Adult Puzzle

On this episode Lolade and Lamide discuss closure , the impact of closure on a relationship, is it overrated? How best to handle closure and the importance of clarity.
The scenario (02:26), a break up in person or over text (1 2:40), Can closure be detrimental (15:06) , why do people ask for closure(25:39), who needs closure more(28:24), Is closure earned over time(29:19), “what if” (36:18), choices & options(42;29), how to move on when it still doesn’t make sense (47:40)

On this episode Lolade and Lamide are joined by Gbolahan to discuss the “good guys” . What makes someone a good guy, are they taken for granted, do people just prefer toxic? This episode belongs in the podcast hall of fame, tap in.The scenario(2:45), who is the “good guy”(5:30), getting past the “hoe phase” (14:30), knowing what you want (19:29), just a sprinkle (23:00), the flip side (26:02), preferences (36:00)

On this episode, Lolade and Lamide are joined by Fisayo to discuss conflicts in friendships. What are the most common causes of conflict within our friendships, how do we manage conflicts and the importance of accountability.The scenario (4:00), The trust element(14:29), typical causes of conflict (19:30), Managing conflict in friendships(27;12), Avoiding accountability during conflict(31:40), The friendship meter game (43:32)

On this episode Lolade and Lamide are joined by the amazing Nonso for a very hilarious and honest discussion on physical attractions in relationships. They discuss misconceptions, common errors, the importance of looks, infatuation and getting too comfortable in relationships. You don’t want to miss this.The scenario(10:15), Honesty and delivery(18:18), Does physical attraction/preference outweigh the non physical things(20:39), ). Can attraction grow on you (29:27), Can physical attraction be misleading(37:50), Lust/Infatuation(42:50), Getting too comfortable in a relationship(51:36)

On this episode Lolade and Lamide are joined by the podfather himself Osagie, to discuss “black tax” , family expectations and its impact on adults (young and old). The conversation explores limits and culture surrounding what you are obligated to and what you can do. It’s an episode you do not want to miss.Scenario (8:19), a unique investment (9:57), expectations versus position & gender (11:33), can you be excused (20:43), family obligations (26:56), understanding limits(35:00), Would you rather (41:00)Form more information on all episode releases and all things Adult Puzzle, follow @adultpuzzle on Instagram & Twitter.
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On this episode, Lolade and Lamide discuss compromises , ultimatums and boundaries in relationships. Is compromising normal and are there consequences to not compromising? The hosts dive into all that and lots more.The scenario (2:35) , an unspoken rule (9:25), understanding boundaries (15:00), being self aware (20:30), keeping tabs (33:00), Values (36:40)

Record breaking episode (4:25) , The scenario(6:55), Does body count matter (14:58), Double standards (23:28), Judging (33:45), When would you like to know(38:39), Random facts (50:02)

The scenario (7:30), Friendships and friendship group dynamics (11:48), Power dynamics in friendships (18:20), Can friendships exist without hierarchy (34:13), Bullying in friendship circles (45:40)

Today’s Puzzle(2:43), Telling your partner how much you make (10:25), When is it okay to ask about money while dating(13:32), Financial literacy (20:55), How important are finances in relationships (27:35),Classic case study(35:51), House husbands(43:00), Gender & Cultural  influence impact  in financial dynamics(58:05), Dating someone with “potential” (1:08:08)
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In this episode, Lolade and Lamide discuss physical alterations and the current craze around them. They discuss reactions to partners/people who want to get procedures, societal influence and the choice of disclosure.
Welcome back/Offseason (1;30), The Scenario (8:30), Societal influence and insecurities (14:45), peer pressure versus self-confidence (17:59), Thoughts on getting physically altering surgery (29:27), Disclosing when you get surgery (41:17)
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