In this emotional episode of AfterHours Season 4 powered by Pulse Golmol, actor-musician Paresh Pahuja opens up about the silent years of struggle behind the spotlight. Paresh Pahuja Bandish Bandits, Voice Notes concert and his popular songsKnown for Bandish Bandits, Tiger Zinda Hai, and Tandav, Paresh reflects on a pivotal heartbreak that gave rise to his Voice Notes Concert—a deeply personal music project born from vulnerability and pain.In this podcast, Paresh shares the emotional and unpredictable path of building a creative career. Best known for his role in Bandish Bandits, Paresh Pahuja explains how the show transformed his life. He speaks candidly about the internal battles artists face, where external validation doesn’t always silence the question, “Am I good enough?” A heartfelt message from director Anand Tiwari became a turning point, helping Paresh to begin seeing his own worth through someone else’s eyes. From learning the sitar in just ten days for his role to navigating rejection, Paresh brings honesty, humility, and depth to this interview.This Paresh Pahuja interview opens with a reflection on how people perceive the artist. While he initially says, “I have no idea,” he quickly clarifies that of course he cares about perception. It’s not about validation for its own sake, but rather about communication and impact. As an artist, having a voice means wanting to be understood. He rejects the idea of creating solely for a niche audience or for personal satisfaction; instead, he admits he wants the “whole world” to experience his art—be it films or music.Paresh also highlights a crucial but often overlooked skill in creative circles: the ability to sell. He stresses that emotional expression must be paired with thoughtful packaging and presentation—it’s not just about feeling deeply, but about communicating that feeling effectively.There’s a powerful moment in this podcast about the idea of “taste”—Paresh asserts that it’s the only truly unique thing one possesses. Losing faith in one’s own taste is akin to falling into the trap of pleasing others. Most people don’t really know what they want from art or content; therefore, creators must remain anchored in their own sensibilities.One of the most heartwarming insights comes near the end, when Paresh theorises why people in relationships call each other “baby”. He suggests it’s because, when we feel truly safe with someone, we allow our inner child to emerge. We let our guard down. It’s a beautiful articulation of emotional safety, vulnerability, and intimacy—how being able to be “silly” or soft with someone is one of the highest forms of trust.Timestamps:(00:00) Episode begins(03:28) What’s it like being on tour?(03:56) How does music connect with spirituality?(06:58) The last time Paresh Pahuja felt truly alive on stage(08:30) Who do people see in him when he performs?(10:01) Why authenticity always works(11:02) Frontbencher or backbencher?(12:08) What makes a good story?(13:58 ) When Paresh Pahuja missed a flight...(14:52) A behind-the-scenes moment from Bandish Bandits(17:02) Peaking in your 30s, not 20s(17:22) On Anand Tiwari(19:20) Existential crisis at 29(23:26) Holding on to faith during the struggle(25:32) You have to leave some room for magic(25:45) What is Paresh Pahuja's ‘magic button’?(26:15) On manifestation(30:10) How does he think people perceive him?(33:45) How he handles feedback(34:52) Love in your 20s vs 30s(37:10) Is songwriting a good way to heal heartbreak?(38:40) Does Paresh Pahuja cry?(39:50) Why do couples call each other “baby”?(44:01) Paresh Pahuja's inspiration(45:52) How does he unwind AfterHours?Follow us: Instagram:   / allabouteve_in   Facebook:   / allaboutevein  Pinterest:   / allabouteve_in  Website: https://allabouteve.co.in/

Watch Costao on ZEE5 now. In this episode of AfterHours Season 4 podcast, powered by Catch, we sit down with Nawazuddin Siddiqui, one of Indian cinema’s most celebrated and humble actors. Known for his raw talent and unmatched dedication to his craft, Nawazuddin takes us through his remarkable journey—from his early days working as a security guard in Noida to becoming a household name after Gangs of Wasseypur.Nawazuddin Siddiqui opens up about the harsh realities of fame, discussing how stardom is more about performing for the masses than it is about personal accomplishment. Despite his success, Nawaz emphasises that true confidence stems from dedication to one's craft, not from money. In a rare moment of vulnerability, Nawazuddin Siddiqui admits to still feeling nervous before interviews, illustrating the stark contrast between the public’s perception and his personal reality. Nawaz also reveals his undying love for acting, something that would remain even without fame.In