTS = Getting It From The Steps
* HOPE = Helping Ourselves Purge Emptiness
* HOW = Honest, Open, Willing
* MYOB = Mind Your Own Business
* PUSH = Pray Until Something Happens
Alliterations
* 3 A’s – Awareness, Acceptance,