Addressing Procrastination
Instructor: Dr. Dawn-Elise Snipes PhD, LPC-MHSP, LMHC
Executive Director: AllCEUs Counseling CEUs and Specialty Certificates
Podcast Host: Counselor Toolbox, Happiness Isn’t Brain Surgery
~ Identify and learn how to address some of the most common causes including:
~ Fear of failure (and success)
~ Perfectionism
~ Being overwhelmed
~ Laziness/Lack of motivation
~ Boredom/aversion
~ Uncertainty about how or where to start
Objectives
~ Identify techniques to overcome procrastination
~ Eliminate other more rewarding options
~ Do 15 and Apply Parkinson’s Law
~ Small Steps
~ Provide rewards
~ Shorten the daily to do list
~ Leverage peak energy times
~ Be accountable to someone
~ Premack the boring
~ Pay attention to temperament
~ Increase adversity tolerance/gratitude
~ Find (and eliminate) procrastination rewards
Cause: Fear of Failure (and Success)
~ Examples: Applying to college or for a job; going to counseling
~ Failure can be threatening
~ Society often frames failure in a negative light
~ Many young people have been so shielded from failure that they don’t have the skills to tolerate it. One and done.
~ Success can also be threatening because it “raises the bar”
Cause: Fear of Failure (and Success)
~ Interventions
~ Explore what failure means. Find quotes from successful people about failure.
~ Avoid overgeneralization and personalization about failure.
~ Maintain a cheering squad
~ Remember past successes
~ Use the challenging questions to explore your fears in each situation
~ Identify all of the other things in your life that make it worth living
~ Examples: homework/ work projects, appearance
~ Perfectionism often accompanies fear of failure
~ Perfectionists often either never get started or never finish a task… so it can never be evaluated
~ Perfectionism takes an inordinate amount of time overwhemed
~ Perfectionists are never satisfied and maintain self anger for any imperfections
~ Perfectionists may also have low self esteem and base their worth on what they do instead of who they are
Cause: Perfectionism
~ Interventions
~ Learn about the principles of diminishing returns
~ Practice purposeful action to improve life balance
~ Explore where the need to be perfect comes from
~ What does it mean if you are not perfect?
~ Where did you learn that you are only lovable if you are perfect? Do you believe this and hold your friends to this?
~ Enhance your self-esteem so you are not looking for external validation. Who are you vs. What you do
~ Examples: A huge project, Too much else going on
~ Large projects can be daunting
~ Poor time management may also contribute to people feeling overwhelmed.
~ Interventions
~ For large projects, break it into manageable sub-projects (Dissertation, Spring cleaning, Recovery)
~ If there is too much else going on and you can’t find the time to get started, evaluate your time management.
~ Eliminate, Prioritize, Delegate & Combine, Plan
~ Clear clutter in that area (Doesn’t = organization binge)
~ Be mindful and have a laser focus
Cause: Laziness/Low Motivation
~ Examples: Homework, house cleaning/bills, gym
~ Motivation is your get up and go
~ Low motivation (procrastination) is impacted by
~ Rewards for procrastinating
~ Competing activities
~ No consequences/accountability
~ Punishments for starting:
~ Activity isn’t rewarding
~ Distress (overwhelmed, fear of failure…)
Cause: Laziness/Low Motivation
~ Motivation can be increased by