the interview, Nawaz also touches on his recent projects, including Costao, a film that challenged him to raise his standards. He recalls his experiences with Shah Rukh Khan in Raees and the viral, impromptu performance in Dev.D’s iconic Emosanal Attyachar song. Nawazuddin also shares his love for solo travel, relishing in life's simple pleasures, from stargazing to admiring the beauty of tree trunks.A particularly touching segment explores a story of love in small towns, where a raw and heartfelt expression of affection made a lasting impact on the actor. Nawaz further opens up about his relationships, offering a humorous moment from Costao.In closing, Nawaz discusses the importance of hard work and dedication in achieving success, emphasising that it’s not luck but perseverance that has defined his career. He shares his dream of becoming a skilled actor, not a star. The episode also teases some of his upcoming projects, such as Thama, Section 108, and Raat Akeli Hai Part 2. In a light-hearted segment, Nawaz participates in Catch & Cut, where he answers hypothetical questions, such as whether he would take a huge payday for a bad script or agree to remake Gangs of Wasseypur.(00:00) Episode begins(02:20) How is he feeling today?(03:25) How does Nawazuddin Siddiqui feel returning to Noida?(04:47) Does money give him confidence?(07:15) Did Nawaz ever imagine as a child that he would become this famous?(09:22) Does he ever catch himself acting in real life?(10:31) On portraying a romantic hero(10:47) “Aakhir chahiye kya aurat ko?”(11:28) Has Nawaz given up on love?(11:57) Has his perception of love changed over the years?(12:56) Did Swanand Kirkire actually introduce him to Thandai?(14:24) How does Nawazuddin see himself?(16:30) On Manjhi and his toughest climb(18:48) When did he feel like giving up?(20:43) What is his greatest insecurity?(22:34) What is Nawazuddin Siddiqui's favourite performance?(22:59) What, to him, is more precious than gold?(25:31) What does he consider the best use of his time?(27:43) What is his favourite travel destination?(29:29) “Hero ban, acting mat kar”(30:28) Does Nawaz see himself as an actor or a hero?(31:21) Differences between NSD and non-NSD actors(32:19) When Nawazuddin Siddiqui was impressed by a co-star(33:42) On Shah Rukh Khan and Raees(34:15) On Emotional Attyachar(35:35) On actors dancing at weddings(37:46) On playing a mother in the play Riders to the Sea(39:35) Does Nawazuddin Siddiqui cry?(43:00) How do people treat him in his hometown, Budhana?(44:22) How people in small towns express love(47:32) What does Nawaz think he could have done better?(49:15) Does he believe in luck?(51:08) Nawazuddin Siddiqui's upcoming projects(51:57) How does he unwind AfterHours?(52:35) GameFollow us: Instagram:   / allabouteve_in  

Watch Logout on ZEE5 now. In this episode of AfterHours with All About Eve podcast Season 4, actor Babil Khan reflects on the grief of losing his father, the legendary Irrfan Khan, and the quiet strength of his mother, Sutapa Sikdar. He opens up about the pressures of growing up in his father’s shadow, the complexities of legacy and individuality, and the emotional vulnerability of living in the public eye. Babil recounts a moving moment at the IIFA Awards where he chose to honour his mother instead of his father, realising her vital role in his father’s journey — even sharing how she once gave a 17-page feedback note on Paan Singh Tomar.The interview also delves into emotional accountability. Babil Khan candidly reflects on past manipulative behaviour, admitting he was unaware of it at the time. Once he recognised it, he reached out to someone he had hurt with a sincere apology — and was surprised when the response was warm and appreciative.As the podcast unfolds, Babil Khan questions the authenticity of modern relationships in the age of social media. He speaks about the importance of truly being present, and how today’s culture of constant connectivity often distracts people from forming real, in-person connections. Having grown up without a smartphone until the age of 21, Babil reflects on how that shaped his relationship with technology and helped him remain grounded.Babil Khan shares his discomfort with the term “content,” believing it diminishes the uniqueness of creative work. The loss of his father, Irrfan Khan, remains a central theme — not just as a parental figure, but as a best friend and confidant. Babil reflects on how few people he truly trusts, and how deeply he values close, meaningful relationships in a world that often feels superficial.One of the most poignant moments comes when Babil reflects on a scene from Piku, sharing that understanding someone truly, deeply is the most profound expression of love, more so than simply being loved.He also shares that music is a deeply personal and therapeutic space for him. Activities like scuba diving have helped him reconnect with his breath, which has helped him feel more present — something he believes every artist needs: a life beyond the art to feed the art. He also speaks about the kind of person he finds attractive — someone he can laugh with and share a sense of humour.The podcast wraps up with a fun segment, where Babil responds to hypothetical scenarios with charm and playfulness.