Whooo is that girl I seeee, staring straaaight back at meee? 🎵🎶 Your girls are back together, and how sweet it is! We are walking into 2025 and Season 3 with fresh eyes and open hearts. Join us as we reunite to share some key self reflections from the past year.

What elusive feeling are we trying to capture during the holiday season? If it's not wrong, why doesn't it feel right? Eileen is still trying to figure this one out and brings in her husband, Stan, for some back up. (She only mentions the Christmas cards once. A tiny millisecond mention. Promise.)

Eileen and Stan (a special guest filling in for Bona) talk about their time in Chicago and being part of an Asian American church plant — a mini rise and fall, if you will. They go into the need for healing, namely healing in community, and what it actually means to live as Christ lived. We hope you enjoy this one. Merry Christmas!

She’s got style, she’s got grace, she’s a lady! Well, two ladies. Bona and Eileen talk about their styles through the years, how body image has been intertwined with it, and how their perspectives have shifted over time.

The ladies chat about how they’re feeling during this season — the good, the bad, and all the in between — and the things they’re feeling thankful for. Happy Thanksgiving, y’all.

It’s Election Day! And your hosts talk politics…(cringe)…well, sort of. What they really talk about is the story behind the story. It’s about the idea of certainty and how it plays out in beliefs and opinions — both of which we know can be staunch and unwavering these days. What does being certain mean and how can it be detrimental to our openness to one another? What does it feel like to lay them down? Why does it matter? LFG 🇺🇸❤️🤍💙

Reference: Trauma, Fragmentation, and the Soothing Certainty of Dogmatism (Adam Young, The Place We Find Ourselves)

Are you Team Halloween or Team Christmas? Eileen and Bona give their reasons as to which is the better holiday (Halloween, duh lol jk). Sprinkle in some costume ideas, spooky vibes, favorite candies, a “which seasonal vibe” are you profiling, and you’ve got yourself their annual Halloween episode!

The hosts talk about their ideas of beauty and the messages they received about it when they were young. Who gets to say what is and isn’t? These Sephora tweens?! Bona and Eileen wonder aloud how their kids will approach the ideas and expectations on appearance. Here’s hoping that the kids will be all right!

The hosts take another dive down into the abyss of motherhood, worth, and identity. Some new little lightbulbs have popped up since episode 6 of ATKGD, and they’re here to shed some light on what they’ve been thinking about.

This conversation is very near and dear to the hosts. They talk about what they did prior to becoming stay-at-home moms (SAHMs) and what all of it meant or didn’t to them. Is there a difference between the societal perception of what they do now as SAHMs vs. the real experience? Buckle in with us as we take a rocky ride through the notions of career, achievement, fulfillment, and most importantly, our inherent worth. Anyone else on this struggle bus?