Ron Trewyn, a Vietnam veteran and Vice President for Research Emeritus at Kansas State University, truly has a story to tell. He not only wrote the book "Vietnam's War of Hate—Proud Military Veterans Vilified at Home," but he also shares his difficult return home. Ron offers valuable suggestions for Aging Gratefully, reminding us to value each day, value friends and family, and remember the "we" instead of "me" in this often divisive world.