Is it your role to heal your partner? Afraid of losing autonomy in your relationship? Amy presents new ways of thinking about these questions and offers some framework for creative collaboration between partners. Reciprocally prioritizing your relationship/helping each other to heal, and being fully autonomous individuals do not have to be at odds with each other!

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Is jealousy eroding your relationship? Amy offers advice for chronically jealous partners (without shaming) and advice for the partners of chronically jealous people, while also presenting a new framework for considering the complex origins and prognostic factors of persistent dysfunctional jealousy.

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Are you missing the gold in your partner's complaints? Amy shares insight about how couples often focus on the apparent content of conflict instead of seeing the underlying needs, expressions of hurt that originated in their past wounding, and how to address partners complaints in a healing and productive manner.

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An incredibly powerful strategy for getting your partner to hear you! Tell them how they affect you when they say/do this or that. Amy shares some important whys and hows when it comes to telling your partner how they affect you. Try this for reduced defensiveness, improved understanding, and positive change in your relationship.

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Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/5qjtyXqgsYqKbvmLGzZWTT?si=6ab912983a6947fc

What if your diagnoses are really just descriptions of the symptoms of your complex trauma? Amy shares about new ways of thinking about mental illness and challenges traditional conceptualizations of mental health diagnoses.

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We've all heard of Gottman but there are better options for many couples. Amy shares about alternative couple therapy models and some important considerations in choosing the right therapist for your relationship.

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Codependency is a deadly disease of silence. Amy provides a brief but dense break down the origins of codependency, an overview of codependent traits, and an explanation of how codependency interacts with different attachment styles.

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Listen as your hosts spontaneously respond to a fan's request for your hosts to cover the topic of community. Amy brings in the neurobiology of community, Stephanie gets vulnerable and insightful about human psychology. Spoiler alert: Femme's need community! Happy Pride month, everyone!!!

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Join Amy and Steph in catching up with each other and exploring the upcoming eclipses, the astrological new year, relationships, business, and animals, among many other subjects!

In this episode, Stephanie and Amy discuss intuitive eating, intuitive living, and the complexities of chronic dieting, eating disorders, and body image.