Does your mother-in-law pop up at your house? Do they tell you how to parent your children? Alfred and Christy discuss this and more as it relates to in-laws, your parents, and setting healthy boundaries.

Let's talk about self-care vs spouse care. Can they co-exist, so you allow your spouse room to breathe and have a life outside of their responsibilities to you and the kids? Come along with Alfred and Christy and they discuss this and walk through some of what their differences of opinions have been.

With the winter storm rolling through Texas, Christy and Alfred found themselves seeking shelter at the Omni Dallas Hotel. Power outages forced families out of their homes which led to this impromptu podcast episode with three other couples also seeking a warm place to sleep. Together they discuss random topics but focus on weathering the storm with your spouse.

In this episode, Alfred and Christy do an impromptu recording after Christy discovers Alfred ate Christy's brownie! They discuss how small things use to be HUGE in years past and how they learned over the years to discuss and move past them. They talk about "community property" and laugh at how each of them has their different preferences of how they like certain things done.

Alfred and Christy sit down to seriously discuss what it looks like to have healthy arguments in marriage. They discuss some of the techniques they have learned over the years, some that worked and some that didn't. Giving insight into what arguments in marriage can look like and what they shouldn't.

We spent time with Jermont and Mitchiko Jackosn talking all about balancing your marriage with successful careers. We talk about gender roles in the house, managing the kids, and being supportive of one another's career and education goals.

In this candid conversation, we laugh about loving ourselves and does it really matter if one outearns the other.

Continuing on from part 1, Christy and Alfred discuss more about their friendships and how they change after marriage. You're married, you have kids and now have someone to "answer" to about where you are going and when you plan to come back. 

Discussing relationship differences and how men and women connect with each other on different levels. Do women share more, do men not share enough? Are all lady talks gossip or the tea? Do men only share surface-level or do they go deep about their marriage?

Alfred and Christy sit down with their friends and neighbors Royce and Chere Smith who have been married for over 20 years to discuss the changes in sex in marriage.

The four of them talk about new sex, sex after kids, tired sex, and how much sex couples are having. The goal of this episode is to dispel the myths of what you think sex should look like in your bedroom.

In this episode of After The Aisle, Husband and Wife Alfred and Christy break down for you the purpose of the podcast, why they started a marriage podcast, who they are, and struggles they have faced in their own marriage.