What actually happens in an athlete's head as they practice and why does it decide whether they stick the next skill or spiral?
In this episode, we sit down with Blake Mattan, a mental performance coach who's worked with youth athletes across elite sports, to unpack what's really going on behind performance anxiety in cheerleading.
From cheer athlete to coach and entrepreneur, Blake's own path through the sport shapes everything he now teaches gyms, coaches, and parents about building resilient, confident athletes.
In this episode, Blake shares practical tools and mental models for helping athletes manage pressure, bounce back from mistakes, and actually enjoy the sport they've poured years into.
We get into why performance anxiety shows up the way it does in cheerleading specifically, how a simple "goldfish method" can reset an athlete's mind after a mistake in seconds, and why setting intentions - not just goals - changes how athletes show up to training.
Blake also breaks down the weekly reset habit he recommends for both athletes and coaches, and where the line is between normal nerves and needing extra mental coaching support.
In this episode, we talk about:
- Performance anxiety and how to manage it in cheerleading
- The importance of mental training alongside physical training
- The goldfish method for acknowledging and moving on after a mistake
- Setting intentions and building accountability into training
- Tools and habits that build resilience and confidence over time
- How coaches and parents shape an athlete's mental well-being
- Knowing when it's time to seek extra mental coaching support
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Blake Mattan and his work
02:06 Blake's journey from athlete to coach and entrepreneur
04:11 The evolution of Blake's career and personal life
07:48 Understanding performance anxiety in cheerleading
10:48 The goldfish method to relax and move on from mistakes
14:58 Setting intentions and accountability in training
20:00 Tools for developing mental habits and resilience
24:51 Encouraging a positive and supportive team environment
29:59 When to seek additional mental coaching support
35:03 Resources and advice for aspiring cheer coaches
After The Routine is a podcast exploring life beyond the mats - the careers, mindset, and lessons that carry cheer, dance, and gymnastics families into what comes next. Whether you're an athlete, coach, gym owner, or parent, this show is here to help you grow and explore opportunities.