(00:00) Episode begins(02:17) How have the last few years been professionally? (03:28) Is he an intentional non-conformist? (06:42) Babil Khan on receiving the IIFA Award (09:37) What does his mother think of 'Log Out'? (10:06) Where does he derive validation from? (11:45) On how an apology is liberating (13:33) Real vs. fake apologies (16:40) On social media (17:45) When Babil Khan got trolled (18:19) How tough it is to be an influencer (20:50) On content as a concept (23:37) Responsibility in storytelling (26:10) What are his insecurities? (27:33) Social media and beauty standards (30:08) Parts of his personality discovered through acting and on validation (34:24) How adversities are important for art (36:30) On losing his father, the legendary Irrfan Khan (37:24) On toxic relationships (38:45) New-age culture and dating apps (39:47) On modern-day love (40:59) On romance, quoting a scene from Piku (43:52) How does Babil unwind AfterHours? (45:29) On his acting skills (46:10) Artists should experience different aspects of life (48:00) The kind of person Babil finds attractive (49:03) GameFollow us: Instagram:   / allabouteve_in   Facebook:   / allaboutevein  Pinterest:   / allabouteve_in  Website: https://allabouteve.co.in/#babilkhan #irrfan_khan #irrfankhan #bollywood #bollywoodinterview #logout #movie #piku #toxicrelationships #relationship #love #socialmedia #interview #podcast #podcasting

In this episode of AfterHours with All About Eve Season 4, powered by Pulse, Chef Sanjeev Kapoor reflects on his iconic journey—from revolutionising Indian cooking on Khana Khazana to becoming a household name. He speaks about how his famous phrase "Namak Swaad Anusaar" became a symbol of home cooking and how it has now evolved to "Namak Sehat Anusaar", in response to growing health concerns.He revisits the early stages of his career, from his accidental entry into hotel management to becoming the Executive Chef of a 400-room hotel at the age of 28.In this interview, Chef Sanjeev Kapoor recalls his unexpected rise to fame, shaped by bold career decisions and the creation of the legendary cooking show Khana Khazana. He shares a behind-the-scenes account of how his unplanned contribution ended up saving the show, catapulting him into the public eye.Sanjeev Kapoor also speaks passionately about gender bias in cooking, referencing Sanya Malhotra's movie Mrs while challenging societal norms that deem cooking a female-only responsibility. Having grown up in a home where both his parents cooked, he strongly advocates for cooking as a basic life skill that should be gender-neutral.The conversation then moves to the broader culinary landscape, where Kapoor shares his candid views on the Michelin star system, celebrity chefs, and the harsh realities of the restaurant industry. He stresses that Michelin stars are awarded to restaurants—not chefs—and explains why the system has not yet made its way to India.Chef Sanjeev Kapoor also reflects on the emotional connection people have with food, particularly home-cooked meals.For him, food prepared by a mother holds profound emotional value, which is why "maa ke haath ka khaana" continues to be cherished, even as one grows older.Chef Kapoor discusses the evolution of India’s culinary industry, highlighting his role in mentoring chefs like Ranveer Brar and Vikas Khanna. He believes the emergence of multiple culinary stars is vital for the industry’s growth and underlines the importance of guiding the next generation of chefs. He expresses great pride in the profession and the respect it now commands—sharing a special moment where he wore his chef’s coat at the Padma Shri ceremony, defying protocol.Chef Sanjeev Kapoor also delves into the science of cooking, emphasising the importance of ratios—such as the ideal water-to-rice proportion—for achieving culinary perfection. He offers a personal take on suji ka halwa, moong dal, and tea, stressing the significance of accurate proportions and even the potential use of kitchen robots for precision. (00:00) Episode begins(2:01) How “Namak Swaad Anusaar” became iconic (6:41) Sanjeev Kapoor's journey to fame (10:45) Parents’ reaction to his dream of becoming a chef (13:50) Pursuing a Masters in Marketing (15:08) The birth of Khana Khazana (21:45) On his wife & personal life (24:26) Cooking for his wife + the best compliment (25:00) Inspiring a generation of chefs - Ranveer Brar, Vikas Khanna, Saransh Goila & more (27:40) What “celebrity” means to him (28:41) Why doesn't India have a Michelin star?