Aesthetically Dope

Some people be reaching.

Today's beat is just random. Lol 😂 I'm tired AF.

Didn't expect to make this a tips and tricks podcast lol. But anyways you can pickup my designs at shedesignsthings.com or head over to my personal blog, aesthetically dope. You can even Google me lol 🤣

Sometimes you leave a place and they think that you're gonna do something to them. I'm a black woman - go try somebody else with that nonsense.

I'm feeling pretty good! Lol I made blog post about my resignation - you can read it on aestheticallydope.com.

This is the part about resignations that no one prepares you for.

I resigned and it was kinda like breaking up with someone 😂 I had mixed feelings. Like do I fear the unknown or do I stay her with the abuse lol 🤣

I loved my job. I loved having a sense of purpose. I loved being able to have a different day everyday. But as time went on my job demanded more from me than I could give them. They had these expectations that I could do everything. I kept telling them I couldn't do it. I kept telling them, my plate was full, I kept telling them I needed more support. I spoke out and advocated for change. I tried my best to stay positive. But the excuses became too much. Sometimes you gotta letgo and move on.

I'm always willing to talk. I'm not gonna advertise when I'm feeling some type of way. Sometimes the noise and self deprecation can become so loud that you don't know how to handle it. Sometimes can become the last time. It's important to recognize that this too shall pass. But it's equally important to acknowledge that it shall comeback. It's when it returns and you aren't prepared. So what do you do? Make a PLAN. If you're struggling with something make a plan to let someone know that you need help. This might be asking a friend if they can be your lifeline. Your lifeline is a huge responsibility. It's like being a godparent - but more of a guardian angel. They aren't a therapist or doctor, just the person you can text a keyword to and they know you need help. ❤️ Making plans saves lives.