After The Breaking Point

You had the moment that changed everything, and you know you can't go back to the way things were. So what now? After a breaking point, most of us make one of three choices without ever realizing we're choosing. In this episode, I share the three choices I discovered after my own breaking points: survival mode, living in the facade, and building a brand new life on a brand new foundation.

I walk you through what a breaking point actually is, what crisis mode looks like and why it isn't meant to last, and what each choice looks like in real life: holding it all together with glue and tape, rebuilding with the same old bricks and a fresh coat of paint, or stepping into the unknown in faith and standing on God's truth. There's no judgment here. Every season has a time and a place, and no choice is better or worse than another. I'm sharing what I've lived, because I wish I had known I had other choices.

If you're a woman of faith in a hard season, rebuilding after a breaking point, and wondering if you're stuck in survival mode or building on a foundation that keeps letting you down, this episode is for you. Grab my free guide, 10 Gold Nuggets Hidden in Your Breaking Point, at heartandskillacademy.com and start finding your gold.

Most of us are carrying years we think were wasted, a season that took more than it gave, a version of life we thought we'd have by now. What if none of that time was actually wasted at all? In this episode, I take you into one specific night in my own story, sitting exhausted at my desk, and an experience with God that changed how I looked at my past.

I walk you through what led up to that night, the exhaustion, the moment I finally admitted to myself I wasn't happy, and the vision God gave me, one that showed me those years weren't wasted. They were a gold mine. I’ll talk about what it means to look back at time you thought you wasted with a different perspective, not feeling regret, but seeing there was more there than you thought.

If you've ever looked back at a hard chapter and wondered if it meant anything, or if it disqualifies you from the life you're meant for, this episode is for you. I hope my story helps you start finding your own gold.

Welcome to After the Breaking Point. This is the trailer, a quick look at what this podcast is about and who it's for.

I'm Vanessa. I spent two decades navigating hard seasons in my personal life, alongside a twenty-year career, and eventually, everything came to a breaking point. What felt like the end was actually the start of everything God had been building in me.

This podcast is for the Christian woman who's hit her own breaking point and is quietly wondering: was any of this for a reason? On here, we talk about turning your hardest seasons into the gold mine of your strengths, skills, and purpose , without the fluff.

If you've been carrying a season that felt wasted, I hope you'll listen in. Your breaking point is not where your story ends.

Welcome to After the Breaking Point. This is the trailer, a quick look at what this podcast is about and who it's for.

I'm Vanessa. I spent two decades navigating hard seasons in my personal life, alongside a twenty-year career, and eventually, everything came to a breaking point. What felt like the end was actually the start of everything God had been building in me.

This podcast is for the Christian woman who's hit her own breaking point and is quietly wondering: was any of this for a reason? On here, we talk about turning your hardest seasons into the gold mine of your strengths, skills, and purpose — without the fluff.

If you've been carrying a season that felt wasted, I hope you'll listen in. Your breaking point is not where your story ends.