(33:31) Why the food business is tough (35:29) What makes a restaurant great? (37:34) Nostalgia of “maa ke haath ka khana” (40:42) His bond with fellow chefs (42:35) Why Sanjeev Kapoor wore his chef's coat for the Padma Shri ceremony(45:28) On MasterChef India (48:12) Will Vicky Kaushal play Sanjeev Kapoor? (51:06) How he unwinds AfterHours (51:12) Recipes: Tea, Dal, Sooji ka Halwa (1:00:00) Biryani with elaichi — yes or no?Follow us: Instagram:   / allabouteve_in   Facebook:   / allaboutevein  Pinterest:   / allabouteve_in  Website: https://allabouteve.co.in/#sanjeevkapoor #khanakhazana #food #chef #cooking #podcast #interview #mrs #ranveerbrar #vikaskhanna #tea #chai #foodpodcast #cookingtips

Do you have a right to inherit your parents' property even if they will it to someone else? If you are involved in a property dispute, do you know your rights fully? Do you need to make a will, and if you do, what is the right time to make one?In this powerful and deeply insightful episode of AfterHours Season 4, Bani Anand sits down with senior advocate Geeta Luthra to unravel the complex legal web of Indian succession law.What happens when a brother refuses to share ancestral property with his sisters? Can daughters claim their lawful share, especially if there’s no will? What if a property is solely in one family member’s name? Who inherits assets if a couple has no children? Geeta Luthra addresses these real-life dilemmas with both compassion and clarity, offering not just legal understanding but also deep social context.We unpack the difference between self-acquired and ancestral property, the rights of women under the Hindu Succession Act, and how gendered traditions and outdated patriarchal assumptions continue to shape property decisions—even after legislative reforms. From urban households to tribal communities, this podcast sheds light on how deeply systemic these disparities are. Despite legal provisions, tribal women still own just 16% of land in India—a stark indicator of the inequality that prevails.Advocate Geeta Luthra shares compelling stories of how inheritance can turn toxic—manipulation, isolation of ageing parents, and unequal control over property. She explores how lifetime gifts can backfire, why “equal” isn’t always “fair,” and how transparency doesn’t guarantee harmony. The interview also delves into stamp duties, court fees, and limitation periods—the hidden costs that often discourage people from pursuing their rightful claims. The law may appear illogical or intimidating, but understanding it is the first step towards empowerment.We also explore what happens when parents decide to leave everything to one child and how these decisions can lead to lifelong resentment, conflict, or even legal battles. When couples have no children, we examine who inherits the assets—whether it’s nieces, nephews, friends, or even domestic staff—and how to ensure those choices are respected legally.From the landmark Vineeta Sharma case to property disputes where women are branded as witches or excommunicated for marrying outside their caste or tribe, this episode highlights the intersection of caste, gender, and law. Is a daughter’s claim a matter of greed or rightful inheritance? Should emotional bonds override legal rights? This conversation doesn’t shy away from difficult questions. Instead, it offers a window into the evolving dynamics of Indian families—and the ways in which law, tradition, and power continue to collide.(00:00) Episode begins(2:40) Most common cause of property disputes(7:50) How property disputes ruin relationships(11:37) Can a child insist on a property gift from parents?(14:39) Why transparency in property distribution matters(19:25) When should you write a will?(21:06) Is it necessary to register a will?(26:21) Can a registered will be challenged?(31:48) Not giving property to daughters(38:11) Is the Succession Act biased against women?(44:00) Tribal succession laws(48:03) Women’s rights under the Hindu Succession Act(51:21) Can a will be challenged years after shares are taken?(56:13) Do handwritten notes count as a will?(58:19) When is the right time to make a will?(59:46) How Geeta Luthra unwinds AfterHoursFollow us: Instagram:   / allabouteve_in   Facebook:   / allaboutevein  Pinterest:   / allabouteve_in  Website: https://allabouteve.co.in/#law #lawyer #inheritance #will #legaladvice #legal #legaleducation #propertydispute #womenrights #propertylaw #laws #interview #podcast

