People are busy. Project managers who want to get their point across need to know how to speak and respond in a timely manner—while exuding both confidence and empathy.
So what does effective communication look like?
“Sometimes it's proactive to address risk, and sometimes it's reactive to address issues,” says veteran PM and organizational change agent Vicki Hoard, PMP, LSSBB, CSM, Management Consultant. “It's always a continuous process, and it improves as you go on. There are a lot of lessons learned and lessons taught.”
Here’s how to start the process:
Be clear. Speak in plain language, be explicit, and use short sentences with concrete words—sort of like how information gets transmitted in an email or text.
And be sure to address people by the proper pronoun. (For the sake of clarity, ask.)
Measure how you're doing. Establish a baseline by asking questions. How much rework do you have to do? Are there errors? Are your client’s needs met? What about the needs of the people in your firm—even those above you?
Don't dictate and demand. Bad communication, such as telling technical staff to stay in their lanes, can be shaming and lead to disarray.
“Emotional vampires can suck the energy out of projects and ultimately sabotage them,” says Hoard. This can lead to overrun, scope creep, scheduling issues, stop work orders, and other negative impacts.
Avoid barriers. “Self-awareness is one of the biggest tools out there,” says Hoard. “One of the most important things a project manager can do is to be knowledgeable about yourself—to understand what you're doing, who you are, and what you’re there for.
“People who jump to conclusions often hear what they expect to hear instead of what was actually said, and those who believe there is only one way to do something often struggle when working with a team. Bring people together to create “a shared culture that has meaning for everyone.”
Support others. The best project managers do not say, “My job is to make sure you do your job.” They say, “My job is to help you be successful in your job.”
Hoard calls the second leadership style a “grow-with-you type of mentorship”—one that invites reflection from both sides.
Stay calm. People are much more responsive when a leader explains anger and frustration instead of expressing it.
Listen more. Ask questions, clarify, summarize, and provide feedback. “Don’t take it as a threat when someone on your team asks a question about what you meant,” Hoard says.
Use data. You want to be able to back up what you communicate. Says Hoard: “You never want anyone to question who you are and what you are in the organization.
“You want to be trustworthy. You want to be able to say, ‘If I'm wrong, prove it. It's that important.’”