In this episode of After the Vows, Joe and Karen Coffey sit down with Micah and Jessica Irwin to talk about healing after infidelity. Together, they unpack the pain, deception, and grief that come with broken trust while also pointing to the hope of restoration through humility, honesty, and God’s grace. They share practical wisdom for rebuilding trust, setting healthy patterns, and preventing future brokenness by investing deeply in marriage. The conversation reminds us that even in the deepest wounds, God offers redemption and the possibility of a stronger, more grace-filled marriage than before.

In this episode of After the Vows, Joe and Karen Coffey sit down with Jimmy and Emily Kozy to talk about one of the top areas of conflict in marriage: money. They share how their approach to budgeting, transparency, and shared financial responsibility has not only helped them avoid conflict but also deepen intimacy in their marriage. From early struggles with small purchases to navigating single-income seasons while raising four kids, they explore how money reflects values and can unite a couple when handled together. The conversation offers practical insights for couples looking to align finances, strengthen communication, and grow closer through shared financial decisions.

In this episode of After the Vows, Joe and Karen Coffey sit down with Dr. Juli Slattery, clinical psychologist, author, and co-founder of Authentic Intimacy, to talk about what happens when sexual intimacy in marriage feels out of sync. Juli shares her journey into this field and explains God’s intent for sex as a reflection of covenant love. Together, they unpack common struggles couples face—like mismatched desires, pornography, and expectations—and offer practical wisdom for building intimacy over time. The conversation points couples back to prayer, communication, and the hope of God’s redemptive work in every marriage.

In this episode of After the Vows, Joe and Karen Coffey sit down with Ken and Jamie Prabucki to talk about how marriage weathers deep grief. They share candidly about the brokenness each of them brought into their relationship, the pain of infertility, and how those experiences were shaped by past wounds. Through stories of anger, misaligned timelines in processing grief, and the challenge of supporting each other when hurting differently, they offer an honest look at what it takes to stay connected. The conversation emphasizes the importance of truth-telling, avoiding unhelpful “silver linings,” and leaning on Jesus as the ultimate source of hope.

In this episode of After the Vows, Joe and Karen Coffey sit down with Matt and Sara Koons to talk about the most important part of any marriage: communication. From learning to navigate conflict early on, to figuring out how to listen well and speak with kindness, they share honest stories and practical wisdom from 28 years of marriage. They explore how trust, timing, and intentionality shape meaningful connection through different life stages. If you're wondering how to grow closer through communication, this episode is full of insight—and hope.