In this episode of AfterHours with All About Eve Season 4 powered by Pulse Golmol, Bani Anand interviews acclaimed wedding photographer Joseph Radhik. From Virat Kohli and Anushka Sharma, Priyanka Chopra and Nick Jonas, Anant Ambani and Radhika Merchant, and many more, Joseph is the photographer India's biggest celebrities want for their wedding. What began as a goal to shoot for 100 days a year soon turned into high-profile assignments, including Allu Arjun’s wedding and a major event in Bali. A highlight is his reflection on capturing a candid moment between Virat Kohli and Anushka Sharma—a reminder that real emotions cannot be staged.Joseph prefers a documentary style—even for celebrity weddings like Virat-Anushka or Katrina Kaif and Vicky Kaushal—aspiring to become the “Raghu Rai of weddings.” He values trust deeply and often signs NDAs (non-disclosure agreements) which is why we see a limited set of pictures online from Bollywood celebrity weddings.He reflects on the discreet lives of India’s ultra-wealthy, contrasting them with the rare public spectacle of Radhika Merchant and Anant Ambani's wedding.In this podcast, Joseph Radhik emphasises that true joy often lies in simple, quiet moments—a father’s proud glance, a grandmother sipping champagne.During the interview, he critiques the rise of social media pressure, where brides—particularly influencers—prioritise fast content over meaningful storytelling. He underscores that Indian weddings are more than a couple’s story—they are cultural milestones centred around family. Comparing celebrity and non-celebrity weddings, Joseph notes that while all have public and private moments, grounded stars carefully curate what they share. He cites Saif and Kareena’s single iconic portrait and Virat and Anushka’s intimate yet selective sharing as examples of this balance.He shares a funny moment from Priyanka Chopra and Nick Jonas’s wedding—he only realised that Nick was a singer when the Jonas Brothers performed. To stay balanced, he prioritises sleep and relies on his seasoned 15-member team at 'Stories'. With a shared style, they cover 35–40 weddings a year, allowing Joseph to focus on key moments while delegating the rest.He debunks the myth that candid photography is new, stressing that emotion, not perfection, is what drives timeless images. One favourite candid? An unplanned moment of Anant and Radhika being lifted by friends mid-celebration.(00:00) Episode begins(01:47) Being one of India’s top photographers (06:21) Why Joseph shoots only 10–15 weddings a year (11:10) Clients asking for photo replicas (14:30) “I have one of the best jobs at a wedding” (17:05) Moment vs. photo quality (19:19) Role of relationships in business (23:01) Dealing with drunk guests (23:45) What makes a great wedding photo (29:09) Meaningful photos vs. flashy creativity (31:29) Signing NDAs for weddings (33:26) On Radhika & Anant Ambani's wedding (34:40) On privilege (36:21) Opulence becoming invisible (38:34) Two must-have wedding shots (41:26) Social media delivery pressure (43:22) India’s wedding obsession (45:36) India vs. West: wedding photography (47:16) Sangeet and the dance obsession (51:49) Celebrity vs. regular weddings (54:41) Working with wife Devika Narain(57:12) First come, first serve clients (01:01:41) Wedding fails & what happened at Priyanka & Nick’s wedding (01:06:22) Grooms & photo consciousness (01:07:03) Managing sleep during shoots (01:09:36) Candid moments in Indian weddings (01:10:47) Capturing key moments like Varmala (01:13:03) Creatives and imperfection (01:13:28) How Joseph Radhik unwinds (01:15:49) Working with his wife (01:19:24) Game: Golmol or Not?Follow us: Instagram:   / allabouteve_in   Facebook:   / allaboutevein  #viratandanushka #priyankachopra #ambani #ambaniwedding #weddingphotography #viratkohli #anushkasharma #interview #podcast #anantambani #nickjonas #c

In this inspiring and nostalgic episode of AfterHours with All About Eve podcast, actor Juhi Parmar opens up about her remarkable journey in the entertainment industry with Bani Anand. From her iconic role as Kumkum in Kumkum – Ek Pyara Sa Bandhan to embracing the OTT space, Juhi shares her personal experiences and lessons learned.Juhi Parmar recounts emotional fan moments, such as a blind admirer who "watched" Kumkum daily by listening to it and wished to touch her face to "see" Kumkum, and a young girl from Pakistan who waited for hours in an autorickshaw just to meet her. The interview then shifts from TV to OTT, highlighting the deep connection that TV offers to audiences compared to the creative freedom provided by OTT platforms. Juhi also reflects on her role in Yeh Meri Family on Amazon Prime, where fans eagerly await new seasons, demonstrating the evolving ways in which audiences