In this episode of The Latex Files, Jessica asks listeners to ponder whether their kinks and fantasies are purely hypothetical or whether they are actual desires.  Jessica relays some of her experiences working for clients who have wanted to explore their fantasies, only to find that the acts themselves were not pleasurable.
Jessica also goes on a rant regarding what she considers to be the oxymoron of "mutually beneficial" sex in heterosexual relationships.
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