This week we are discussing process vs. content in relationships. This is when we focus on how someone acts rather than what the intent of the action is. This becomes a stumbling block to the process of strengthening your relationships. When children are rebellious we put on the WAR MASK rather than focusing on thoughts and intentions. As adults, we have an advantage over our children because as parents we know they are moving through a process of growth. But, in adult relationships, we are constantly learning our own process and we are often unaware that we are wearing a WAR MASK.

This week Advice 4 Life continues the conversation with Lisa. This is a conversation with Lisa that continued after the regular Facebook Live session was over. In this conversation Al & Aisha share gems with Lisa on how important proper communication should be engaged. Listen to Advice 4 life as we delve further into this issue. Advice 4 Life airs every Sunday at 9:00 am est. on iHeart radio (Heaven 600). Also, join us on Al Laws Jr (Facebook Live) every Tuesday at 8:30 pm, and checkout our website at www.advice4life.us

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When our Mask cause us to act in violence and fear of exposure, surely that should be the warning sign that we are in need of help. Believe it or not all of us want to be loved and accepted. We use the most presentable face we can, which often misinterpret the message we are trying to achieve or the results we are trying to achieve. No matter what we do to protect ourselves when we wear masks we induce the masquerade party spirit in relationships. Listen to Advice 4 life as we delve further into this issue. Advice 4 Life airs every Sunday at 9:00 am est. on iHeart radio (Heaven 600). Also, join us on Facebook Live every Tuesday at 8:30 pm, click on Al Laws Jr and checkout our website at www.advice4life.us

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Today

we will continue to talk with our caller Lisa. She shared her experience with

domestic violence and the struggles she had with in herself over her own

process. While we do not encourage Lisa to feel guilty and blame herself for

the actions of her husband, we share with Lisa how she can see why this

situation came to be and how she can avoid this in her future. By asking Lisa

to face her fears, which put her in this situation, Advice 4 Life was able to

point out how often we all fall prey to our own fears, which can lead us into

dangerous and life threatening situations. Listen to our program as we work

with Lisa to deal this situation…

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Take your relationships to a

life changing level! How? Take the MASK off of the deepest parts of your feelings

in and about your relationship! We help you "learn secrets" and

"practical skills" for how to heal and improve your relationships.

Watch us every Tuesday evening at 8:30 pm et on Facebook Live where our

audience chat with us live, sharing their insights and relationship questions.

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et.

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As you remember last week we

discussed how women change their game plan and become hunters when they’re

looking for partners. We also discussed the physical, spiritual, emotional and

mental ways men and women show up in their relationships. Often we find ourselves

struggling to express how we feel which can lead to relationship combustion

that often contaminate any efforts to have a positive outcome in relationship

conflicts. This week we will continue to deal with some of the physical ways in

which we show up in relationships. One issue we understand in relationships is

that partners CAN see each other’s mask even when they don’t acknowledge what

they see. We see each other more than we think in our relationships. Listen as

we continue with Advice 4 Life.

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Married women get frustrated

with their husbands because they want attention and when they get it the

marriage can often end in divorce. This is when the preparation for the hunt

begins, women focus on their appearance by shedding pounds just for the

hunting. Had this been their mindset, before the divorce, to keep the man they

had and to keep his attention the marriage could have survived. Now they are on

the hunt doing everything they can to trap their new prey. Often after Women

get divorced or while they are single do they plan meticulously for the hunt.

Getting their hair and nails done, buying new clothes, and putting on a new

attitude. These are things we must do to keep the men we already have in our

lives. Men use their eyes when they’re dealing with women, if you are married it’s

your Job to fill his eye gate with the proper visuals that will keep his

attention on you. Women are master hunters and they should master this skill

with their partners. This is why it’s important to always think of sustaining

the very appearance of beauty that drew you together in the first place.

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This week Mr. Laws discuss

the different views men and women have about relationships with his guest host

Aisha Laws. They will discuss how men and women should show up in their

relationships. Mr. Laws begin this broadcast discussing how men have been

conditioned throughout generations with a mindset that focus on how many women

they can get, which has skewed their mindset. Men need to understand they are

missing out on the rubies (valuable females) in their lives. While men desire

to be honored they have to be reconditioned to understand the value God has placed

in women. The radio program, airs every Sunday morning, it focuses on

providing holistic insight to improving relationships with the Family

Strengthening Practice Model. Audiences will now be able to tune in to “Advice

4 Life” on Heaven 600 AM on the radio or iHeart Radio to learn more

about ways to improve.

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Last week Mr.

Laws was talking with Tammy to helped her focus on her contribution to her

relationship rather than providing insight on how to fix her spouse. This week

He will continue the discussion with Tammy, and as always we are grateful Tammy

has entrusted us with her situation. While Mr. Laws was certainly pushing her

to do better, it is necessary so that she can find the good rather than the

negative aspects of her relationship. When you call into the show with

your concerns, it is the practice of Advice 4 Life to deal with you in

particular about how you can make your relationship better. while we realize it

takes two people to make a relationship either good or bad its equally important

to deal with each person’s responsibility in the relationship individually.

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This week on Advice 4 Life, we

will discuss relationship issues with Tammy. In this discussion Mr. Laws is

encouraging Tammy to express her feelings about being controlled, unloved and

unsupported. The goal in this discussion is to help Tammy find the good in

her husband and to focus more on his intentions. The radio program, airing

every Sunday, will focus on providing holistic insight to improving

relationships with the Family Strengthening practice model. Audiences will now

be able to tune to “Advice for Life” on Heaven 600 AM on the radio or internet

to learn more about ways to improve communication and promote love within the

household and community.

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