engage with content. She recalls funny moments with co-stars like Rajesh Kumar, where impromptu scenes led to uncontrollable laughter.Juhi Parmar also shares behind-the-scenes stories from Kumkum, such as how the brain tumour storyline became a joke among the actors, her on-screen and off-screen bond with co-star Hussain Kuwajerwala, and her transition to diverse roles, including her first negative character in Shani. Juhi also discusses her Bigg Boss experience in this interview, where she maintained her integrity and won while staying true to her values.Juhi Parmar also talks about her daughter Samaira and their unbreakable bond, deep conversations, and her commitment to raising a strong, independent woman. Juhi stresses the importance of financial independence and recalls a personal story of asking her father to stop sending her money when she moved to Mumbai, believing that true success comes from facing challenges head-on.Spirituality plays a key role in Juhi's life. She practices mindfulness, meditation, and inner work, balancing modern life with spiritual growth. Drawing wisdom from the Bhagavad Gita, she emphasises detaching from outcomes to maintain peace of mind and achieve personal growth.Juhi applies her spiritual beliefs to parenting, teaching Samaira self-belief, honesty, and mindfulness. In the digital age, she actively monitors Samaira’s social media presence, curating uplifting content to help her navigate online influences. Juhi Parmar speaks about Love Thy Nature, her skincare brand promoting holistic practices. She also shares Ayurvedic tips for health and beauty, reflecting her approach to life.Timestamps(00:00) Episode begins(03:08) Still recognised as Kumkum? (03:55) Strange fan encounters (06:05) Incident in Pakistan during 'Tere Ishq Mein' (07:24) Does OTT have the same impact as TV? (08:40) More creative freedom on OTT? (11:53) Views on absurd TV storylines (13:58) Changes to Kumkum's character (15:02) Juhi & Hussain Kuwajerwala’s on-screen chemistry (17:24) Is Juhi nostalgic? (17:52) Three life highlights (20:14) How does motherhood change you? (21:26) Juhi’s bond with daughter Samaira (24:10) Is Juhi a helicopter mom? (28:05) Importance of financial independence (29:44) Asking her dad to stop sending money (32:25) Lessons from failure (37:18) Ever thought of giving up? (38:17) Juhi’s love language for Samaira (39:19) Protecting her child from social media (41:49) Tackling beauty standards (43:37) Upcoming projects (45:39) How Juhi Parmar unwinds (46:22) Upbringing and childhood trauma (49:14) Is the mother-child bond the only unconditional love? (50:01) GameFollow us: Instagram:   / allabouteve_in   Facebook:   / allaboutevein  Pinterest:   / allabouteve_in  Website: https://allabouteve.co.in/

In this special episode of AfterHours with All About Eve podcast, host Bani Anand sits down with Swanand Kirkire, the celebrated lyricist, singer, and three-time National Award winner, for an unfiltered conversation about his journey in music, poetry, and cinema. From struggling as an aspiring artist to writing some of Bollywood’s most iconic songs, he shares the defining moments of his career—starting with Bavra Mann, the song that changed everything.Swanand Kirkire reflects on collaborating with legends like Vidhu Vinod Chopra and Rajkumar Hirani, navigating the delicate balance between writing and music.Beyond Bollywood, he revisits his Indore theatre days, where performances took place in a bank. He also shares stories from his early drama school days, including an unforgettable moment when Nawazuddin Siddiqui played a grieving mother in an Irish play, as well as the truth behind the infamous thandai story. The interview explores Swanand Kirkire’s deep passion for cinema—watching 400 films a year, idolising Shyam Benegal and Mani Ratnam, and how his drama school experiences shaped his artistic journey.He reflects on his work in Satyamev Jayate, where songs like Rupaiya and O Ri Chiraiya became anthems of empowerment. Before making his mark in Bollywood, Swanand Kirkire worked as a door-to-door vacuum cleaner salesman in Indore to fund his dream of joining NSD, learning resilience through rejection and witnessing India’s jugaad culture firsthand. Swanand Kirkire also shares his admiration for Vidhu Vinod Chopra, with whom he has worked for over 25 years. Discussing 12th Fail, he praises Chopra’s ability to reinvent himself and relates to the idea that everyone experiences “zero se restart” moments. He also delves into the philosophy behind his song Aal Izz Well, revealing how we suffer more in our imagination than in reality.Swanand Kirkire delves into the psychology of success and anxiety, highlighting how childhood conditioning shapes our fears and insecurities. He challenges the idea that parents have all the answers, stating, “They can only teach what they know.” He reflects on emotional conditioning in relationships, recalling how Jaideep Ahlawat shared that his father still isn’t comfortable hugging him—something Swanand Kirkire himself once believed was normal.In a fun rapid-fire round, he takes on Gen-Z struggles with poetry and wit, offering poetic responses to ghosting, online trolling, and self-doubt.(00:00) Episode begins (2:00) Music was not Swanand Kirkire's first choice (4:00) "Felt unworthy of music" (5:40) The story behind Bavra Mann (8:25) The making of Parineeta(12:43) Where does creativity come from? (16:45) Is art still democratic? (17:57) On Nawazuddin Siddiqui (20:42) The truth behind Nawazuddin's thandai story(22:10) Why did Swanand join NSD? (25:28) When Nawazuddin Siddiqui played a mother in a play (27:44) Swanand on Indore (33:36) Favourite childhood memory (35:56) Connecting with people: Then vs Now (38:23) Social media and Chaar Kadam (41:03) Does Swanand forget his own lyrics? (41:41) The impact of O Ri Chiraiya and Rupaiya (45:26) On working with Vidhu Vinod Chopra (47:08) Swanand Kirkire's ‘zero se restart’ moment (52:30) The worst feedback (54:24) Harsh criticism from N.K. Sharma (56:35) Who pushed Swanand the most? (57:46) The philosophy behind Aal Izz Well (1:01:16) Becoming comfortable around parents (1:02:33) Working on himself and self-love (1:06:39) How does Swanand Kirkire unwind AfterHours? (1:10:01) Game Follow us: Instagram:   / allabouteve_in   Facebook:   / allaboutevein  Pinterest:   / allabouteve_in  Website: https://allabouteve.co.in/#bawramann #munnabhai #alliswell #3iditos #swanandkirkire #musicpodcast #podcast #interview #podcasting #nawazuddinsiddiqui #vidhuvinodchopra #12thfail #bollywood #bollywoodinterview #parineeta

From the Nirgun Nirakar concept of Shiva as pure consciousness to his portrayals as Adiyogi, Nataraj, and Sundareshwar, Amish unpacks Shiva’s contradictions—fierce yet compassionate, elite yet accessible, masculine yet deeply connected to his feminine side. He redefines Shiva as a transformer, not a destroyer, where death is merely a passage to creation. The discussion bridges ancient wisdom with modern science, delving into Shiva’s cosmic connection to the Big Bang, the Hiranyagarbha (golden womb) theory, and parallels between Shaivite beliefs and string theory. Amish also explains the concept of Shiva’s Ansh (divine fragments) rather than full avatars like those of Vishnu, with Hanuman Ji as a prime example. He highlights that each of us carries a spark of Shiva, reflected in the meaning of "Namaste"—"I bow to the divine within you". Amish further explores Shiva’s duality as Mahakal, the timeless one, and Bholenath, the innocent and benevolent. He explains that true strength lies in having a powerful mind with a pure heart, warning that an unclean heart with a sharp mind can be destructive, drawing parallels to Ravana. The conversation also delves into Shiva and Parvati’s inseparable bond, symbolised by Ardhanarishvara, where masculine and feminine energies exist in harmony, not competition. Amish discusses the significance of the 16 Somvar fast, how men should aspire to Shiva’s devotion, and whether prayer is a form of bribery. He argues that life is a transaction, but true intent matters. Amish narrates the inspiring story of Saint Kannappa, who proved that Shiva values sincerity over rituals. He emphasises that rituals are like boats—use them but do not carry them. Amish also highlights the contrast between God-fearing and God-loving faiths. Reflecting on Ravana’s obsessive devotion, Amish warns against faith turning into arrogance. The discussion further explores Shiva’s impartiality, suffering, and justice. Amish explains that Shiva grants power without bias—it is up to individuals to use it wisely. Sharing insights from his Mahakumbh experience, Amish describes it as a transformative celebration of India’s civilisational legacy, where tradition is "not the glorification of ashes but the preservation of fire". Amish also explores Tantra, its power, and the purpose of prayer, explaining that Tantra sees the body as a tool for awakening. Furthermore, Amish dismisses sectarian divisions, affirming that all prayers reach the divine. (00:00) Episode begins(02:40) Who is Lord Shiva? (05:45) Did the big bang occur during Shiva’s tandava? (10:04) Shiva: The transformer, not the destroyer (12:21) Avatar vs Ansh: What’s the difference? (13:02) What compels lord Shiva to send his Ansh? (14:42) Bholenath vs Mahakal: Understanding the two forms (18:29) Bhola means simple, not innocent (19:52) The divine love story of Shiva and Parvati (22:17) The story of Ardhanarishvara: Shiva & Shakti as one (23:59) The logic behind the 16 Somvar fast (24:54) Is every prayer just a transaction? (31:24) How can one truly appease Shiva? (33:16) Do rituals still hold relevance today? (36:08) God-fearing vs god-loving: What’s the difference? (41:06) Ravana’s devotion to Lord Shiva (43:13) Ravana was a Shiva devotee, Hanuman ji is his Ansh—how does that work? (46:21) Is Lord Shiva a strict punisher? (47:17) The deeper meaning of the Maha Kumbh (51:33) Do intentions matter in worship? (52:35) Who are the Aghoris? (57:49) What is tantra? (01:00:36) Does tantra lead to harmful practices? (01:02:50) Should you keep a shivling at home? (01:03:28) Is worshipping Hanuman the same as worshipping Shiva? (01:05:20) Why should one pray to god? (01:06:05) How does Amish Tripathi unwind AfterHours? Follow us: Instagram:   / allabouteve_in   Facebook:   / allaboutevein  #AmishTripathi #mythology #shivatrilogy #LordShiva #Shiva #Mahadev#HinduMythology #hinduism #interview #podcast

In this deeply personal and thought-provoking episode of AfterHours with All About Eve, Bani Anand sits down with poet Nayab Midha for an unfiltered conversation on poetry, privilege, self-acceptance, and the harsh realities of social media. Nayab opens up about her journey—the highs, the lows, and the privileges that come with success. She beautifully articulates how poetry is about emotion and relatability, not power. As the conversation unfolds, Nayab discusses 'Muskurao', a poem that resonated deeply by challenging society’s perception of failure. She shares how poetry became an act of unlearning, breaking free from academic expectations and embracing storytelling. The podcast shifts to self-love and beauty standards as Nayab recites 'Tum Khubsurat Ho', a poem urging people to embrace their flaws. From being shamed for her curly hair and husky voice to finding confidence in her uniqueness, she credits her mother for teaching her resilience and empathy. But with recognition comes vulnerability. Nayab recalls how her deeply personal poem Papa Perfectionist Hai was reduced to a meme, sparking hate and trolling. Bani and Nayab explore gender roles and societal conditioning. Nayab shares a moment from the pandemic when her brother, frustrated with household chores, used "feminist" as an insult. The discussion expands into relationships and the red flags that are often ignored. Nayab examines how generational shifts have shaped women’s roles—grandmothers were confined to their homes, mothers balanced both worlds, and today’s women challenge gendered expectations. She critiques how men are raised to chase success, while women are conditioned to see marriage as their ultimate goal, creating an imbalance in how both perceive freedom—a theme she explores in her show Rajkumari. Nayab reflects on love and emotional security, admitting she once tested her partner’s patience, knowing that once deeply in love, leaving becomes harder. She confesses that she worried whether earning more than her partner would create tension, but the biggest green flag? Nothing makes him insecure. The interview moves to the three things Nayab would never give up in love—her self-respect, dreams, and rights. The episode concludes on a playful yet insightful note with "What’s the Catch?", where Nayab deciphers hidden relationship red flags—partners who subtly undermine ambition or remain silent in front of family. (00:00) Episode begins (01:59) What does it feel like to be so young and self-made? (02:48) What has helped Nayab connect with people? (04:33) Why did she struggle in school? (07:23) Does she resent the years of her childhood when she couldn’t figure herself out? (09:00) ‘Tum Khoobsurat Ho’(10:07) The values Nayab holds dearest (13:53) The worst thing she has read about herself on social media (17:53) Do her parents feel she shares too much about their family? (20:55) On patriarchy (23:55) Nayab’s perspective on equality and feminism (25:10) "Feminist kahin ki!"(28:00) What would Nayab say to young girls about making money? (32:04) Are bangles shackles for women? (35:32) We have sold the dream of marriage to women and the dream of success to men.(40:31) How Nayab used to test her partner (46:07) The little things she enjoys doing with her partner (48:48) One-sided love – Nayab’s thoughts (51:21) Humans enjoy passion as an emotion(54:05) Three things she will never give up for love (55:23) The difference between adjustment and compromise (56:35) How does Nayab unwind AfterHours? (57:52) Game – ‘What’s the Catch?’ Follow us: Instagram:   / allabouteve_in   Facebook:   / allaboutevein  Pinterest:   / allabouteve_in  Website: https://allabouteve.co.in/#nayabmidha #poetry #poet #podcast #interview #relationship #feminism #love #marriage #marriedlife #socialmedia #muskurao